| I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/2/2007 12:15:21 PM | My ex just came for a week of sex and put it to me bluntly:
No shaved pubes, no sex. I opted for the later and she split two days later. She had so many rules and demands that I am relieved that she's gone. What a ****ing headache! She expected me to jump at her every whim and rarely said "please." Nothing was ever enough. We originally broke up when I refused to get rid of my dog... She doesn't like dogs... I figured that if I were to give in...there would be another demand...and another... Little deaths until my self-esteem was totally destroyed. After taking all this crap I didn't want to **** her anyway!
How come american women have become so rude/shallow/controlling/manipulative? Have american men become so emasculated by the women that we haven't noticed, or even questioned it? As a result, women in this country have become a real pain in the ass! They have become an "energy deficit." (It takes more enery than they're worth!) They wonder why we import women from other countries...
To me, guys who shave their pubes are not very masculine. If this means that I won't get as much sex so be it. If women are this demanding let them go find someone they can boss around. That won't be me!
That's the great thing about being a single man. We don't have to take a lot of shit! And, yes, I still have my dog! And, my self-esteem!
I keep reading threads on shaving where no one has objected to shaving pubes. Am I the only man here that has the strength to say NO?
And, plentyoffish: remove this thread and I will quit participating. This is your site but I am expressing my FREE SPEECH. Censor me and I won't return. | |
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| I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/2/2007 12:21:54 PM | i agree with it all man. people are haters sometimes. women are a product of men for the most part. you can't say its only women who are rude shallow controlling and manipulative. just because its the commercial thing to do you don't have to shave your pubs. you go man!  | |
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| I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/2/2007 12:52:14 PM | I agree with alot of what you said, you should not have to change for someone to want to be with you, if they are not there because of who you are now then why be there at all.. Somethings will change change is a good thing.. but you do it because you want to, like stop smoking, cuz you know its healthier anyway, and your partner might just want to kiss you alot more..  and thats a really good thing...
As far as shaved pubic hair, well I do not think it has anything to do with masculinity. That is more a state of mind and the way you carry yourself.. I have tried shaved.. because a women I as with, because she thought it was a turn on, and personally I like to try and satisfy
her desires, and it was actually better as far a sensation , puts a whole new light on things.. lol.. | |
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| I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/2/2007 1:03:02 PM | Dude,
I don't have a dog...or a gf at this point, but when things settle down? I'll have another Rott and if someone tells me either the dog goes or they do? I'd kick their little monkey a s s to the door in a heartbeat.
Sounds like you dodged a big bullet...and you're right, single guys don't have to take any s h i t....then again, that could be why were single...but, we don't take none...
Cheers! | |
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| I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/2/2007 1:03:41 PM | Blah blah blah!!!
Women this, men this!! We are all rude, we all want what we can't have!! Just leave her to it!! Let her demand someone else. Its her loss, not yours! | |
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| I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/2/2007 1:05:08 PM | | Thanks for your support. Maybe I am off-center challenging the masculinity of guys who shave their pubes. It's just that I have never had this issue before this demanding woman put it to me. It's never come up in conversations with my male friends. Since this has happened I have asked male friendsn about shaving and they have cringed at the thought of a razor in such close proximity to their man-parts. And, the stubble. Anyway, since this woman split life has become much simpler. Besides, I get all the sex I want (with my self) and can fall asleep immediately afterward! God, I love being single! | |
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| The FEMINIZATION OF THE PLANET
Posted: 6/2/2007 1:14:29 PM | OH Dude, Didn't you KNOW? Men are told they're stupid in school, encouraged to smoke dope and drink coffee (out of styrene cups) BOTH of which produce huge spikes in ESTROGEN production. We make but a dribble of the TESTOSTERONE we used to produce in "the good old days." In another 25 years the average male will be shooting blanks totally. Women will run the world through a series of committees and self-help groups. Guns will be banned and most meals will consist of some form of Tofu - another good source of estrogen. Male pubic hair will be removed genetically before birth. Women will be fined if they even have their pits!!!
