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 Stacee*Jane

Joined: 5/2/2007
Msg: 1
Fairy tales dont always have a happy ending do they?
Posted: 7/2/2007 1:31:26 AM
Should I accept hes really not out there..

this isn't how the story was supposed to go
did this chapter get ripped out?
did they not finish the ending?
what happened?
no glass slipper?
no fairy god mother?
did prince charming really get lost along the way?
when did it become your right
to decided my once upon a mid summers night dream?
did you slaughter mother goose?
like you did my soul?
and replace it with a spindle?
to touch and feel nothing ever again
well guess what
you win, hes not coming.
and id rather stay fast asleep.



just some 5 am .. no hope left poem.. -Cheers lonely_lil_one
 Stardust

Joined: 2/27/2003
Msg: 2
Fairy tales dont always have a happy ending do they?
Posted: 7/2/2007 5:13:18 AM
you are a little young to have such a dismal look at things................I did like your poem though, good for thinking................

I wonder though, why at your age you are worried about that, you should be out enjoying life and experiencing new things,

you have lots of time to find 'mr right' for you....................
 Jetplague

Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 3
Fairy tales dont always have a happy ending do they?
Posted: 7/2/2007 6:44:23 AM
You should get rid of that mindset for finding a "Mr. Right" and instead focus on finding someone that actually make you happy. You're young and you've got all the time in the world to find someone...you may find that your taste in men will change as you mature...give it time. Good things will come to those who wait. Yeah I know that's a slice of crap...and probably heard it over and over before. But it's true for the most part...fairytales are just that, people shouldn't expect them to become reality.
 Beautiful Deviant

Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 4
Fairy tales dont always have a happy ending do they?
Posted: 7/2/2007 9:08:36 AM
Fairy tales are fiction, lonely lil one. If you're waiting for a white knight to kiss you - make you alive and whisk you off to a life of love, you're setting yourself up for disappointment.

You are 18 years old, with the world and life before you. Do not place your happiness in finding a man to validate who you are and what your life will be.

Happiness is not something someone else will bring to you, it is something you create and find in yourself...something you will share with another when he comes along.

Enjoy the process. Love yourself. Build the life you want. Travel to the places you want to see. Grow friendships. Live. Love will find you when you are ready.
Dev
 Leeanne

Joined: 10/14/2005
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Fairy tales dont always have a happy ending do they?
Posted: 7/2/2007 9:18:00 AM
Oh dear God!!!!!!!! You have that feeling at 18 Yikes!!!!!! Honey you have an entire life ahead of you - a big life - full of fun and adventure if you allow it!!! You should be experiencing the joy of life at 18!!! As for love and fairy tales endings - they do happen - they do become reality - when the time is right - when you are happy with you!!!!! Your confidence and happiness will bring you everything you desire!!! Believe it!!!
 Van_Norris II

Joined: 6/10/2007
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Never regret anything which makes you laugh....
Posted: 7/2/2007 9:45:35 AM
Heres a fairy "tail" with a happy ending.... then again that depends on your point of view!

Once upon a time, in a land far away, a beautiful, independent, self-assured princess happened upon a frog, as she sat contemplating ecological issues on the shores of an unpolluted pond in a verdant meadow near her castle.

The frog hopped into the princess' lap and said: Elegant Lady, I was once a handsome prince, until an evil witch cast a spell upon me. One kiss from you, however, and I will turn back into the dapper, young prince that I am and then, my sweet, we can marry and set up housekeeping in your castle with my mother, where you can prepare my meals, clean my clothes, bear my children, and forever feel grateful and happy doing so.

That night, as the princess dined sumptuously on lightly sautéed frog legs seasoned in a white wine and onion cream sauce, she chuckled and thought to herself: I don't ******* think so.
 ~rain~

Joined: 6/9/2007
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Fairy tales dont always have a happy ending do they?
Posted: 7/2/2007 10:02:39 AM
this isn't how the story was supposed to go
did this chapter get ripped out?....[If you feel a chapter has been ripped out..then rewrite it!]
did they not finish the ending?....[You should finish your own ending..no one else can write the book to your life]..

what happened?..[You are dwelling to much on it]..

no glass slipper?... [they are uncomfortable anyway...look for something in sheepskin..or any other kind of soft leather]...

no fairy god mother?...[nah..she retired and is now living in florida]..

