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Posted: 6/12/2007 7:10:15 AM | | is it really that bad that guys have foot fetishes? i mean i have a had females stop talking to me cause of it. i mean i knew most girls i see r rude mean , but do the really have to go that far to not respect them for what they like? | |
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Posted: 6/12/2007 7:43:08 AM | It's not mainstream, my friend, and our mothers have taught us all to be "good little girls". KINKY or DEPRAVED has been beaten into our heads as our mothers attempt to prepare us for the world at large. But most women don't find their feet all that sexy and can't compare it to anything in our scope of what sexy is. (well me personally)
I'm afraid that you'd end up bruised and battered if you were anywhere close to my feet. I'm that ticklish , that all you have to do is point to my feet and I'm hiding them.
But what one person finds sexy is often a turn off to others.
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Posted: 6/12/2007 7:56:34 AM | I think anything can be sexy depending on how it's introduced. Some people have to warm up to an idea, or have to be more involved with someone to feed their fantasy or fetish. I think if people with fetish's were to understand that it's not everyone's fetish and not come on so strong and weird about it they would get alot more from their partner.
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Posted: 6/12/2007 9:57:06 AM | hehehe
I have a friend who has a foot fetish and wants me to send pics of my pedi, always wants to give me a pedi, etc.
I do respect him and I know his fetish, although his isn't sexually orientated, meaning he isn't turned on and gets sexual gratification with his foot fetish.
Although it's weird, I respect him because he is not shy to admit...he loves women's feet! | |
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Posted: 6/12/2007 11:02:40 AM | Feet can be sexy and erogenous zone for alot of people if taken care of. And technically speaking being into feet cannot be a fetish(only inanimate body parts; shoes, stockings, panties).... Liking feet is no different that being into boobs or butts... and we don't go around saying someone has a boob fetish.... If someone is so aroused/turned on by feet that they exclude everything else... that is called "partialism" a DSM IV medical term.... We only have to true sexual bosy parts EVERYTHING ELSE is just a personal preference....
I generally include my GFs feet in our sex play routine an have dated tons of woman who loved to have their feet included in our sex/sensual play.... The entire body is an erogenous zone... sex should be fun and playful... the goal is to send your partner into orbit in as many ways as possibe...
That being said... going around telling women you are into feet or you want to do X, Y, and Z to their feet would be a big turn off and is a bit creepy... Again sex should be fun and playful.. and natural ...just include her feet in everything else you are doing and see what kind of response you get... you don't have to go talking about it ahead of time...
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Posted: 6/12/2007 11:20:39 AM | That being said... going around telling women you are into feet or you want to do X, Y, and Z to their feet would be a big turn off and is a bit creepy...
EXACTLY how i feel- I met a guy who has a foot fetish and it did scare me away, but only because i knew more about how hot feet made him before i actually knew anythin about the actual guy, Fetishes should not be discussed until you know a person well enough to discuss that. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2007 11:33:09 AM | | It really doesn't bother me if people have fetishes - but it's how you behave in regards to that fetish that makes a difference!! I have met some people that were just downright weird/bizarre about their 'thing' and others who were respectful and behaved appropriately!! What you do is the key to how others accept you and your fetish!! | |
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Posted: 6/12/2007 2:24:09 PM | | I don't think there's anything wrong with a foot fetish. Personally, though, I can't say that I understand it. I wish I could. So many people--especially guys--that I know have a foot fetish. I'm here, unable to wrap my brain around it. If anyone would be willing to enlighten me I'm more than happy to hear from you. | |
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Posted: 6/13/2007 8:42:28 AM | I don't think there is a single thing wrong with having a foot fetish. One of my best lovers was one, and he really made me appreciate many things that are not mainstream. I have always made sure my feet are as pretty as my hands but not because of this.
And ... I have a hand fetish... so tit for tat. | |
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| footfetish
Posted: 6/13/2007 8:44:27 AM | to tejas,
Your friend is probably very turned on by your feet and wants pictures of your feet so he fantasize about massaging, licking, sucking and cumming all over them. He would like nothing more than to have those pretty toes and soles in his lap, to massage, lotion and made more beautiful than they already are! Take it as a compliment and give him the opportunity to pleasure them. I know. I'm a footlover!
cc me on the pics too?
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Posted: 6/15/2007 1:04:22 AM |
That being said... going around telling women you are into feet or you want to do X, Y, and Z to their feet would be a big turn off and is a bit creepy...
EXACTLY how i feel- I met a guy who has a foot fetish and it did scare me away, but only because i knew more about how hot feet made him before i actually knew anythin about the actual guy, Fetishes should not be discussed until you know a person well enough to discuss that.
Well I guess she answered my question. I do like women's foots, but I'm guessing that it shouldn't really be brought up until you are either fairly serious with a girl or she is comfortable enough with you to where you can bring that up. Now usually, I'll offer a foot massage b/c well, that seems rather harmless. And most females (thankfully) appreciate that.
I just dont want to get to serious with a female that has hang ups about her foots because unless she gets over it, I'll probably have to cut her off. Sad, I know, but it is what it is. | |
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Posted: 6/15/2007 1:37:33 AM | Can't stand feet...they are the ugliest things on the human body! Why anyone would want to suck toes etc. is beyond me, especially as mine are so ticklish anyone trying would get an inadvertant kick in the head.
Caught an ex boyfriend sniffing my shoes and jacking off when I was 17....maybe that has coloured my opinion somewhat lol! | |
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Posted: 6/15/2007 5:09:55 AM | Rockchick's comment of a good example of something I want to follow-up on...
First some facts....
