| Forbidden Fruit 3
Posted: 6/5/2007 7:51:51 AM | | After you get over your initial shock of this thread, I would appreciate some honest intelligent feedback. I'm recently out of an 8 year relationship with 2 women. One of the women died in an auto accident and we chose not to continue with just us 2. I loved both of them, they loved me and each other. I'm now looking for a similar relationship. Female bisxuality seems to be at an all time high AND there seems to be 7 or 8 women for every man worth having. I'm talking about a LONG TERM relationship, not a wild weekend. If you throw out all the biblical crap, why isn't this more accepted in our society? I would appreciate your comments (minus the personal attacks) concerning this subject. | |
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| Forbidden Fruit 3
Posted: 6/7/2007 11:01:49 AM | | I was really hoping for some input on this. I guess this type of relationship is still too much for our society to accept. | |
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| Forbidden Fruit 3
Posted: 6/8/2007 6:46:15 AM | | I think most women don't like to share their man. Maybe one in every 1000 women will go for this. There probably aren't a lot on here. | |
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| Forbidden Fruit 3
Posted: 6/8/2007 7:28:24 AM | | i understand. but in my relationship, i didn't belong to a person, i belonged to the relationship. it's pretty cool when each person's needs are taken care of without jealousy or control. each person has their own life and you are never alone. hard to explain. thanks for your input. | |
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| Forbidden Fruit 3
Posted: 6/17/2007 7:30:46 AM | | my girl has a girlfriend......much luck......more luck with the weekend thing i think | |
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| Forbidden Fruit 3
Posted: 6/17/2007 6:51:46 PM | | If you're looking for more input, I honestly suggest finding a board specifically for other poly's. You probably won't find much luck on a dating site aimed at 30 somethings. | |
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Posted: 6/18/2007 10:47:32 AM | | thanks for the suggestion barfly. i've had only a couple responses here. didn't know poly sites existed. like i stated initially, i'm not looking for a sex site, or swinger site. i really am looking for long term. also, if pof was aiming at 30 somethings, i think they missed by about a decade. (at least in florida) | |
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Posted: 6/18/2007 3:43:41 PM | | Must be something I've got set up on my end, then. I'm getting a lot of late 20's early 30's single moms. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2007 12:28:20 PM | | just thought i'd bring this one back to page 1. the others looked boring. | |
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| Forbidden Fruit 3
Posted: 6/27/2007 8:27:32 PM |
why isn't this more accepted in our society
Well, judging by the fact that there are tons of forums here with tons of responses maybe it isn't about what is accepted as to interest? I would say that the majority are just not interested in that kind of a relationship, many can't make it work with two let alone three. | |
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| Forbidden Fruit 3
Posted: 6/28/2007 7:52:09 AM | thanks blond7,
if i could tolerate that religion...maybe. even if i could, i don't think they sleep in the same bed. i appreciate the input though. | |
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| Forbidden Fruit 3
Posted: 7/3/2007 11:36:58 PM | | Shaking my head, too. Not at your lifestyle, but trying to figure out how you walk away from a woman you've loved for 8 years, just because one of your threesome died. | |
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| Forbidden Fruit 3
Posted: 7/4/2007 3:10:54 AM | I am curious when you say "we chose not to continue"
I suspect she chose not to continue, cause finding another
woman to join your menage shouldnt be that hard
if so many women are bi, as you say.
I suspect the woman that was left just wasnt that into you..
Or she would have
loved to have you all to herself.
