| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/4/2005 2:30:41 PM | I'm starting to wonder... why are women such compulsive and intensely blatant liars? Why would a woman lead a guy on all night long telling him that she's so into him after as things turn out we have pretty much everything in common, why would this woman go along with not just one but several intense and passionate kisses throughout the night, then INSIST that she see the guy again, INSIST that the guy call her back... only to never answer her phone or reply to her email and just leave him high and dry after that?
ARE THERE ANY ACTUAL HONEST WOMEN ON THIS MISERABLE ROCK? | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/4/2005 5:06:58 PM | Yes there are... she just didnt have the deceny to let ya down easy...
Sorry to hear it didnt work out... I saw in ur other post she attempted to clear things up... | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/4/2005 5:20:07 PM | | sorry dgw, but the men can be the same way. send them an email, and they dont even send one back saying "not interested". or you have a few dates, then never hear from them again. It's not only women. | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/4/2005 5:20:47 PM | Gee, I had practically the same thing happen - but it was a guy - so maybe it's some PEOPLE who are blatant liars?  | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/4/2005 5:41:32 PM | To those of you who may be curious. I don't think that people are intentionally lying. They may just not know what they are getting themselves into. Once they've decided that the date or exchange of messages is not going the way they perceived, they get cold feet. This will then and ultimately lead to some sort of lie. My suggestion is: make sure you finish what you start, don't mislead people from the get go and if that happens; always,always apologize and leave them in good terms. Most people will understand and feel respected. I'm sure this has happened to many people on dating sites but use proper etiquette...
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/4/2005 5:48:39 PM | SORRY TO SAY MAN.....IT HAS TO DO WITH WOMENS LIB,AND THE GODLESS AMERICA WE LIVE IN.THINGS AREN'T WHAT THEY WERE WHEN OUR PARENTS WERE YOUNG(UNFORTUNATELY).LIBERAL AMERICA SUCKS,IT'S RUINED SO MANY THINGS.I'VE DATED NOTHING BUT COWARDLY LIARS AND WANNABE'S FOR YEARS NOW.I'VE BEEN USED BY THE BEST OF THEM.I STILL HAVE HOPE TO FIND A WOMAN WITH CHARACTER AND MORALS...I JUST HAD TO RAISE MY STANDARDS.....BEST OF LUCK MY COMRADE! | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/4/2005 6:47:50 PM | | Maybe it just wasnt ment to be...I prob. wont be the first woman to do it...nor the last...but thats life. One good thing though that I know for sure...what goes around comes around. | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/4/2005 6:56:42 PM | It always strikes me as tragic when anyone blames their problems with a gender, .....on that gender.
When a relationship goes bad, we can come away with it one of two ways:
Fix Blame.
or,
Fix Problem.
I've, been lucky, ....I've had some bad relationships, .....but,
...... I always look back and think: What did I do wrong?
Communications?
Choice of partner?
Settling for a relationship out of loneliness?
Etc.
.........and I evolve.
This is called being emotionally ready for the next "at bats".
I am reminded of an old saying:
"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results."
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Posted: 5/5/2005 9:48:04 AM | OK in reply to the orginal posting...WITTY
putting your FAITH in people will only break your spirit....People are just human, they are not worthy of your faith....
I mean to trust people is one thing seriously hard to do when you keep getting walked on, beaten down, and well just proven wrong over and over again when you trust in them...It is a hard thing to do. I just by nature have always believe that there is GOOD in all people, and automaticly trust and believe, WRONG I have gotten so taken advantage of, and hurt by doing so, but I keep at it...I hate the thought of being so cold and heartless that I trust no one, and think all people are wicked. That may be true, but in my heart I believe in GOOD, and think there are people who are caring, and wonderful...
Its really a personal choice you must make. DO YOU BELIEVE? do you TRUST? its so hard to have a REAL relationship when you cant give the person your trust, when you cant believe them......