1.Fetish is a medical term from the DSM IV.... Body parts CAN NOT be fetishes.... Only inanimate objects..... shoes, stocking, panties, ect.... So our common useage of saying someone has a foot fetish is inaccurate... As I prevously mentioned.... if someone is into feet to the point where they ignore everything else sexually or only can be sexually satified from that body part.... that is called "partialism" another DSM IV medical term.... So liking feet is no different than liking boobs or butts or legs....
2. According to suveys the number one (meaning the biggest group) fetish is the foot fetish.... but if we now assume this is not a fetish.... what it means is that there are an awful lot of people out there who like feet... normalizes it a bit...
3. Take this a step further... Ask.Men.Com (an online men's magazine) did a survey of women of there top ten erogenous zones.... feet were ranked as number 5.(this was a survey of women not men)
4. A step futher.... Both the Karma Sutra and Tantric sex practice include feet (massages, toe scking, ect) as a normal part of sex/sensual play .
The problem comes in when we try to compartmentalize body parts.... this one qualifies ...this one doesn't. But in reality the ENTIRE body is arogenous zone, and excluding certain parts does a couple things...
1. you miss out on a potential erotic part of your body that you may enjoy having stimulated
2. it also begins to pathologize or turn liking /being turned on by feet into something weird.... when it fact is is a legtimate body part.
3. the other thing it does for some people is they stop taking care of that part of there body... hense the feet are gross... when in fact feet are no grosser than any other body parts... particularly our sex orrgans... as with sex in general hygine and personal care are key...
4. people that like feet stat to feel guilty about it or like it is something weird... so they repress it.. .then t starts getting weird... the the creepy stuff of asking people if you can suck there toes... or telling them you like them... Christ that is like telling a woman you like her boobs or vagina on a first date....anyone would be put off by that !!!
As I said in my prevous post... be more natural and inclusive with your sexuality/sensuality.... sex should be fun, playful. it should be about exploring each other bodies, finding out what feels good, what does't.
for the OP.. .if you are into feet.... great... include them.... but remember there is a whole woman there... and talking about how much you like feet IS CREEPY and a TURN OFF... /(and I'm a defender of feet ) but that is creepy ! Just be natural.... give her a full body massage and include her feet, give her a flavored massage oil massage and take a couple minutes to suck her toes or nibble on her toes.... The Karma Sutra has a sex position they idenitfy as good for toe sucking during intercourse....
And ladies... stop looking out your feet as some alien apppendage someone attached to your body.... From the ancient text, to reflexology, to proffessional masseuses... all recognize that feet are a powerful erogenous zone full of nerve endings....
So remember.... Feet are not gross.... your feet might be gross  .... Wash your Damn feet !!!
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Posted: 6/15/2007 6:40:03 AM | As I said, my friends "attraction" to feet is non-sexual. Yes, I researched this a tad and saw it truly is possible (wasn't sure if I believed him).
But, I do, on occasion, have him over for an excellent foot massage. Since he studied reflexology, he's quite good. Being a waitress, my feet love the attention and I am slowly getting over the fact that they are gross feet. To me, my feet have always been yucky and at nearly 37 yrs old, I just indulged myself in my very first pedicure. So, slowly I will not be as inhibited. =) | |
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Posted: 6/15/2007 6:51:43 AM | A fetish of any kind can be seen as deviant and scare away a potential partner
However as far as fetishes go...a foot fetish is pretty small
Just look for the girl who would rather buy heels than lingerie and you're good to go | |
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Posted: 6/15/2007 10:30:21 AM | | There are probably worse things, but it would depend on how it manifested itself. If it was all consuming, then I wouldn't want to share my tootsies! | |
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Posted: 6/16/2007 6:45:43 PM | | ^^^See, now angelicblondie sounds like a woman with the kinda attitude regarding this that I like. Mm hmm. She shole do. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2007 7:43:40 PM | | Ive had a foot fetish for a long time - i like small womens feet, around size 3 | |
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Posted: 6/18/2007 2:15:34 PM |
i like small womens feet, around size 3
I have never, ever knew a female with that small of feet unless they were a child....
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Posted: 6/18/2007 2:20:54 PM | size 3.....that is a childs foot!
WTF? | |
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Posted: 6/18/2007 2:56:36 PM | Everybody's got their quirks I suppose...
But seriously, I'd stay away from humping people's feet on the first date, it can be a bit creepy. | |
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Posted: 6/18/2007 3:57:59 PM | The only thing about these fetishes is... you never know when is the right time to reveal that you have one. On the one hand, you would rather a female know so that you won't waste too much time or emotional involvement with a woman that aint down. On the flip side you would rather wait because that stuff can be a lil too much to reveal off the top.
I guess the only thing to do is wait a while and if she isn't down.... break it off with her. Sad, really. | |
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Posted: 6/18/2007 4:14:06 PM | feet are ugly and they usually stink!
just my opinion but they are the futhest away from the face and thats cool with me. | |
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Posted: 6/18/2007 4:34:03 PM | In my experience ( as vast as it is ).. having a foot fetish is one of the mildest of fetishes. I myself don't see the allure, but to each his/her own. Although is seems to be a predominantly male fetish. I have known men who love how a woman's foot ( either bare of wearing silk stockings ) feels in their hands, how a perfectly curved arch looks and feels to their touch, and a beautiful pedicure makes her feet look flawless. Some men are deeply immersed in every detail, right down to the colour of polish on a woman's toenails etc.
Depending on the how far they like to take this particular body part fetish..it can and usually does, lead to a foot job .. which is the ultimate pleasure for a man who has a foot fetish. He loves the look... the feel, and how it plays into his sexual fantasies.
I don't see anything wrong with it.
Pleasure is what we seek in this life, and as long as it isn't harming anyone, then why not?
Tejas _ Yuki .. you're simply adorable, I'm sure your feet are no exception!
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