| Be honest, girls; what is that thing you like?
Posted: 5/31/2007 11:13:44 PM | Hi,
Okay, ladies and other ladies, now is your chance to do what you've always wanted to do: Tell the world of those little things you like.
Let me give you a bit of background. I'm the sort of guy who is never satisfied with himself. Instead of just going out there and becoming good at something, I strive to become the best. My current life goal is to become a great lover, one of the best in history. I want to hear from all the ladies in here, what little thing they love the most. Maybe it's someone pulling your hair right up the scruff of the neck? Maybe it's someone biting the inside of your elbows? Maybe it's caressing the little hidden piece of skin under your knee? Maybe it's having your neck bitten? Maybe it's something awesome somewhere else? We know about "that" erogenous zone. We've got that one too. Stay away from there. mention the subtle things that drive you crazy, that you just love.
Go all out, and if you do your best, you may find that the next guy you're with knows that thing you like! | |
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| Be honest, girls; what is that thing you like?
Posted: 5/31/2007 11:21:07 PM | | Every woman is different. Some like it rough, some like it slow and soft and sensual. The key to being the best lover is to communicate and find out what she likes and do it. Oh and different guys are different at certain things. There was one thing I didn't really like until my one ex. And I have yet to find a guy who does it like him, so I haven't enjoyed it nearly as much since I was with him. | |
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| Be honest, girls; what is that thing you like?
Posted: 6/1/2007 12:05:38 AM | sounds to me engineeringemo your striving to have the biggest ego
the way to become a good lover isnt about knowing which bit to pull and when its about connecting with the person your with so that they will in turn go off and brag about you.
its gotta be a complete package not just 1 little thing.
sure he made my toes curl when he did xxxxxx but his snoring and farting really turned me off!! | |
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| Be honest, girls; what is that thing you like?
Posted: 6/1/2007 4:33:44 AM | Nice one 2matchingsocks :)
Exactly what I was thinking. 'It' also starts in the brain..... the biggest turn on ever is being with a man who you connect to on every level. | |
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| Be honest, girls; what is that thing you like?
Posted: 6/1/2007 4:49:00 AM | My current life goal is to become a great lover, one of the best in history.
The one thing men don't get....Any kind of indifference, inconsideration, hurtfulness, neglect, and more then likely you won't get sex.NOT because we're keeping it from you purposely (although I know some women do) but because we can't feel one emotion without the other.... We don't think like men, with us it starts from the inside out..
I have a neighbor of mine, that has a great marriage, and I asked him once what he does to keep it that way. He says..... "I never forget a birthday, or an anniversary. When she's upset, I stay out of her way, and when I'm pissed at her, I throw a smile on my face and tell her I love her anyway....It gets me laid, everytime" | |
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| Be honest, girls; what is that thing you like?
Posted: 6/1/2007 5:05:52 AM | | To accomplish that you need to be good out of bed too , you did say lover and for alot of us women that begins before we ever get in bed ! Woman are very intutive and we love it when are man can sense what we need and not put themselves first , yes we know all about men being visual but IMO you need to use your other head , listen to what a woman is trying to tell you . if she is aggressive respond with the same , if she is shy then take it slow, be like a jeti knight USE THE FORCE ! | |
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| Be honest, girls; what is that thing you like?
Posted: 6/1/2007 5:24:22 AM | | I like it when a man knows that sex starts way before you hit the sack. It starts in the morning with a smile and a hug, maybe a little nibble on the neck. It starts with that gleam in his eyes as he looks at you before heading on his way for the day. It starts with that little pat on the butt as he walks by. It starts in the mind and the actions of the day, and hey maybe you won't have to wait until you hit the hay. | |
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| Be honest, girls; what is that thing you like?
Posted: 6/1/2007 6:23:43 AM | | To be a great lover you have to have the intiution to know what she wants by listening, learning, being thorough, selfless and having patience. There is no skill or technique that every woman likes, the trick is to know them all and apply the ones who work for the woman you're making love to. | |
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| Be honest, girls; what is that thing you like?
Posted: 6/1/2007 6:25:30 AM | | I prefer to NOT TELL...let the man I'm with explore and find my special likes on his own....if a man isn't willing to explore well that makes him a lousy lover and he'll be kicked out of my bed for good. | |
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| Be honest, girls; what is that thing you like?
Posted: 6/1/2007 10:02:59 AM | tinydancer has the idea. There are certain points on a woman's body which simply aren't all that useful. "Does it makes you feel sexy when I rub that ugly flap of skin on the outside of your elbow? Oh yeah, you like that, don't you? It's like licking a rotten apple! I love rotten apples!"
Being able to have some idea of the spots that she'll enjoy will certainly speed up the process of figuring out the spots she REALLY likes.
You know, this is why it took medical science 2000 years to discover the clitoris. (Look up "Female Hysteria" if you don't believe me)
I'm an INTJ personality type, so my way of doing things is to turn things into a method. Don't impale me for thinking differently than you do, EF types. | |
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| Be honest, girls; what is that thing you like?
Posted: 6/1/2007 10:09:58 AM | I like that of the first response.
But the comments about being willing to explore are very true. No let me rephrase that. VERY true.
2000 years? dating back to BC I guess. Look up the Kinsey Institute, founded by Alfred Kinsey in 1947. I went to Indiana and most of my classes were next to that building  . | |
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| Be honest, girls; what is that thing you like?
Posted: 6/1/2007 10:19:59 AM | Yes, I was taking Greek medicine and Aristotle and people like him to be the genesis of medicine proper.
Seriously though, unless I'm planning on printing off a list of all 2000 parts and spending about 16 hours in a bedroom just stimulating each body part to see which stimulus causes which response, I'm going to have to optimize somehow, and how better than to just ask a large group of women what they enjoy?
"Oh, I'm going to use this tool to "bite", then "lick" then "touch" your 4th molar, bottom row, top face. Ok, it doesn't appear that you enjoyed that at all. Movinb on, 4th molar, bottom row, outward face..."
People can call it ego, but I call it setting my sights high. I know full well I'm a terrible lover, but if I'm going to admit that, and I'm going to go out and become better so I can make the person I love happy, I might as well say I want to be the best ever, rather than just mediocre. | |
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