If the "men" of today were the ones colonizing North America back in the 15th/16th centuries it would be all us honkies on sh!tty little reserves (but we WOULD own all the Casinos) way off in the sticks today. Our women wouldn't have allowed us to encroach on their land and we would have had to take classes in Culture Appreciation and Sensitization. The internal combustion engine NEVER would have been invented because it didn't smell pretty and was loud. That's the good news. The bad news is the whole of North America would be so over-run in Bison and Moose and Cougars, etc etc that you wouldn't have been able to drive more than 50ft without smashing into one. Another reason cars just never would have happened. No body could read or write because no one would be allowed to cut down any trees (too pretty and they feeeel) so no papers to bring bad news or be used by politicians to rile the pop up and go to war over whatever we have gone to war over in the past - well pretty much anything. Nope. Would never have happened. Women are perfect and would never have allowed any of our present problems to develop. NONE!!
The other bad news is that without engines and factories the next ICE AGE woulda hit about 1850 and we'd all be sitting either on or under 15,000 feet of glaciation.
Then you have the Muslims. If women get too uppity in those countries (like revealing their faces, looking out a window or being able to read - baaad stuff like that) they are taken out, stoned, beheaded and otherwise discouraged from, in any way shape or form, joining the human race.
I may be on drugs here but I think the human race could maybe one day settle for some kind of middle of the road compromise. Probably too much to hope for but just a thought.
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| I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/2/2007 1:23:05 PM | My preference is for a shaved scrotum and well trimmed everywhere else. I will ask, might even offer to do it for you, but would never make it a demand or ultimatum. Just know that with out all the extra fur, I'm more apt to spend way more time in that zone with my tongue then if it's au natural.
Oh.. and I always say please. 
And OP.. at your age I wouldn't expect you to be up for trying something new. | |
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| The FEMINIZATION OF THE PLANET
Posted: 6/2/2007 1:28:55 PM | I guess that men are becoming obsolete. I remember way back .. when I lived in Kona. The two local guys who ran the pound never killed an animal that wasn't either sick, or dying. They found homes for all of them. The inHumane Society took over... All women... only one male employee. They made it so difficult to adopt a pet (a fenced yard was required) that they killed more animals than they adopted out. The sole male employee's job was to kill approx 50 dogs/cats a week by placing them in a "gas chamber" hooked to the exhaust of a truck.
Maybe there is a reason that Muslem countries oppress women so badly.
Maybe they don't want this happening to them.... | |
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| I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/2/2007 1:30:20 PM | Ok..........for the Sake of Discussion, I have a question:
YOUR EX came over for a Week of Sex????? Does this happen often? You make reference that have been Other Times that you two have got together, only to end up with you feeling like you are the one ALWAYS giving in........
This time, her demand went too far..........how long is THIS going to last???????
Why in the World would you Want to have maintain that kind of relationship in the First place? Is it because you are using her? Obviously the physical attraction is still there....but you two can't get along.......when are y'all going to accept that?
Look......just face facts and move on!! The only victory you will get out of this is simply stay away from ANYONE who constantly nags you and makes you miserable!! She didn't put a GUN to your head and Force you to accept her at your place, did she??? 
Let's get a little Real/Fair here.......
Move on and Don't worry about it..........neither one of you are making each other Happy........let the Ex remain Ex........You finally declared Your Final Say. Now, just move on with it......
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| I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/2/2007 1:31:28 PM | ~OP~ I agree on the "I won't change" blah blah stuff, but the simple reality is: she wasn't asking you to donate a kidney. If you found her request de-masculating, maybe you should evaluate that ~ most professional body builders, swimmers, runners, and a few construction workers I know personally ~ prefer it the other way. Meaning, no one on the outside of your pants would know the difference, except YOU. Hey to each their own, I'm sure you held firm to your belief, and her leaving says she did to. Sounds like it worked out just fine.