did prince charming really get lost along the way?..[Most prince charmings have GPS's now..they need these cause they never ask for directions]

when did it become your right
to decided my once upon a mid summers night dream?...[it is no ones "right"..make your goals and get out there and do it]..
did you slaughter mother goose?... [well..what do you expect..she was shitting all over the golf course]..
like you did my soul?
and replace it with a spindle?.......[I have no comments on these lines...to me they just seem..sad]..(shakes head)
to touch and feel nothing ever again...[you are 18 and "ever again" is a long time].
well guess what
you win, hes not coming. ...[He will come when you least expect it and are probubly not trying to hard to find it].
and id rather stay fast asleep.....[.stay asleep and the world will pass you by]....
 Only hurts when I laugh

Joined: 6/14/2007
Msg: 8
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Posted: 7/2/2007 3:51:51 PM
I think somebody has been taking the blue pills when they should be taking the pink ones.
 Tricky n ^jynxx^

Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 9
Fairy tales dont always have a happy ending do they?
Posted: 7/3/2007 8:42:52 AM
if they all had a happy ending then it wouldn't be realistic now would it?some people however do get lucky and find a good one but they make their own happy ending.endings like that take time and a lot of hard work and patience,they don't happen overnight or like they do in movies or books.sorry to hear things are not going well for you,but chin up,keep positive and one day your prince/princess will come!(trickyricky)
 8567

Joined: 5/4/2008
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Fairy tales dont always have a happy ending do they?
Posted: 8/8/2009 11:37:22 PM
Ahhh I am sorry, and I liked the poem, it was poetic and true. I don't know what to say. I guess sometimes god tests people or maybe we fail the tests? All I know is you can't rush life, you can't predict the future. It can feel like life has passed you by, but your not dead so you can't say that right?
 oblivion77

Joined: 4/11/2009
Msg: 11
Fairy tales dont always have a happy ending do they?
Posted: 8/9/2009 2:58:16 PM
As many said above, op, you are way too young to feel like this.
Think about your whole future instead of guys and romance. Think about what career you want, how you're going to get it, places you want to see in the world, the kind of friends you want to make after high school, and all of those things that make life worth living. The guys will come and go. Have fun with them while they're around, don't be too down about it when they leave, and just don't worry about it.
 english lass

Joined: 11/14/2007
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Fairy tales dont always have a happy ending do they?
Posted: 8/9/2009 3:46:26 PM
beautiful poem, very expressive!... you've a great gift of sharing there

i disagree with the others who say you're too young to feel this way

feelings are never logical, if they were, things would be a lot simpler... but they occur no matter what the age or experience; people feel love and heartbreak at any year

i'm sorry you're feeling so blue... my advice would be to hold on and realize that things generally Do look better, over time - tomorrow the most amazing thing/person may *happen* in your life and it'd be such a shame to miss it, because you gave up...

instead of focusing on that which is not had, try focusing on those things that you do have... whether it's health/love from family or friends/work/schooling/pets/hobbies/whatever...
try to spend time and thought on things that you enjoy and that make you smile...

pining for a specific person is understandable and sometimes time is needed to heal and become *whole* again...if that's the case with you, then be good to yourself and give yourself that time needed...rediscover the joy and beauty that is *you* as the single person and individual you are...

if you're just feeling lonely, that's also understandable... but, pining for love in general is never productive; either it comes or not... if it comes then that's wonderful, but if it doesn't, then what a waste of time and life to be sitting wishing for something that never happened...

each day is uncertain and too precious to waste... i do hope you're able to move on and get out of the funk soon - there are a whole lot of 'smile worthy' things out there still

best of luck
 Sweet Euphoria

Joined: 6/17/2005
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Fairy tales dont always have a happy ending do they?
Posted: 8/9/2009 7:00:11 PM
Has anyone noticed that this thread was over 2 years old?...lol I'm sure she's moved on or found someone. She/he is not even a member anymore.
 minako79

Joined: 1/15/2009
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Fairy tales dont always have a happy ending do they?
Posted: 8/9/2009 7:02:07 PM

did prince charming really get lost along the way?
the prince charming syndrome doesn't exist.. he comes with a dent.. its something that you either willing to accept part of the package or just move on. I realize you can't depend on the guy to make your happy, don't make him your pedestal... You need to love yourself more because no one else will.


Life is too short to wake up with regrets.
Love the people who treat you right.
Forget about the ones who don't.
Believe everything happens for a reason.
If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands.
If it changes your life, let it.
Nobody said life would be easy.
They just promised it would be worth it.
 Advocato

Joined: 5/27/2007
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Fairy tales dont always have a happy ending do they?
Posted: 8/10/2009 4:53:34 PM

Has anyone noticed that this thread was over 2 years old?...lol I'm sure she's moved on or found someone. She/he is not even a member anymore.


Good eyes there, but heck if I care, it made for an interesting thread.
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