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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:06:30 AM | I have always been reli self-conscious about how small my boobs are and a lot of the time, it also affects my sex life. It seems like all men want big boobs coz u can't do much wiv small boobs and it makes me feel unattractive and not sexy at all.
I have now decided that I am gonna get a boob job to boost my self- confidence and make me feel sexy.
I was wondering what all u men really think about small boobs coz i fink my previous bf's were just bein polite and does anyone hav any opinions on the subject xx | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:12:48 AM | | I'm all about small boobs and most girls that I know have had pretty sensitive nipples which is ALWAYS fun. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:15:08 AM | | You're only 18, you're still a growing girl. Give it time. Until then, wear white and go bra-less. That is every bit as sexy as cleavage. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:20:39 AM | yea i've given it time tho, well it feels like ages I can't even look at myself topless.
And all the tops I want 2 buy i can't bcoz i've got no cleavage n it wud just hang off me. I think the money would be worth it, I would have so much more self-confidence and wouldn't have 2 hide my body coz everythin else is perfect to me...except no boobs  | |
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wafta
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Joined: 6/14/2007
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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:25:28 AM |
most girls that I know have had pretty sensitive nipples which is ALWAYS fun. 
Did you know OP that breast implant surgery can take away sensation in the nipples?
Mine are very small too, but I'm not about to risk losing that purely for cosmetic reasons.
Padded bras are amazing these days and even out your body shape when wearing clothes. Just make sure you do as I do before sleeping with a guy and TELL HIM you're sporting padding, just so he doesn't get a shock !!!! I've always been honest and very proud of mine and never had a complaint.
I actually find smaller ones much more attractive, particularly in the summer when we're wearing vest tops and such. I know I'm a woman but I still look and those HUGE things busting out all over in vest tops/skimpy tops just look very uncomfortable and not very attractive to me !!! Just my opinion before any big busted ladies come to bash me !!!
My advice - don't put yourself under the knife, learn to enjoy them, learn to joke about it, be honest about the padding and KEEP THE NIPPLE SENSATION | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:26:44 AM | you are hanging around the wrong men
use Kate Hudson as your role model beautiful girl with a small chest who looks amazing | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:30:01 AM | There is nothing you can buy which will give you self confidence if you don't already have it to begin with.
Self confidence, happiness, contentment, all these things come from within yourself.
The only reason you should get a boob job is because you enjoy wagging them around and showing off to everybody.
That's not self confidence.
You are not your boobs.
You are not your car.
You are not your stereo.
You are not your job.
You are only yourself, as you are.
Figure out who you are first, then maby think about inserting the plastic bags under your skin. | |
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wafta
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Joined: 6/14/2007
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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:33:03 AM | Not to mention :
Keira Knightley, Kate Moss and Naomi Campbell to name just a few
And I totally agree with the above poster, it sounds like you have a self confidence issue and your boobs are standing out (scuze the pun) as the one thing that is wrong with you physically.
Self confidence is a lot more about how we think rather than how we look, you need to love yourself for who you are and not what you look like - it all goes south eventually, learn to love every inch of you inside and out and you'll find that men will see that in you. The size of your boobs will not be an issue to a man who really loves you !! | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:33:43 AM | | The upside to your situation is that when you are in your 40s, people are going to tell you that you have 18-year-old boobs, which is very cool. | |
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Joined: 12/7/2006
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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:34:13 AM | Be happy you have boobs.
If I had some I would rarely leave the house!
Don't sweat it, boobs may catch a mans eye but what you do with the rest of your body and mind is what is going to keep his attention.  | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:38:07 AM | | Please, don't do that ! Listen to me, the guys who adore large breasts are way too superficial, and in my opinion, your better off without a dude like that ! Don't go defacing your body just to please some morons who don't respect women. Everybody is different, and thats great, like the other dude said, I hate large breasts too ! All they do is sag when ya get older, and trust me, you will get older. Just be you, and you'll do fine. The men who are looking at your breasts that hard, don't deserve your time, respect, or love anyway. Please don't do it sweetie... There's alot of wonderful men out there in the world that will love you the way you came stock from the factory. I wouldn't change nothin for nobody, I love me the way I am, and you need to be the same way. I think you look awesome ! By the way, the pouty pic is good, but when ya smile a little Wow ! Just pump that smile up a bit, and you'll bring the world to it's knees ! Your face is to die for sweets. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:41:12 AM | I know that a lot of ppl disagree with havin breast implants.
There is nothing you can buy which will give you self confidence if you don't already have it to begin with.
I def think they will boost my self-confidence. I'll be able to wear what I want, won't be self conscious wearing anything revealing, and I will b proud of my body rather than ashamed. Its embarrassin gettin asked 4 ID wheneva I want to go out 4 a drink, even sumtimes if I wana buy a pack of cigs!
