| Girls playing games on here like Psycho's
Posted: 6/10/2007 9:13:08 AM | Went ona date last night after meeting a girl on here. Went well, had dinner and stayed over...had sex it was great and we made a date for maybe next Wed.
Back at home the next day...checking messages etc, a girl(hot) comes on and writes to me so i go throught he getting to know you...messengering...arrange to meet for dinner, tonight she asks for.
Then right at the end, she says do you know......? I say yes I know a few people called that. She says and? ...I know she is talking about the girl i met last night...so i say yes i was on a date witha girl called Kim last night.
She has only created a fake profile to catch out guys!!!
PSYCHO!
I said i wan't doing anything wrong...dating until i meet someone i want o goout with...she thought after one date she was the one and only and I would not see anyone else! ...and NO i never said anything like that. k Just arranged a date for next week.
Why do girls do that? and that is why internet dating is not the best. Most girls I have met off here have not been anything like the pics and only one or two have been anything like nice!!! | |
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| Girls playing games on here like Psycho's
Posted: 6/10/2007 9:55:48 AM | | No matter what side of the pond you are on you will find men and women both playing the dating games!! Sad thing is the games will go on forever and most people will find themselves very much alone at the end of their life if they don't stop the games and grow up!!! | |
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| Girls playing games on here like Psycho's
Posted: 6/10/2007 10:08:40 AM | There are decent, mostly-sane girls on here. Glad I haven't ran into one like that yet :o
OP, was she also the girl who left that really nice testimonial for you? | |
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| Girls playing games on here like Psycho's
Posted: 6/10/2007 10:20:07 AM | I think you should change your settings to here for "intimate encounter." That way there will be no confusion. She may have played a game in your eyes but whatever it was it proves hwo you are.
I am mostley a goofball but I know a thing or two about psychology Did you know that once you even begin talking to a woman you are already in a relaionship. You took it all the way to intamacy. There are a great many people out therre that believe that once you start sleeping with someone that you have taken it to another level. They don't see it as just sex and especially women.
You have a whole lot to learn about women my friend and until you do they are going to continue to make you look stupid. I suggest you try to be a friend to the women you are sleeping with. Why do you want to use them up and toss them aside for whatever you think may be better that comes along? | |
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| Girls playing games on here like Psycho's
Posted: 6/10/2007 10:23:11 AM | ^^^^^^^^^ change your category for sure!
That is a great feature. Another use for testimonials - lol 
She is a gorgeous gal too - your loss I suppose  | |
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| Girls playing games on here like Psycho's
Posted: 6/10/2007 10:32:23 AM | | I understand your frustration OP but I also wonder why you are sleeping with a girl on the first date. Is that really wise? I also wonder why you would be still looking for another woman to date when you have just had sex with the first one. In my opinion you too are playing games. I think that it is difficult enough to find someone real and someone sincere who really is looking for a full time long term relationship. Finding that type of relationship is going to take time and work and committment. How can a person say they are seeking that if they are not giving the time and committment to one relationship. Again, in my opinion, if you are sincere then you will take one encounter at a time and see where it goes. Nothing wrong with dating lots of people but when you start having sex then thats a different ball game unless you have both decided together that it is ok to continue to look for others while continuing to be with each other. Women just want to know where they stand, we would like the choice to make our own decisions on sex and relationship stuff, tell us before hand that if you do have sex you are still not ready to settle for one relationship, at least then we can make that choice knowing what to expect. No games please, just be honest and open. | |
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| Girls playing games on here like Psycho's
Posted: 6/10/2007 10:34:27 AM | Sounds like you got busted though... Of course you guys are not committed and she's wrong to play deceitful games like that, but you did ask to see her again and when your options got wider you went for it... Oh well who doesnt...
But this is about game playing, which both sexes do... Case in point a POF date I had the other day, his picture showed a man full of lovely grey hair, in person he had a combover that would make Trump proud... Is it me or is this deceitful..????
