| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 1:41:58 PM | I love to please my man. I do it all. Front door. Back Alley. Oral. whenever. Wherever. I always make sure to please him. I just love to make him happy. I asked him once to go down on me, he said he wasn't comfortable with it and I felt really sad and said nothing. He simply doesn't feel comfortable going down on me. Funny, I do it for him all the friggin time. When he refused, my ego was severly bruised.
How come he doesn't want to ? What's the big deal ? Any other chicks in here meet with this kind of an attitude ? | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 1:47:12 PM |
He simply doesn't feel comfortable going down on me. Funny, I do it for him all the friggin time. When he refused, my ego was severly bruised
Maybe he's on the Adkins diet and cant eat fresh things. (just kidding).
Maybe he doesnt exactly know how to do it well and doesnt want to do a bad job? Maybe he doesnt like the enclosed feeling of being between 2 thighs? Maybe he's simply selfish?
I'm assuming you keep everything fresh and fruity scented down there, so that can't be the issue...right?  | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 1:49:21 PM | Now I'm not a woman (gasp) but I thought I'd share my personal reasons for not going down on a woman. When I was much younger I went down on a woman for the first time and got this reaction....
'Do you have any idea what you are doing?'
Now it was said in a light-hearted, joking manner, but for years it shaped my sexuality. Thankfully I have overcome that little insecurity and now not only give women head, but I LOVE doing it! It's very arrousing!
Most likely your guy has either experienced something like this, or simply isn't confident in his ability to pleasure you. Next time it comes up, don't ask for it, just swivel your hips onto his face while you are going down on him. If he still objects, he's probably just selfish natured. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 1:50:31 PM | | Lauren, I for the life of me cant figure that one out. To please my partner sexually only adds to my excitement. To see the look on your face as I am doing my thing. Knowing the joy I am giving you as you squirm under me and your fingers running thru it...ok, I better stop. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 1:54:33 PM | | I suggest that you find a new boyfriend. Most guys want to please their women. We complain that we will go down on our women but a lot of women won't go down on us or won't swallow. you deserve a guy who gos down on you and won't stop until you have had every last climax you can take | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 1:55:15 PM | | ii know guys who say that spot is for their****only...others who if you are in the shower will lick you wherever you want as long as you want....and then the guys who would do it anytime any place.....did you ask him why? It always helps to ask. I asked the guy ive been seeing why he wouldnt and he told me it's just not his thing...but in the shower he would because everything is constantly being rinsed clean. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 3:45:36 PM | agrees with cosmo. however, if you have talked to him about this, and told him how you feel, he should at least be willing to try. sounds selfish, especially if you do this for him.
try this - if he won't do it tell him you forgot how to suck**** i won't blow anyone who refuses to reciprocate. a rule of mine. think that's fair. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 4:00:54 PM | U kno I get all that maybe he is unexpirerenced but w.e...U kno I would rather someone be honest and say I don't like it or I don't kno how or w.e instead of saying I don't feel comfotable and then saying oh but it is ok for u to do i to him..I say get him a frikkin Cosmo mag. turn to the page on oral or just get a frikkin Karma Sutra book hun tell him to study up or he can got get about getting sh*t from you!!! Becasue I am sorry someone who isn't man enough to return the favor after u have happy done it all with him just to please him and make him happy is a frikkin jerk and deserves to be frikkin cut off!!! U need to put ur foot down and figure out what the heck is going on and let him kno that isn't right!!!
Or....u may want to invest in a vibrator to do that job that he won't!!! Take a stand girl!! U CAN DO IT!!!! GOOD LUCK SWEETS!!! | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 4:04:30 PM | All I can say is stop going down on him...
Also there is a saying that I heard years ago...
A Man That Don't Go Down, Won't Stick Around...
Same goes for you women...
