| What a Kiss can tell you.
Posted: 6/6/2007 3:14:17 PM | OK so we have all discussed love at first sight at some point in life. So what about kissing........
1) That first long lingering passionate kiss does that usually give you some indication as to whether or not you would consider the next step of intimacy.
2) If they are a really bad kisser does it become an instant turn off and become time to run.
My opinion
1) Oh yes a good old week at the knees kind of passionate kiss usually has me rushing up the stairs
2) I'm guilty sloppy kissers and i mean really sloppy they have me running for the door every time.
So what about you guys............... | |
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| What a Kiss can tell you.
Posted: 6/6/2007 5:02:31 PM | To this day I can still feel the ultimate kiss from one certain guy.. his lips so soft and warm but wet so inviting and thrilling he could make my knees melt in a minute . we dated for sometime and he KNEW if he leaned over and grabbed me and started kissing me no matter HOW mad I was at him , I would forget everything.
I dont think I have ever had a really bad kisser though, I have had guys nervous and I could tell in their kiss , but as I took the lead things got better. | |
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| What a Kiss can tell you.
Posted: 6/6/2007 5:04:54 PM | If the first kiss is not at least OK, I lose my interest. Even if I thought I was wildly attracted to that person.
If the first kiss (or the second or third) is wonderful than it usually increases my interest in that person.
That's my two cents,
Walt | |
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| What a Kiss can tell you.
Posted: 6/6/2007 5:08:31 PM | | Well considering that the only kissing I do nowadays is to my pillow while drifting in and out of sleep, I'm guessing it can tell me that I'm a wee bit amorous when I'm half asleep. | |
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Posted: 6/6/2007 6:38:58 PM | WHAT IS A KISS ANY WAY?
An instant connection.....?
A promise of perfection....?
A lingering sense that you want more.....?
And a desire to be no where else, but where you are, in that exact moment....!!
I DON'T KNOW ABOUT YOU>>>>BUT I WANT KISSES LIKE THAT!!
I'd rather that, than wondering if I'll still have makeup on my face or a tissue to descretly remove the saliva off.
Now don't get me wrong.....Sloppy kisses have their place in a relationship,but that's when you have a comfort zone and a playful manner/banter established.
Sloppy kisses put out, rather than kindle flames!! | |
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| What a Kiss can tell you.
Posted: 6/7/2007 12:31:12 AM | Okay, let me preface this by saying that I didn't date for 21 years before the beginning of this year and I really can't remember much about kissing all those years ago, so I have only limited kissing experience right now. But I can still give my opinion. Yes, that first long lingering kiss tells me if I want to do more. A bad kisser (a big slab o' tongue flopping around in my mouth) is definitely an instant turn-off and does make me wanna run.
A good kisser.....I'll probably do whatever he wants. I'm a pushover. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2007 2:58:28 AM | | Kissing is SO important!! A great kiss will have me melted and going wild. A terrible kisser (either slobbery or maternal-like) will have me kicking them to the curb. Have met some guys who don't like to kiss at all...is this normal?? Ew! | |
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Posted: 6/7/2007 3:16:46 AM | I absolutely love kissing and it seals the deal if I continue dating someone or not...
Kisses tend to say quite a bit ~ For instance;
Does he love me I wanna know...how can I tell if he loves me so?
Is it in his eyes? Oh no you'll be deceived...
Is it in his eyes? Oh no he'll make believe...
If you wanna know if he loves you so ~ It's in his kiss ~ That's where it is...
Or is it in his face? Oh no it's just his charms...
In his warm embrace? Oh no that's just his arms...
If you wanna know if he loves you so ~ It's in his kiss ~ That's where it is...
Woah ~ It's in his kiss ~ That's where it is...
Woah hug him and squeeze him tight ~ Find out what you want to know....
If it's love if it really is ~ It's there in his kiss...
How 'bout the way he acts? Oh no that's not the way...
And you're not listening to all I said...
If you wanna know if he loves you so ~ It's in his kiss ~ That's where it is...
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Posted: 6/7/2007 5:05:15 AM | | Kissing is VERY important to me...there can be no real connection (at least for me) without it. If the initial kisses don't make my heart flip or at least dampen my drawers, pretty good chance this is turning into friendship only or he's being kicked to the curb. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2007 5:54:09 AM | | The first Kiss??? Hmmmm everything and yet ... maybe its the second kiss that gets ya, or, maybe its the third.......(mmmm now Im thinking about kissing) I dont really think you can base anything on those first awkward kisses but overall what led up to that kiss? wheres that kiss going? whats behind that kiss???? Is there going to be more? Do you want more? But oddly ... Kisses do matter. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2007 6:14:55 AM | | It wasnt until recently that i realised how important kissing is. I found it really difficult to get over a really bad kisser. i just didnt enjoy kissing the guy. he kept his tongue in my mouth throughout the whole kiss its not pleasent! | |
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Posted: 6/7/2007 6:28:44 AM | Well, for me, if someone can't kiss, I don't want them. I love kissing with someone who can do it right. I remember one LTR I had that was a little inebriated the first time we kissed and I thought he was going to swallow me! I actually said "Damn! You didn't have enough to eat for dinner?" He was shocked, but I explained how I liked to be kissed, and he did, and O-M-G!!! From then on, it was kissing, kissing and more kissing. He was the best kisser I ever had, and I still use him as a benchmark... | |
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| What a Kiss can tell you.
