| what info would send you running on a first date. Posted: 6/1/2007 1:50:44 PM | Here is a interesting question that came up on another thread that i though would be fun to discuss. What could someone tell you on a first date that would send you running for the hills??
For me i think if someone were to tell me "i have been to jail" or what one guy i was talking but did not meet told me was he was under house arrest.So what would freak you out. | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date. Posted: 6/1/2007 1:57:30 PM | | "Damn I like you so very much. The bodies of the others that I liked as much are piling up and starting to stink in the basement. Where the hell am I going to put you?" | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date. Posted: 6/1/2007 2:04:51 PM | info that would send me running.. anything direspectful, racist, sexist, rude, arrogant, mean or otherwise just plain stupid..
I went on a date with a guy onces who leaned towards me and said.. I'm ready to straighten out my life.. just got out of jail and I need a good woman whose going to steer me in the right direction..
yup.. I steer alright.. my car right on outta there.. | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date. Posted: 6/1/2007 2:22:22 PM | These are quite humorous ...... since being on the PoF site, here are a few I have come across:
I've been in jail. I live with my mother. I never see my children. My last relationship was with a 21 year old woman I'm unemployed I don't own a computer I don't own a phone I cannot give you a phone number I have a drinking problem I have a drug problem I have no friends I've never been married I haven't had sex in a long time I have no money I need money I need a place to live I can't pay my bills
I guess if I gave it more thought, Iprobably could come up with some more.
I tell you .....makes a woman wonder why these guys are on a dating site.
Happy Fishing !!!  | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date. Posted: 6/1/2007 3:41:34 PM | A man that is bisexual - sorry its bad enough competing with other women- Im not competing with guys too- Yeah me against a hot guy for his affection - No thats okay - Hmm but Im thinking other shit now- Maybe this wouldnt be so bad-LOL!!! | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date. Posted: 6/1/2007 4:40:40 PM | "i have been to jail"
It would depend on WHY before seeing it as a possible red flag. A dear friend of mine who is the most law-abiding and honest citizen spent a night in jail for an unpaid parking ticket years ago.
Sometimes I note possible "problems" on first dates but also hope we get a second chance because first dates can also go wrong due to nerves.
I guess if I heard "I murdered my wife" or "You're the third PoF lady I have met today." , I'd be pushing my chair away from the table.
Any kind of preaching or lecturing would be a huge turn-off so Bible thumpers, Jehovah's Witnesses, touchy-feely New Age practitioners, Scientologists beware along with any man who is totally wrapped up in himself and his field of "EXPERTISE".
I don't like hearing about sexual prowess ever and certainly not at the first meet-up. In fact, any blatant sexual conversation makes me think CREEP.
I'd also wonder about a man with children who had little or no contact with them and, most certainly, wouldn't want to pursue a possible relationship with a man who bad-mouthed his ex-wife/SO.
They say you shouldn't judge a book by its cover but, I'm sorry, you go out with me, you dress appropriately for the venue....I don't want to have to look at last night's dinner spattered down the front of your shirt ever! And no baseball cap!
I'm sure there's more!
RVL | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date. Posted: 6/1/2007 4:58:30 PM | Hmm... lemme add a few: -------------------------------------------- ~ I'm married but it's okay because we have an open relationship. ~ Let me show you a good time, baby. ~ I'm not looking for another friend. (then why'd you write to me, doofus?) ~ I hate cats. ~ who were you just talking to? ~ can you lend me $5? (or any amount) ~ I believe bathing interferes with the body's natural essence. | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date. Posted: 6/1/2007 5:05:23 PM | (( I believe bathing interferes with the body's natural essence.)) OMG!! that is just to gross and extremely funny in a sick way . Yeah that would make me get up and run too. | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date. Posted: 6/1/2007 5:27:13 PM | All the above make really good excuses if you don't want to see someone again
OT: Heard on a first date, "Anyone who becomes my girlfriend wouldn't have to work anymore..." | |
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| what info would send you running on a first date. Posted: 6/1/2007 5:55:10 PM | fwens : "All the above make really good excuses if you don't want to see someone again "
My sentiments exactly ........ what were they thinking ........ or not thinking for that matter. Throwing my bait back in ..... and then they wonder ....why you're not returning their calls ......  | |
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