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 Renee1981

Joined: 10/2/2005
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What's the Problem?
Posted: 6/23/2007 11:17:31 PM
I'll give you a example of what I'm talking about and feel free to let me know how you feel. There is a woman/man with a good personality, not about games or bull, no kids, decent job, goal-oriented, good sense of humor, attractive for the most part. She/he isn't stuck up about the things they achieved in their life, they just proud of it.

(Just to get this out of the way I not putting down any women/men w/ kids b/c I know there are some good one's out there, I have family who fall in that catogory)

Now that you have that have an idea of what I'm talking about here's the question:

Why do some women/men don't know what to do when they come across somebody like this? Why do they pass them by?
 creamykisses

Joined: 1/23/2006
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Posted: 6/24/2007 7:24:05 PM
because they don't or haven't been taught how to be respectful, apprecative(sp)
and most of all caring
Just because someone does well in their life as long as they do not go about boasting then the other party is loosing a possible good friendship

this is my .02 cents

Creamy
 Renee1981

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Posted: 7/6/2007 6:54:40 PM
I appreciate you responding back to my post. Thank you for you input or as you say your .02 cents.
 catharsis1

Joined: 11/9/2005
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Posted: 6/15/2008 8:25:01 PM
I think that for a lot of people, it's not just having those qualities that will make or break a person. I think when someone's surfing a singles site, they tend to look for "the ideal", where as if they were meeting someone in person, they would be a little more open. Let's face it, it's very easy to make all kinds of lists in what you MUST have in someone that you choose to communicate with. In truth, if the right person came along, that had whatever secret ingredient it is that makes your heart speak, then most of those things wouldn't really matter. They would come into your mind and leave just as quickly, because you have someone in front of you, something tangible. On the 'net, it's far more impersonal, and one profile looks much like another. Don't beat yourself up, recognize that it is what it is, and don't get discouraged. Good luck, and have fun fishing!
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