HONESTY is what you must give to get, people in this world are AFRAID TO PUT THEMSLEVES OUT THERE, TO TRUST ANYONE BECAUSE THE FEAR OF BEING HURT, USED, AND WALKED ON......Its a harsh world, but you must find where you want to live, your way of thinking and dealing... | |
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Joined: 1/7/2005
Msg: 11 | |
| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/5/2005 9:58:23 AM | | why are some men such wimps - she dont call or answer ? good who the F cares - women after about 40 ususlly end up single miserable and always wishing the did call or answer - this world as it is today is not set up for people to commit to each other - be honest with each other - tell the truth - be nice - or anything else like that -** when you say you are loosing faith in women - thats sad - because why on earth would you live your live hoping that another human being should be responsible for your happiness ? Seems you are loosing faith in yourself - if someone blows you off who cares / You can always go into the forums and read how these nice shy at first women want to do anal have a 3-some and swallow buckets of cum - sweet - take care | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/5/2005 10:58:42 AM | Hey Mack,
I'm channeling another Mack here when I say that your profile headline sounds seriously desperate. You really gotta change that.
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/5/2005 11:35:06 AM |
women after about 40 ususlly end up single miserable
Oh, please, not another sweeping generalization...
I bet I know more women over 40 than you do - and that describes none of them | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/5/2005 1:33:36 PM | | Hey dutch - on 2nd thought - your right ! i apologize ! it does look pretty bad - but only because I couldnt fit the rest in ! | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/20/2005 5:53:04 PM | I read the thread on *losing faith in men* now the one on *losing faith in women* at what point to we take responsibility for our choices? Maybe a review of what initially draws you to a woman and then what goes wrong, Maybe you are looking for the wrong traits, maybe you need to re-evaluate just exactly what you need in a relationship or even in a friendship. Apparently this woman wasn't strong enough to be honest, or something *in her mind* that was better came along. We will always run into shallow people that is just a fact of life, Live and learn from it.
As for women over 40, I am 53 I am not old and dried up or bitter and regretting, I have made mistakes I have learned and I have moved on... | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/20/2005 6:25:54 PM | right on iam 47 and i am out there haveing fun just because were older women doesn't mean were dead omg and to loseing faith in women come on it's both genders that feel that way about each other were all on here to find someone speical every one needs to stop thinking native try thinking of being postive some guys are just as bad as us women every one has been hurt in the past but age has nothing to do with it age is all in the mind your as young as you feel so quit blameing each other just get out there and be happy you will find that some one and your faith will be fulfilled , | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/20/2005 6:45:46 PM | you know what? nearly all females are taking a cue from previous relationships that we've been through in the past...it's like we're thinking, ok, he's just like all the rest of them, so i'am gonna dump him before he dumps me...YOU men, have been doing this for centuries and getting away with it...females have gotten smarter, and they've decided, well hell,he's cute, but, he's not my type, so i'am gonna go along with this for now, and let him go ....real easy..actually it's YOU guys that started all of this crap...jumping from one female to the next, to see if you score.but you don't realize that in all that little boy shit that you start...we females have feelings...seems to me, that once the females started treating males like we have been treated for centuries...you guys want to go soft...and start to have feelings...doesn't feel good to you when a girl goes home with you, stays the night then gets up the next day and leaves just like that...you all have taught us a valuable lesson...so deal with it.(and thanks for the lesson.) | |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 7:18:17 PM | | I just got stood up to-night but guess what? It's ok. Live and Let Live. The guy was a bit on the skiddish side anyways. I'm sure he had good reasons too. Before I place blame I gotta walk in his shoes first. I really do wish him well. I simply went to another fellas house and just got asked to see him to-morrow night anyways. It's kinda funny as he is right under my nose too. This is a big POF and we all got poles. More swim by every minute. I'm just enjoying the fun of living my life and eventually the right one will be there. | |
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| Losing faith in women...
Posted: 5/20/2005 7:30:33 PM |
why are women such compulsive and intensely blatant liars?
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ARE THERE ANY ACTUAL HONEST WOMEN ON THIS MISERABLE ROCK?
and here I thought we lived in Utopia where everyone acts decently, morally and with ethics. Welcome to planet earth and the human race, get a grip, stop the generalizations and have for the love of Buddha, patience ..... you'll eventually bump into somone that means what they say, and says what they mean.......... | |
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