Ladies in the East Coast (livingthedream0001 HAS A COMBOVER..!)!!!! Embrace your flaws people, own it, love it...! | |
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| Girls playing games on here like Psycho's
Posted: 6/10/2007 10:42:00 AM | One date does not constitute a relationship. You are right about that. I however was seeing somebody and got quite close to a guy and while he was involved with me, he was also involved and actually got engaged to some kid on the internet. It really turned into quite the Jerry Springer episode. Anyway, had I known that this guy was such a liar/manipulator and player, I never would have spent the kind of time with him that I did. While I can certainly understand the concept of dating and not being sure of the status of a relationship, what I don't understand is if a man and a woman are spending quite a bit of time together, and a man is telling you how happy you make him, how much he loves being with you and cares so much about you, then, is saying romantic things to another woman, then, what should one think? Who is the psycho here?
What I have come to realize is that there are a ton of men and women in this world so deeply insecure, so heavily dishonest and people that lack the proper communication skills to have a true, real successful relationship. However in time, the right one can come along. The best advice I can give is to be honest, and treat people the way that you want to be treated. And, if red flag behavior pops up, or if a man or woman is giving you different versions of a story, then, have them looked into....Google is great for finding out a ton on somebody. | |
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| Girls playing games on here like Psycho's
Posted: 6/10/2007 10:46:12 AM | I had someone pull something like that on me on another dating site.
Oh, I'm sorry, a FRIEND of hers had a FRIEND of his contact me and ask for a hook-up. Less than 24 hours after we'd discussed whether or not to be exclusive.
The situation was so obvious, it was laughable.
I think testing a partner's faithfulness is a really good way to end a relationship quickly. If a partner is not trustworthy, you will find out sooner or later. Testing them will only give them a valid reason to dump you. | |
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| Girls playing games on here like Psycho's
Posted: 6/10/2007 10:53:33 AM | | HOW TRUE! how true ! im almost ready to go back with my ex husband after being divorced 9 yrs. at least its comfortable.he wont give up his addiction to gambling but we all seem to have some addiction dont we? at this stage in my life my friends are either dying of heart attacks, or just not able to do much at all. i agree isnt the game playing taking a toll on us all??? i wish you all better luck....sincerely,Dar | |
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| Girls playing games on here like Psycho's
Posted: 6/10/2007 10:53:56 AM | I totally agree with Witchirose on this one...
Dude, even your screen name suggests old fashion values... Do you even know what being a "OLD Romantic" is all about or do you just misuse it to get what you want ?
Obviously you laid the BS on thick in order to get her into bed and now she was seeing if you were true to your word and she is a nut case ..? Maybe so, but you too are equally wrong.
You cannot tell a woman that she is wonderful and then expect her to understand that your going to continue to play the field. If she understood this from the beginning... I would be willing to bet she would have never slept with you to start with.
Just my opinion and not a critisism...
You played and got caught and now trying to justify your action about her reaction to being played. | |
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| Girls playing games on here like Psycho's
Posted: 6/10/2007 11:59:23 AM |
Went ona date last night after meeting a girl on here. Went well, had dinner and stayed over...had sex it was great and we made a date for maybe next Wed.
The fact that she put out no problem wasn't a sign of things to come? | |
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| Girls playing games on here like Psycho's
Posted: 6/10/2007 1:41:55 PM | In response to the second message:
Men play games? I think not. Most men are not subtle enough to play games. "Game playing" is an alien concept to the average man. It's something they--we--only know of because we are stuck in the unenviable position of having to make the first move on women, and women are not exactly known for their plain-dealing.
For example, in all the times I've been rejected by girls, not once--not once--have I ever heard an honest answer, such as "I'm sorry but it's not meant to be." Instead, all we get are fake phone numbers, phony excuses about being busy, imaginary boyfriends, or worst, the old stand-up. Or the "call me just before you leave" trick where the date will ALWAYS be cancelled.
