| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/22/2007 2:52:27 PM | Okay. So once you have really good rough sex on an ongoing basis, and I mean really good, would you ever settle for vanilla sex again (I don't just mean one time, but would you ever consider having a partner who wasn't into anything kinky?)?
Once you've crossed that line...... can you ever go back? How would it affect your choices of a future partner? | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/22/2007 5:46:46 PM | Mutual satisfaction is what its about (unles your making babies, that's a different post...).
If you can be satisfied with vanilla sex, then there's your answer. But maybe, just maybe, you can slowly corrupt vanilla sex into the rough, kinky stuff...step-by-step. Baby steps... | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/22/2007 6:48:50 PM | Most of the vanilla types just don't know how to enjoy any other way, because of their former ex's lack-luster performance. I've never met a person that wasn't corruptable,so I guess that I'm optimistic...
I'm more of the corrupting type ....with the right amount of sugar,even bad things taste good | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/22/2007 6:56:24 PM | ^^^^^^^^^ Agree. I was so vanilla for so long because of being with the same partner since I was very young and for so long. I have so enjoyed learning and I would never be happy with the way it was again.
C~ | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/22/2007 7:03:20 PM | I still enjoy vanilla... the gentle, tender times are special too... but I bet I'm not as rough as some either !! But there IS a lot to be said for angry sex...AH, well, takes all kinds ! | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/22/2007 7:25:07 PM | | Seems to me THE BEST you can strive for is variety and that would include exploring as extremes as you're both willing to go. As long as you can lead, follow or sense the other person's mood and go there you'll never get bored with what you do with / to each other to turn each other on. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/22/2007 7:25:49 PM | I once heard a comedian do a bit about how he liked women who wanted to be tied up and spanked. He said that way he could beat up women and not get arrested for it.
Not my style, but I'm just sayin'..... | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/22/2007 7:38:38 PM | | Variety is really the way to go in a productive, satisfying sex life! So rough to vanilla and back again is exactly the way things should be! Definitely going back to vanilla can show you you are accepted equally in every sexual situation. Respect for each others desires is key! | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/22/2007 7:49:54 PM | Uhnmmm Eddie.....what do you mean "not your style"..........Uhm YOU LEFT BRUISES!!
OT: It's all good. vanilla, chocolate, blue moon or wild raspberry!!! switch it up and have some fun!!
Diva | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/22/2007 7:53:06 PM | ^^^YAY, Leeanne! Exactly my thoughts. I've never had a problem with going from one to the other.....it all depends on the willingness of the partner, and how comfortable the relationship is.
Cheers
LB | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/22/2007 8:01:11 PM | | since im a guy getting banged hard by a girl really hard always makes me laugh...but with the utmost respect of course. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/22/2007 8:15:34 PM | Enjoying rough sex doesn't mean you can't enjoy all sex. I think too much of one way can be boring regardless of which way you prefer. A time, place and mood for it all in my opinion.
C~ | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/22/2007 8:17:53 PM | Working definition of "rough" would help. If you cinsider having your hair oulled while being driven doggie style rough, then I know what you mean. If you go past that to being smacked with a buggy whip, I can't relate to that.
What is "rough"? Being pounded hard? Nipples bitten? Hair pulled? Suckerbites? | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/22/2007 8:25:38 PM |
Enjoying rough sex doesn't mean you can't enjoy all sex. I think too much of one way can be boring regardless of which way you prefer. A time, place and mood for it all in my opinion.
^^^^^My thoughts exactly....people shouldn't be afraid to switch it up a little. Sex should be a methodical journey...not a standard routine. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/22/2007 8:36:53 PM | | mmmm it varrys on the Mood yess Rough is Wonderful the Bitting, Scraching, Spanking ( Oppps said to much lol ) but there is the Canndles Soft Music, Wonderfully prepared meal , Rose peddles and a Hot Bubble bath sort of sex which is good also is it not ? | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/23/2007 2:15:25 AM | If you have rough sex all the time then that would be your new vanillia...
Here's what knowledge I have though. When your in a real relationship and you know your partner you can learn when to have rough sex or make Love or **** or be kinky or just do the ole in and out because you got 30 min's to kill...
I have also learned that if you know your girls cycle very well then you can pre-plan. For instance each month I get a sex week where I can laid pretty much anytime I want then it turns into a 3-4 window for super kink followed by 4-6 days of scattered love making ending with a week of no sex except maybe a Duty Lay before she starts. This is repeated pretty much every month and I have found it's the same for most females. The order might be different and the type of sex might be different but there is always a pattern. | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/23/2007 7:38:58 AM |
The order might be different and the type of sex might be different but there is always a pattern.
very observant, nos800! Many men don't read into those patterns. Most women get horniest when they are most likely to conceive. There are also natural pheromones emitted at that time that makes the man more attracted to a female. It's the evolution of human-kind.
But d@amn, love those horny times! | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/23/2007 8:29:28 AM | Have to say rough is best...but 'vanilla' also has it's place. As posters have said it's a matter of mixing it up.
Depends on mood...partner...bunch of stuff--yes, including what time of the month it is!! | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/23/2007 12:39:52 PM | "If you can be satisfied with vanilla sex, then there's your answer. But maybe, just maybe, you can slowly corrupt vanilla sex into the rough, kinky stuff...step-by-step. Baby steps... "
I totally agree with this, and I find it works with most men.  | |
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| For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/23/2007 2:27:19 PM | I could go back to vanilla to pacify those urges...
...Don't want to though, I like it rough and wild, just can't find anyone at the moment who is into that style...haha | |
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