Posted: 6/7/2007 7:36:44 AM | I have to say from personal experience, a bad kisser slowly drove a wedge between me and a few prospective dates. To me a good kiss is where the tongues "dance" and not try to wrestle the other one into submission!
One lady would try her best to place her whole tongue permanantly in my mouth. Another one loved to lick my moustache. I mean to the point that it was dripping with her saliva! GGGGrrrrroooossss!
How can a person tell someone that they are turning you off without offending them? | |
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Posted: 6/7/2007 7:40:57 AM | To this day I can still feel the ultimate kiss from one certain guy
Good God Christi66-
So can I - I was 17 years old - and it was the most intense passionate - oh God
I can still feel it if I think about it-LOL!!
It was awesome and I made the mistake of telling a supposed friend (hey I was 17)
about how great it was. I was sick one night and could not go out so she took
that opportunity to find out for herself- I made him cry after I found out.
Since then - No one has ever come close. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2007 8:06:46 AM | The kiss is everything, it can make or break you. Nothing like kissing someone and have their tongue spear you, or dart in and out at warp speed  even worse when you just want to spit because they just bathed you with saliva however there is nothing better then a nice knee buckling, mind blowing, ear ringing, everything tingling kiss that lasts three days. Yummy 
C~ | |
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Posted: 6/7/2007 8:07:23 AM | I love to kiss...so having to endure someone who was terrible at it...would be tantamount to torture. Granted some people are into that, but not I! I think if we're lucky we all have had that intensely passionate kiss...and no other kiss comes close to it. Whew! IS it HOT in here?  | |
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Posted: 6/7/2007 8:21:36 AM | A kiss can also tell you if someone hasn't brushed their teeth in days. Or if they smoke, drink whiskey, drink coffee, and eat garlic and still don't brush.
Fortunately, I can figure out all that stuff before they get close enough to kiss. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2007 8:28:26 AM | | Ah, the kiss. That ultimate in first steps. What does a kiss tell you? It gives substance to the words spoken; it confirms the fire in your soul; it speaks volumes of desires. To press your lips against another's...to explore the texture, the softness, and to feel if they too return your fire...what a wonderful barometer. I love to kiss, to cup a woman's face in my hands, eyes locked on hers as we draw near, and to reveal my passion thru the kiss...fire, desire, the gateway to passion. If you do not feel these things at a kiss, then is it really a kiss? | |
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| What a Kiss can tell you.
Posted: 6/7/2007 8:45:08 AM | I love kissing...However, a hard pursed lipped kiss is just a major turn off, same with a I'm gonna swallow your face kiss.
HHHMMMMMMMMNNNNN.........*day dreams*
Speaking of kisses...I need to go steal one from someone.....*run* | |
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| What a Kiss can tell you.
Posted: 6/7/2007 8:46:04 AM | With something as natural as kissing, it never ceases to amaze me how many people cant do it right! Its like they open their mouths too wide just as you move in, and you end up kissing a load of air 
The best kissers I find are the ones who instinctively know what you're about to do and follow your lips and tongue perfectly, I remember one girl I went out with a few years back wasnt the greatest looker, but she was a great kisser and kept me hooked! | |
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Posted: 6/7/2007 8:52:20 AM | | I remember only one bad kiss in my life. As I bent in close to her I noticed a foul smell and dingleberries in her pubic hair. I remedied the situation with a bottle of douche and a wet handcloth. Pimples down there are still a little off putting though. | |
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| What a Kiss can tell you.
Posted: 6/7/2007 10:54:01 AM | And there was me thinking I was being shallow........ Thanks everyone for sharing that.
To any of those of you that chose to participate in my Did he love me thread well the way he kissed was out of this world. He is definately the guy that I would remember for years due to his kissing. It was tender, exciting, erotic, no sloppy bits to contend with and he definately knew how to use his tongue. Just enough and wanting more. Well he had me wanting more every time and usually got it. Lol  | |
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| What a Kiss can tell you.
Posted: 6/7/2007 12:30:35 PM | OOOOOOh I love kissing... and if its a first kiss and he isnt a good kisser it rather ruins things for me. I will however be willing to give it a second chance. Who knows, maybe he's nervous?
*shrug* | |
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| What a Kiss can tell you.
Posted: 6/7/2007 12:35:08 PM |
It's in his kiss ~ That's where it is...
Her kiss, but same message. Amen. | |
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