If i'm getting the boob job for myself, to make me feel good and make me feel like a woman is there really anything wrong with that? | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:49:28 AM | Don't do it. They will no way boost your self confidence IF you can't do that for your self. Just remember that they are false false false. I think that you have gotten a good positive feedback from males and some females in here.
Because I grew up playing sports, my breast development was non existant (that's normal for most female athletes) and I was self conscious and hung up about it BUT did nothing (well in those days you didn't). Otherwise I had a top notch body, cool looks, and just about everything going for me.
I can't remember when they started to develop but develop they did and kept developing. Apparently I have what is considered to be great boobs BUT I'd like to get rid of some but I won't. Life is constantly changing and our bodies are constanting changing, please don't change your body because you "think" it will improve your self confidence. Remember what you have and then realize that you will be constantly wearing falsies. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 3:54:00 AM | seriously with your gorgeous looks and obvious great personality why would you want to change anything
wait a few years and see how you feel | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 4:06:11 AM | thanx I really appreciate everyones opinions, I thought most ppl would disagree tho is there anyone that does agree???
I know they are false, but it wouldn't make me a false person, in fact I'm one of the nicest ppl u'll meet will do almost anythin 4 anyone n once I get em done, the'll b part of me.
I know my body may change, I doubt it though, I'm 7 stone n can't put any weight on no matter how much I eat. I was bullied in school for being fat when I was younger, so I went on a crash diet while my body was still trying to grow which I think is the reason y my boobs are so tiny. So u see all my confidence was completly knockd down n hen stamped all over n now i'm skinny wiv no boobs an feel so unattractive. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 4:10:21 AM | | You seem pretty petite, implants might look really out of proportion with the rest of you. I think you're lovely as you are. And big boobs might get a lot of attention, but I think guys just like breasts in general, small ones too :) | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 4:10:54 AM | | sori bt had 2 b said, to the ppl that want this thread deleted bcoz its about pity, ur wrong, I want ppls honest opinions on what I should do and I want 2 explain 2 them why I want this boob job and want 2 know if there is anyone else out there in my situation that I can talk 2 so if u dnt like it, don't read it!! | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 4:13:29 AM | I understand why you want to do it, and I'm not against implants in general.
Just please, two things: wait a few years, let your body grow some more (my body has changed a lot since I was 18), and if you do get them, don't go too big. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 4:15:19 AM | | I have to agree I actually grew after 21 breast size went up from a b to a d to my dismay I liked my small girls | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 5:25:49 AM | boobs don't get to thier actual size until mid- 20's....so relax...and by then you will notice that small isn't so bad...lol...big boobs get in the way of things anyways.  | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 5:29:14 AM | sweetie Im small chested too but I have never had a problem with it
most guys I know are not into big chesated women
and yes it is true when your small your much more sensitve
and we have an advantage over big boobs too lol we can buy the designer bras
and if you wear them right you can make cleavage
they dont designe tops for big chest either
and look at the Models latly !! they are all small chested
more then a handful is a waste !!
retro | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 5:32:15 AM | | No need for a breast enhancement. I can have as much fun with small ones as big ones. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 5:39:25 AM | You want honesty? I have so called small boobs and wouldn't change it for the world. When I was pregnant lo and behold I got bigger boobs and boy were they a pain. They were in the way so to speak. I felt really uncomfortable.
I have friends who are big boobed, and they would trade any day to be me. They have trouble finding fitting clothes too. Clothes are not made individually.
Go into a store, ask a saleslady for help finding clothes. I have found coupled with a padded bra(nothing excessive) and the right top do wonders. Remember to add attention to the bottom so dark on top like black and white on bottom puts the attention to the better half. There are lots of tricks when wearing clothes that you can read up on that help. It is not to deceive. It is to make an outfit look better! Otherwise bring a friend to give you a 2nd opinion for a fun day out shopping! As we all know, us women love shopping!
I have heard a lot of bad stories with implants. Wouldn't do it! I have a lot of attributes that are worth the time of day anyday for a guy!
Oh and another point. My friend and I when we go out to a bar--she has the big boobs, I have a great butt/petite. We attract totally different guys. Some guys like them big, some don't. Don't worry about it! There are more important things guys are looking for--really!
Good luck! | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 5:52:18 AM | I know girls who think that getting implants will make them feel good about themselves. So they do it, and it works.
They do feel better about themselves, for a while.
But then it wears off.
It doesn't occur to them they were still the same person, just with bigger boobs.
Then they find something else to buy to feel better about themselves and they go get that.
After a while that wears off too.
Around and around they go, constantly searching for that magic thing they can buy to fill their emptiness.
Thinking that something outside yourself will make you feel good, is foolishness. | |
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Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 25 | |
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Posted: 6/25/2007 5:56:09 AM | OP: I doubt you get ID'ed because of the size of your breasts...I can only see your face in your picture, and I'd ask you for ID, too...you look young.
I'll tell you what, I'll trade you, because I want to get rid of mine...at least the majority.
Edit: VVVV Okay....this girl is 18...simmer down buddy. | |
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