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Posted: 6/23/2007 4:22:18 PM | I have been on this website since september sending lots of emails to random ppl they say hi back and thats about it
I think only one person I had pretty good conversation with but she moved!!!!
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Posted: 6/23/2007 5:05:58 PM | | maybe add more to your profile, I just went there and you dont have anything about you. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2007 1:15:46 AM | Hey Mike.......take off pictures 4 and 5 in your profile....they're not doing you any favours!!....also dont call yourself a nerd.....how about 'computer buff' instead.... says that you are interested in that side of things , but in a positive light. Also you havent said anything about the young lady you are looking for.......even if it's just 'kind and caring' or whatever....try and find a few words. If your a decent fella then say so...... 'i treat women right' kind of thing.
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Posted: 6/24/2007 4:03:21 AM | Yeah Mike I've got to agree with ladyniki. You're profile needs a serious re-write. You need to take an honest look at who you are and put that down. And you also need to decide what kind of girl you're looking for, and put that down.
Calling yourself a nerd basically tells everyone you have a self image problem. Women like confident men.
I even agree with niki about the photos. Why would you put photos of yourself that make you look like an angry person? And to be honest webcam photos don't make anybody look good. Get a decent photograph and put it on there. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2007 4:07:58 AM | | And Mike, no one will be attracted to someone who refers to themselves as desperate and pathetic. You need to look at yourself in a more positive light. I'm sure you've got some amazing qualities to offer. Ask your friends how they see you. Your good friends will tell you honestly. And you'll be amazed at how you are percieved. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2007 4:53:58 AM | um...sorry Simonsonnow...but I have to disagree with your 'nerd' comment....calling oneself a nerd, and BEING a nerd, does not mean that one has a self image problem!! As is evident from my profile name, I, too am a Nerd, and proud of it!! Nerdy means one is essentially good at, and interested in, things like trivia, computers, learning and studying...now what about those interests inherently suggests a self image problem? I think i'm a very cool person, as are many friends of mine with "nerdy" interests. You are subscribing to a very limited and stereotypical definition of nerd.  | |
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Posted: 6/24/2007 4:55:29 AM | I have been on this website since september sending lots of emails to random ppl
Doesn't make them sound too special. You know what they say it's now what you say but how you say it.
Maybe you need to evaluate the e-mails that you're sending to "random people"
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Posted: 6/24/2007 5:13:13 AM | Mike I think u need to just re write ur profile like what was stated earlier, and be postive, women do like selfconfident men.
also change ur pics, just smile, don't make faces, and don't worry, shes out there.
Good luck
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Posted: 6/24/2007 4:36:31 PM | | hey guys you think this is better. Thats the only pic of me ....I lost my web cam. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2007 8:09:17 PM | Mike think of your profile as a resume. Would you hire you based upon your resume. ou don't have to reveel everything about yourself but you should ry and sell why someone would want to meet you. Start with better photos. Also, add text describing your possitive qualities and what it is your looking for in a girl.
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Posted: 6/24/2007 8:16:39 PM | I disagree!
Being a nerd is a wonderful thing!
I consider myself one, and wear the ''nerd badge" proudly!
Any woman who apprecaties ''nerdy'' qualities is more likely to be a more intelligent woman with interests other than Ophrah Winfrey or Jessica Simpson!
I wish more nerds would messege me!
Guys who are only into ''beer, boobs, and bowling" bore me!!!
Mikeoops, if it wasnt for the age difference, I'd send you a messege, but I dont want to come off as a dirty old lady, since Im 15 (almost 16) years older.
I wish you luck in your search for Ms. Right For You. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2007 8:48:52 PM | Might help if you bothered to get your height right: I lived in China, and no one under 92 is under five feet. Your profile basically says "I don't give a damn." If you don't, no one else will either.
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Posted: 6/24/2007 9:45:41 PM | | Get rid of the webcam pictures all together, and no cell phone shots.... use a real digital camera for your pictures and s m i l e .... I see that in womens profiles all the time, always asking for guys to smile. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2007 9:50:15 PM | | Mike, message Wend66 immediately....lol | |
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Posted: 6/24/2007 9:54:57 PM | | Omg what a funny post. That last comment is gonna make you seem so attractive to women out there. Read the other profiles ...See what works and maybe make adjustments to your profile. Good luck. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2007 11:16:57 PM | | A better term is "geek". Nerd implies "completely lost in star trek memorabilia and collection of ancient CPUs", and perhaps some other connotations I won't get into. But behold, the Geek! Now here is someone who could be interesting! :) | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 11:11:12 AM | | Hey buddy, don't feel down 'cause I'm in the same boat dude! I'm sure if luck is on your side anything can happen................who am i to give advice? good luck!! | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 11:45:59 AM | HEYYYYY! MIKIE!!!!!!!
Count your blessings. It may take 2 years to find the right one, or longer.
Girls are always looking to "Upgrade". Be careful of who you get friendly with.
Brag your self up. No one else will. Insist on a quality women. Lots of ladys think of themselves as something special.Let them know that you are special. I have turned down many woman and will just wait for a special lady. I will not accept the first one that looks good.Do not be in a rush. There is always another day,.........and another woman.
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Posted: 6/25/2007 12:53:31 PM | Don't worry my friend..I've been here quite awhile myself,re-written my profile a number of times.As well as changed my photos a number of times too.And you guessed it.I'm still single? I've had a few replies,and written countless ladies.And I still have yet to chat, or meet someone through this site? And it's not just6 at this one.I've been on a few different sites over the last few years,and I'm still single!
Yes it's hard to figure out at times,as I think I have all the right qualities a woman can admire, & feel good about! But yet here I am,still single & waiting?
They say that one's match will happen when you least expect it.But sometimes it seems that day may never come? Hang in there though,because you'll never win if you don't keep trying...Hartbeat_hart | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:52:29 PM | thanks everybody... I kinda have better luck in lava life but the damn ting you have to pay for so I stick to plenty of fish. My room mate tried this site and has one favorite. I'll just have patience.
my mom says go to the gym. I might try that someday but Im too lazy when I get off work plus I work 6 days a week | |
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Posted: 6/28/2007 11:15:23 PM | | desperate and pathetic.... I'm sure you are a great guy, but no girl will date that. Learn to love you before you meet your woman. You probably have a lot of great attribute (you said you are a great conversationalist for example). Build from there... no one will ever love yo if you can't love yourself. | |
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Posted: 6/29/2007 9:02:54 PM | I'll date you mikeoops. Send me a post and we can go out for a bite to eat.
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Posted: 6/30/2007 2:37:22 AM |
succint wrote: Get rid of the webcam pictures all together, and no cell phone shots.... use a real digital camera for your pictures and s m i l e .... I see that in womens profiles all the time, always asking for guys to smile.
You are absolutely correct! I love to see a smile. Especially cause a nice smile can reel me in. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2007 6:50:35 PM | I GIVE UP, I GUESS I AM A LOSER AS WELL!!!!!  | |
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