The few men that might play "games", whatever that means, are the players; and they learned it from women, and had to retrain their mind.
As far as the subject matter here, it would be a cold day in hell when the average man creates a fake profile just to test a girl he went on one date with. It just doesn't happen. There may some wacko-jealous husbands, but the average joe, no way he going to drop to this level of manipulation that the first post on here described. | |
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| Girls playing games on here like Psycho's
Posted: 6/10/2007 2:02:43 PM | | I agree change what it is that you are looking for and you'll get less confusion from the opposite sex. Be honest. Apparently, that is difficult for some to do these days! | |
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| Girls playing games on here like Psycho's
Posted: 6/10/2007 2:04:42 PM | [Most men are not subtle enough to play games. "Game playing" is an alien concept to the average man.]
Where do you think all the romantic drama comes from? Soap Operas and romance novels. And who are those geared towards? Women. It's female porn. And through these, men are viewed as evil.
[It's something they--we--only know of because we are stuck in the unenviable position of having to make the first move on women]
This is totally accurate.  | |
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| Girls playing games on here like Psycho's
Posted: 6/10/2007 3:01:55 PM | I really don't think this woman was playing a game. I think she only proved what this guy was. For all of you guys who get found out when you try and sleep with everything that comes their way you must realize this doesn't happen to me. I am all for a woman being careful to who she gives her heart to. I don't think she is psycho at all. I am sure she knew how to do this becasue it happens all the time . I think it is sad that this woman can't find a decent man.
You have a guy who sleeps with a woman and then the very next day tries to hook up with another woman and gets found out and then he goes on to call her "psycho" in order to save face.
I think that anyone who is on his side of the fence and in bad shape and seriously needs to spiritually get involved and learn about how to be a friend and show some respect. | |
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| Girls playing games on here like Psycho's
Posted: 6/10/2007 4:11:21 PM | I think you should change your settings to here for "intimate encounter." That way there will be no confusion. She may have played a game in your eyes but whatever it was it proves hwo you are.
You take her out to dinner - you have sex with her.
She emails you as someone else who you set a date up with -
She sees you used her - she knew this - just needed to prove it.
Is she psycho - maybe - but she proved what you are -
Change your profile and tell her that you are sorry that all you wanted was
a lay for the price of the meal you took her out for.
She has only created a fake profile to catch out guys!!!
PSYCHO!
No - she caught you at your game and you are feeling bad she caught you-
thats why you have the need to call her names. I would say one pretty smart
little girl there- | |
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| Girls playing games on here like Psycho's
Posted: 6/10/2007 5:15:59 PM | | If you want to play the field, make it clear before you have sex with someone, even if their legs do spread like butter on the first date. | |
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| Girls playing games on here like Psycho's
Posted: 6/10/2007 5:32:16 PM | Well, your profile says you drink OFTEN....perhaps she was just checking to see if you were sober enough to remember her.
False profile? Perhaps both genders create those. Unfortunately that is the risk you take if you are anxious to rush into things with sex on the first date. Red Flag there buddy! | |
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| Girls playing games on here like Psycho's
Posted: 6/10/2007 6:05:08 PM | Just want to comment and confirm its not just women playing games like "Psycho"
It is just a sense of insecurity. You kinda have to feel sorry for these people. The energy they waste trying to prove to themself that someone else is unworthy. I tend to regard these folks as paranoid individuals. They have been hurt, and can't let go. They can't trust and probably cannot love.
Think about it. She did you a favor. Love is free and should be like a butterfly. You should be able to let it go, knowing it'll come back. She made a big mistake, because it seem to me, you had an interest in her. Now, it's going to be her lost, but your gain. You got to see her true colors, before you had too much invested. | |
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| Girls playing games on here like Psycho's
Posted: 6/10/2007 6:12:17 PM | In your case I think what goes on in the bed room should of stayed in the bedroom, I'm not sure how many girls will want to date you after sharing that information,
Two can play the game as well as one... | |
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