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| Mistakes you don't regret
Posted: 6/20/2007 9:13:49 PM | | I once fell hard, really hard, for a woman I KNEW would be bad for me. Everything in my head told me to stay away, but I got carried away in the romance, the lust, knowing that it would not end up well. Sort of like exhilaration of speeding in turbocharged car with poor brakes. When that car crashes, there is guaranteed to be a mess, and a mess I was. Still, I never regretted getting involved. Any stories? | |
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Posted: 6/21/2007 12:01:06 AM | The similarities are astounding,sounds like what I just came out of.
9 and half years later,to reach single father status again.
It was a crazy roller coaster ride, that assuredly had to end in disaster.
I definitely don't regret my little boy he is my life.
As far as the mothers concerned, I'm still trying to figure out what happened and why.
My story could have been written by David Lynch with a dash of David Chase.
Scary, beautiful at times, weird as it gets at other times,very confusing.
Do I regret any of it,it depends from day to day, what parts and how much. | |
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Posted: 6/21/2007 12:13:49 AM | ^^^
Hear , hear,
When it is too good to be true
then it is!
I'm still trying to figure out what happened and why
Tried that the first time to no avail,
live your life, raise your son with a happy heart as I did mine
and don't waste time trying to figure.
Take what was good and keep it in youre heart
for it has become part of you
Have no regrets for anything
unless you did it out of anger or to hurt
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Posted: 6/21/2007 10:27:07 AM | I think we've all had an experience like that......it's what helps us to grow!
Take what was good and keep it in youre heart
for it has become part of you
Have no regrets for anything
unless you did it out of anger or to hurt
Mountain lion said it well! | |
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Posted: 6/21/2007 11:31:54 AM | “Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.” Sydney Smith
I don't regret anything, even difficult things I have been through. The difficult times have taught me more about how imperfect I am, and ultimately that knowledge makes me kinder, and more accepting of others...~Anicca~
I will not regret you, I just have to learn to love you more. | |
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Posted: 6/21/2007 2:04:49 PM | I moved to Calgary for a girl. Was in love, was going to get married, bought a house, etc.
She ended up cheating because she was getting cold feet, etc.
I recently moved back to the beautiful city of Vancouver, and I don't regret a damn thing.
Even made a bunch of money on the house. ;) | |
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Posted: 6/21/2007 4:49:01 PM |
...~Anicca~ daaarlinnnnnn, when will you show the "kinder"
or are we still gathering knowlege?
Response:
I just have to learn to love you more.
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Posted: 6/21/2007 5:58:26 PM | | Yeah, similiar to th OP...that damned 'little voice' kept telling me it was a train wreck waiting to happen, but I have a fabulous little boy to show for all the stress, trauma and nightmares...He is my equivalent of a 'Pheonix' I suppose... | |
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Posted: 6/21/2007 7:56:29 PM | | oh yes, I have done this one!...lol...and yes it was a tad painful but, with both girls that I did get involved with and I knew they were probmatic as to say, i have made friends with both of them and it was worth it... | |
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Posted: 6/21/2007 9:15:37 PM | I think everyone's guilty of this. I sure am, many times over. But hey it's these life experiences/mistakes that help you grow and learn.
My most recent one was meeting someone who was way NOT ready to meet. I was warned about how it would end up and didn't listen. Nothing happened and I thought we were both looking for friends. But still I lost someone fun to talk to and what coulda been a great friend. Frusterating as all hell. But hey, no regrets. Live and learn, right?
Lifes a ride, ride hard | |
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Posted: 6/22/2007 12:12:25 AM | Question for Jase77 poster #6
In another thread you wrote and I quote ,
Ok, so ex cheated on me, after I moved to Calgary for her. Totally over the relationship factor now, but I have a slight dilemma.
I purchased a house while out there, she was not on title of the house, but on the mortgage as a Guarantor. She's legally not entitled to the property as we didn't actually become common law.
""Now I've recently sold it, and I'm projecting roughly $12-14k profit from the entire thing.
I know for a fact she is expecting a chunk of that, but I almost want to give her nothing in return for what she did. Plus it gives me more in the end, and I think I deserve it.
Keep in mind, she has paid for nothing so far. Not a Mortgage payment, not bit of the lawyers fee, etc. Nothing.
Originally when I thought I was going to make WAAAAAAAAAAAAY more, I said I would give her some, $5k actually. But the market went cold, and it took a while to sell, and the profit margin is way less. Like less than half of the original projected profits.
What should I do? ""
You posted that on 6/21/2007 at 2:09:13pm and now you say and I quote,
"" I moved to Calgary for a girl. Was in love, was going to get married, bought a house, etc.
She ended up cheating because she was getting cold feet, etc.
I recently moved back to the beautiful city of Vancouver, and I don't regret a damn thing.
Even made a bunch of money on the house. ;) ""
You posted that on 6/21/2007 at 2:04:49 pm
 TIME IS OF THE ESSENCE  any one else get that 
Some people are very funny!!!!!!!!! Sure made me laugh!!!!!! Question is ....What were you thinking when you were busy posting or were you ? Hope you spend your money wisely! LOL ..... Maybe next time you tell a story you should get your timeframes figured out ...one post where you got the money was before the post asking what to do about the whole situation............way to funny!!!! | |
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Posted: 6/22/2007 12:25:57 AM | my last relationship ended with me being with a soul-crushing female who was having far more sex than I was, and also having the most beautiful daughter in the world.
It was so worth it. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2007 1:01:59 AM | before any one else posts on this thread they may want to read message #13  | |
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Posted: 6/22/2007 3:13:19 AM | | I could never regret anything I've done in my life. To me there is only choice, if you regret the choices you make that make cause you to doubt your judgement in the furture. I'm not saying I haven't learned from the things I've done just that I know that if I haven't been where I've been and done what I've done I wouldn't be who I am and me is the only one I'd die for. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2007 6:57:52 AM | Interesting topic.
I have often pondered this and always come to the conclusion that I regret nothing that I have done. I do however regret some of the things that I didnt do, opportunities not recognised at the time or those I was unprepared to deal with. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2007 9:13:33 AM | another post another thread
and because of that i will say
ôk ok, I read it wrong, ( i think) sorry jase ........your word is your word, so , glad to see you have morals, especially under the circumstances. Karma will take care of the rest. and I wasnt trying to find deceit, just thought I stumbled on to something, well I had a good laugh anyway even if was not founded....LOL..and im still laughing... | |
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Posted: 6/22/2007 2:22:33 PM | ^^^^
thought first I would regret reading the previous posts
now I'm impressed
admit to ones wrong, COMPLIMENTS
great mind and character, great sense of tact and humour, slick too leaving a back door open
Thank you, you must be one of the few 
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Joined: 4/21/2007
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| Mistakes you don't regret
Posted: 6/22/2007 8:06:15 PM | We learn by our mistakes-----------its made us the person we are today!!
No regrets----------I'm sure we will still make mistakes ---------- but its all part of life!!!!
You know the saying......"Everything happens 4 A Reason"------------I believe it!! | |
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