| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 3:55:41 PM | ...This is really Female oriented but more of a Sex question so I picked this Forum...
When you say "I think about Sex all the time" or "I've been thinking about sex all day" or something along those line. What do you think about? What aspect of sex? The desire? The person? The act? When I ask the question the answer I get is "Just doing it" which sounds like your thinking of a Nike ad.
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 4:03:23 PM | Reason for Requested Deletion: Non-English/Nonsense post
Really am I that blind that my post doesn't make sense? I'm almost positive it's in english. I just think the female brain thinks different then my own. I mean if I'm thinking about Sex I can tell you the sexual reason behind it. Where as when I ask a woman the answer I get is: "you know, just, It" | |
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 4:10:48 PM | When we think about it - which for me seems to be constantly. mostly the act- like his breath on my skin- the way he smells, how he taste - what he feels like- okay shower time- | |
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 4:26:46 PM | | If I'm thinking, I like to think of a "recent memory". Haven't had too many of them, though. Sometimes I let my imagination run wild and think about different ways, people, the like. I enjoy letting a guy I'm "chatting" with, who really is into me, know my thoughts about it. Usually I get a "rousing" response on the other end of the line... | |
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 4:31:13 PM | There will always be trollers that will just randomly decide to delete a thread for whatever reason they like, incorrect or not. Someone decided your thought was nonsense in their mind and they have the ability to vote against it. Too bad too - you're asking an honest question. I don't believe it's a repeat either, since there are so many subtle variations on a topic.
My "yes" ~ I have all those thoughts. At different times, in the same thought, sometimes not. It is different for each woman, so it's best to be specific and ask the woman that said it.
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 4:33:32 PM | It just means she's thinking about sex...not that complicated. Either she is thinking about wanting to have sex, or she is thinking about a recent encounter, or she is thinking about stuff she wants to try.
I think it varies even with the same women - each time may be different. | |
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 4:35:10 PM | Mostly think about the feelings themselves. Hard to explain for me. Not so much the acts themselves as how I feel during. Hope you can make sense of that, I know exactly what I mean
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 4:43:15 PM | Sometimes it's the next day after a very memorable go 'round. Settin' in traffic, eyes glazed over, senses aroused and all of a sudden you shiver all over...."dayum that was GOOD" seems to yank your spinal fluid and your body convulses....so gentlemen.. ....the next time you cuss a woman driver.....she couldn't give a rip, what you think...cuz she's in afterglow land. Therefore...it's really some MAN's fault ! | |
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 4:49:57 PM | | It's not just a Nike commercial. It's some ADIDAS (All Day I Dream About Sex) ...as well as two different heads, hearts, and ideas for how to go about the act coming together as one ...w/ an agreed-upon and mutually respected direction in which to run from there. It's the synthesis of desire and the person to whom this is focused that makes the act of sex more than just a victory. It's winning in life via surrender of self. On a first date? Not likely, but lightning has been known to strike from out of the blue. | |
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K-lo
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 5:07:15 PM | For me, it's usually replaying a memory of sex and very specifically visualizing it, i.e., the memory of what he did, of the very moment when he put it in, of what his tongue felt like and what it was doing, of the dirty $hit he said to me before and during, of how he threw me up against the wall, of how he pulled my hair, . . . I gotta stop.
If I haven't actually just had sex with someone in the recent past, then, I might think about having sex with someone who is really teasing me in daily life (or, who I might be resisting). So, then it's more of a fantasy. And, I have less to go on - - but, that's OK too, because, then it's always good. So, I'll play out a nice little porn scene in my own head . . . peppered with some reality from conversations we've had.
I can't do both at the same time. I'm so ridiculously loyal . . I can't even fantasize about strange men behind my beau's back (or, inside my own mind). And then it sucks when we break up . . . because then I can't fantasize about ANYONE for a long time. My switch turns "off" for a LOOOOOONG time. | |
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 5:13:25 PM | It is just about getting it! The urge can be so strong that you can't think straight and you want that blood flow back to the brain asap! I feel sorry for men that feel this way day in and day out.
It's a good thing women don't feel that way 24/7. Our children would all starve and nothing would get done!  | |
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 5:28:36 PM | | I usually think about sex when I masturbate. | |
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vhdc
| Joined: 7/18/2006 Msg: 13 | |
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 5:54:17 PM | Always the person - sometimes the act, sometimes the desire. Sometimes it's just the memory of his smell, or the feel of his skin under my fingers., the feel of his chest hairs as I run my fingers through it. Sometimes it's what we just did the day before...or what we might do next time. Sometimes I just get lost in all of it.
Okay...I'm outta here for a bit... | |
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 6:34:06 PM | | Always the person! Her!....her eyes glazing, and mine too, as we touch, caress, stroke, never looking away! The slow, torturous excitement building....mmmmmm, always thinking about the last moment, the next moment, all the things we can do to prolong it even more, or take her higher and higher. | |
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 7:23:18 PM | | I usually think about the desire and the act itself. | |
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 7:27:22 PM | I have my top 2 in life and replay again in mind again and again and again. Man that was HOT!
And you thought location, location, location was about real estate...think again! | |
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bayrab
| Joined: 5/16/2007 Msg: 18 | |
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 7:31:24 PM | | I think about the seductive stares, hot breaths melting into eachother, the heat of skin against skin, kisses that linger and roam, I think about the sounds of passion, the moans and gasps, I think of the scent of perspiration and of bodily fluids exchanged. I think of the person although sometimes faceless and their body moving in time with my own. I think... a bit too much for my own good! | |
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 7:45:41 PM | | Sorry dude, those are my dirty little secrets.. come up with your own. | |
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 7:48:12 PM | Its usually a memory from a recent "encounter" that catches me off guard and puts a little smile on my face.  | |
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 8:50:37 PM |
Sometimes it's the next day after a very memorable go 'round. Settin' in traffic, eyes glazed over, senses aroused and all of a sudden you shiver all over...."dayum that was GOOD" ...
ditto....lol! | |
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 8:54:16 PM |
I usually think about sex when I masturbate.
I think about chocolate-covered peasicles. ;)
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/2/2007 9:32:42 PM | Do I think about sex often? Ohh yes. What do I think about when I think of sex? Hmm Some of it's probably too graphic and way too personal to post. But, more often than not, I think of ways I'd love to be taken, scenarios in which that will happen, the man I'm thinking of, as well as the things I'd love to be doing to him, with him, for him. Sometimes it's soft and slow. Sometimes it's raw, passionate, rough, and in the heat of the moment. But sex, and thinking about it, is a constant with me. | |
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| Thinking About Sex Posted: 7/3/2007 5:35:00 AM | I think about the feeling, the sensations.. the connection.. Rawr!
lol. yeah thats pretty much when I think of when I'm thinking about sex, as well as the person. | |
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