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| Forbidden Fruit 3
Posted: 7/9/2007 10:25:36 AM | | for someone your age, you are remarkably uninformed about these types of relationships. you don't just "find" another woman and plug her into a slot. unless, it was all about sex and neither of you really cared who was there. ours was truly a relationship of 3 people. when one died, the relationship died. every reference to the past had painful emotions attached. something as simple as dinner or a tv show made us have to deal with our loss daily. "we" chose not to continue. do you think that women are the only deciders on these types of things? check the numbers sweetie. supply and demand. there are at least 6 women over 40 for every man worth having. i had as much to say about what happened as she did. nice try though....you still bitter about me not throwing stones at OLD women? | |
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| Forbidden Fruit 3
Posted: 7/15/2007 2:48:21 AM | | Truffles6 - This is a troll post. Ignore it. | |
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| Forbidden Fruit 3
Posted: 7/15/2007 3:28:03 PM | hey rex,
read your profile. i'm sure that you love you very much. nobody could possibly love you the proper way. you teach in your profile. you didn't even suggest to truffles to ignore the post...you TOLD her to ignore it. if you were as smart as you thought you were ( and your profile enlightens us on this point) i'm sure that your self absorbed mensa ass would already be controlling some poor unsuspecting young girl and you would be in your perfect relationship. does puffing and professing your mental superiority over the rest of us compensate for a short penis perhaps? | |
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Posted: 7/15/2007 6:14:41 PM | | Hey there little man. We figured out that you were the DUI that killed #2 and that's why #3 dumped you. From what you've written here, she made a good choice. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2007 11:10:56 AM | | for someone who professes to be sooooo smart, your'e an idiot. | |
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Posted: 7/17/2007 4:26:03 AM | SEEKING UNIQUE says:
for someone
Isn't trolling inappropriate on this forum? | |
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| Forbidden Fruit 3
Posted: 7/18/2007 12:03:34 PM | hi, i'm 5'10" tall and superior to everyone. i'm looking for a woman young enough to be my daughter (but not any older than that) not larger than a size 8. i don't smoke (the cigars do that for me). i tend to write things like "hey little man". please overlook statements like that and all the puffing i do about myself. i know that any dime store shrink could see that i'm terribly insecure, but i'm really hoping that you are stupid enough to not see that. i appear on ZERO people's favorite list, but know that they are wrong not to want me.
#3 died at the hands of a drunk driver in the miami area attending a fund raiser for the american cancer society. that's as close as you got to the truth. thanks for bringing it up. | |
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| Forbidden Fruit 3
Posted: 7/18/2007 4:40:11 PM | | Can't you people just get along!!!!!!!! Just because someones life style is differant than your own doesn't make it wrong. While I do not like to share my man, I can see where a relantionship like that might work for some people. I think I understand why you chose not to continue with each other. The pain of that kind of loss drives even the most commited husbands and wives apart. You here about the loss of a parent or child tearing apart a family often. I'm sorry for your loss and hope you find what you are looking for again. Don't close your mind to a traditional relantionship though, it might be just what you need even if it's not what you think you want. | |
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| Forbidden Fruit 3
Posted: 7/19/2007 1:40:55 PM | thanks maggie,
i think that this is probably the wrong place to find what i'm looking for. i don't know that i could explain all the emotions associated with what i went through(without writing a book).when i joined this site, my original thinking was "what could it hurt"? in retrospect, i now think it was probably a bad idea. my last relationship was a truly unique, wonderful time in my life. trying to "refind" that magic is probably impossible here or anywhere else. i appreciate your compassion and open mind and wish you good luck in your search. | |
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| Forbidden Fruit 3
Posted: 7/22/2007 8:53:32 PM | I can say I understand the type of relationship you are talking about . I am a woman that has met the perfect man for me and I know hes the perfect man for numerous other woman. I don't understand why the thought of another woman joining our relationship is so frowned upon. I am looking for another woman to join our RELATIONSHIP and never knew it would be this hard. Knowing you had a wonderful 8 year relationship gives me hope and makes me a little jealous, on the other hand I am truly sorry for your lost. There is still hope because the're still woman like me looking for another woman to join our RELATIONSHIP and have a trio. A little advice I would give from my point of view that definetly helped me is to find a woman, get comfortable and really get to know eachother, then as 2, both of you take part in finding your 3. In the end you will be confident that both of you made the decision and are satisfied with the one you choose. Well Good Luck in you quest as I will in mine. | |
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