~OT~ Sorry guys, for me, it's shaved or it's not happening. I have no interest in the whole chia-pet thing.    | |
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| I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/2/2007 1:48:12 PM | i'm fine with basic compromises, but not major things that i care about.
dogs? if a woman doesn't like my monsters she's gone.
as far as the pubes go, i find most of the women i've been with in past few years (not that many, relax) prefer a trimmed shrub. i don't care either way so i accomodate. i use a clipper with a number 2 attachment. apparently it leads to fewer strays in her mouth. | |
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| I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/2/2007 1:55:40 PM | I am not saying that I won't change. I change continually, we all do. The ancient saying is: "you can't step in the same river twice." I have changed since I posted this thread. But, I would to be able to exert some control over this change, not have this change manipulated.
Maybe, if I had loved her, and her communication skills were better, I would have trimmed up. But the demands had reached critical mass and got to the point that I didn't care if we had sex again. Her credibility as a human being was lacking. I just lost interest. Many men have taken so much shit that they just don't care anymore. The "dysfunction" is the emasculation of the american male. Women can't brow-beat, or continually criticize, us and expect us to get it up on demand. We are men.
Besides, the stubble would bug good ol' Johny, my loveable chia pet. And..he might get a little chilly down there... And, I wouldn't even consider shaving my head (unless I was really drunk!).
Me, I could care less if a woman shaves her bush, armpits or legs. And have always thought that this expectation of women was grossly unfair and sexist. | |
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| I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/2/2007 2:26:20 PM | Well, at least you proved that not all men are all about the heat seeking missile.
In reality, and consequently in most relationships, the woman sets the pace (in general this seems to be the case). They have most of the control whether we realize it or not(and there are some guys who try and fool themselves). This is proven time-and-time again. But, you stood up for yourself and actually showed that a man can become so disgusted with a woman's behaviors and attitudes (even one he finds sexually appealing, or they are a sure thing) that he gets turned off.
Bravo.
I am not the kind of person to be an advocate of the 'us vs. them' gender thing... I would much rather we could all get along and be honest and real with one another. It seems like people are too much into playing 'tag you're it' games with their relationships; whether they be romantic, family, or friends...
Some people might think this guy is just stubborn and crotchety... I doubt it, but I don't know him. It just sounds like he got fed up, because she let him down.
the giggleparts - I would shave more... but, when introducing sharp objects to that area... I start to shake and sweat a little too much. | |
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| I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/2/2007 2:30:39 PM | | Everybody has their preferences. I've discovered a little more sensitivity where the hair is trimmed and a lot more sensitivity where the hair is shaven completely. But it's not right if it is demanded. | |
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| I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/2/2007 2:53:41 PM | Wow ... all that ranting over some pubes?
That's what ya get for (f)uckin your ex, dude -- bad karma.
Kinda reminds me of a dog going back to its vomit for some reason. It's pointless. | |
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| I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/2/2007 3:04:02 PM | ^^^^OMFG ~ Tiny, you kill me. That has to be the funniest thing I've read allllll day, maybe ever. I've often thought about that dog thing....but I would have NEVER posted it in public. ROTFLMAO
~OP~ Seriously, I have to agree with your subsequent post about communication. Obviously, I was being glib/sarcastic ~ because truth be told, it's not a matter of shaving ~ it's a matter of what works for both parties. She was demanding, you weren't budging ... maybe that's why we are ex-this or that.
Nevertheless, I have to agree with the ^^^ above (not about the dog thing...still LMAO  ) but about the sensitivity factor. I'm a novice at this stage in life, by choice, but I have many men friends who don't do it for a women, they shave their little buddies for their own personal sensitivity factor. To each their own ~ it's what some like, some don't, and some require. Personal preference, much like everything else in life.  | |
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| I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/2/2007 3:09:18 PM | [qoute]How come american women have become so rude/shallow/controlling/manipulative?[/qoute].....Of course another American women blah blah blah thread ,just because the women you allow in your life happen to be ones that are demanding ,energy deficit or whatever does'nt mean we're all from the same mold....personally reading this thread it sound's to me like maybe women's independance and change from year's of past bother's you.
By all mean's go get yourself an imported women ...hopefully she wont take you to the cleaner's and back once she picks up us American women's way's | |
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| I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/2/2007 3:12:14 PM | | You know, I feel as long as a man takes care of himself, it isn't an issue. Smell and hair can be sensual, but smelly and hair caught in your teeth and running up your nose cutting off your beathing.....isn't fun for either party. | |
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