A Woman That Don't Go Down, Won't Stick Around... | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 4:13:26 PM |
I just love to make him happy. I asked him once to go down on me, he said he wasn't comfortable with it
Well.. I know a guy that was like that.. Cause if I dont remember right.. I read something about "breakin this one in" or something like that..
But maybe he has tasted p u s s y before.. but gagged?
Always that first taste of something you never thought would taste like that. ;)
.. I think maybe you should try and well.. dont just demand him right there and be like "EAt now! pay later  "
but build him up.. kinda..
use your female powers of T&H tease & hook.. (some real shisty women out there)
But play with him so you can plan out where he would lay or etc etc..
Let him get the taste for it.. dont just go out and end up f u c k i n g. This is your time for some good old tounge love. But you may have to build your man into being able to get it down.. and dont joke around about he eats it or not.. that really does get to us guys sometimes.
maybe more..
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 4:32:17 PM | Ok...I get maybe I will buy that whole he has done it be4 and didn't like it, becasue I have had guys tell me some of there horror stories about it, like un clean girls or it tasteing like the girl just pisst. So maybe assuare him u r clean, like take a nice shower together and let him clean u then he will know for sure that it is nice and clean!!!
And as for it tasting bad as long as the grl is clean it tastes just fine and I am allowed to say that............hehehe  Girls like to have fun to hehe | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 4:34:49 PM |
Girls like to have fun to hehe
of course.
but its not always cause they arent clean or something like that.
Some guys taste buds HAve problems.. and vagina is a werd/slimy feeling/new taste.
They need to be worked gentle. then ruff ladies. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 4:42:47 PM | | well, I supose u r right about that...I have only been with one chick and she tasted great!! I would sooo do it again...oh and it's not that diff from what a guy tastes like in some case his can be worse!! lol No offence to the guys hehehe | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 4:44:34 PM | | Thats just life Lauren. If he isn't comfortable with it or doesn't want to do it then there is no sence in trying to force him to. A man can't force a woman to suck him off and it works the other way too. Respect his wishes and work with what you have. Maybe some day he'll come around but I doubt it. If your doing anything that you really don't like to do then you know you don't have to do that and he should respect your wishes too. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 4:51:33 PM |
Thats just life Lauren. If he isn't comfortable with it or doesn't want to do it then there is no sence in trying to force him to. A man can't force a woman to suck him off and it works the other way too. Respect his wishes and work with what you have. Maybe some day he'll come around but I doubt it. If your doing anything that you really don't like to do then you know you don't have to do that and he should respect your wishes too.
! yes. BUt she has to ask him first.. I understand the respect thing. I give mine when needed. Or deserved... maybe though.. he has just had one bad apple spoil his experience though. Thats all I was getting at.
what a guy tastes like in some case his can be worse!! lol No offence to the guys hehehe
AAAHAHAHA.. true.. ball sweat and a mix of nastyness isnt ever good.. but Girls do have those moments as well.. ;)  | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 5:01:57 PM | I ALLWAYS go down, I enjoy eating at the Y. I think he must have a loose screw or something.
I say you should ask him why and if you don't like the answer you get you should stop giving him " full access" and limit him to " wat you give is what you get" | |
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sarahb
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Palpy
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 5:20:59 PM | I used to go down as we say. I was with this one girl who had bladder control problems and she didn't tell me. I think I must have brushed my teeth at least 20 times that night. I've been scared since then. Bad experiences like that might make a man not go down.
Palpy | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 5:32:37 PM | | I don't know, but I'd go down on a woman in a heartbeat, even if she wouldn't return the favor. Most aren't up for that, for some reason. | |
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| When he won't go down on you
Posted: 5/4/2005 6:08:58 PM | Connie? Connie Lingus?? Is that you??
Like was mentioned earlier, you really have to ask...
I enjoy going down, and have no problem not having the favour returned all the time, but definitely need my fill sometimes!
If for whatever reason he's afraid of connie, there are lots of other ways to play, or even to ease him back onto good terms with her...good luck! | |
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