Favie
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Joined: 8/29/2004
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Posted: 5/4/2005 5:53:49 PM | OK. Now these are just some thoughts. All my life I've been a dreamer, you know finding that special someone to complete you, finding that "can't live without each other love". I know it's out there and when you know, you know right? I mean my parents have been together for 41 years. Three days after my dad met my mom he told her her was going to marry her, he would die for her and I can see it in their eyes everyday. He found his soulmate, his "True Companion".
I guess what I've been wondering is who believes in soulmates? If you believe then think about this... a soulmate can be anyone. A soul is neither male or female so can it be anyone? It could be your best freind, your uncle, your son, your daughter....I'm not a twisted f**k but when you feel that special bond with someone what does it mean? Then again maybe you can have more than one soulmate of coarse than again maybe I just think to much.
Anyways I'm just curious on other peoples thoughts on this so... | |
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Posted: 5/4/2005 5:58:06 PM | | I believe the soulmate thing. I just think that sometimes, even though you know you are soulmates, it can't be. Such is life. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2005 6:40:57 PM | | My personal experience has been that the "can't live without each other" type love can happen more than one time in your life. I truly don't believe there is any ONE soulmate - I think there are many people with whom we can have soulmate-like happiness with! Getting hit over the head with a 2 x 4 by the love fairy is a fallacy - it is who the person is inside that we truly fall in love with. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2005 6:45:56 PM | I used to think so. Sort of still do.
I'd like to believe that there's only that one soulmate for me, but after recent events, I'd have to say that there may be more than one, if there is such a thing at all. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2005 6:47:40 PM | you know...i'd really like to think there was someone out there like that...
i used to be a dreamer too...but too much time spent dreaming and not enough time spent "doing" means you always stay in one place.
i suppose when it comes down to it, we make our own fate...and if that someone does exist...i'll meet her when the time is right. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2005 6:58:22 PM | I believe in the soulmate, but I believe in the kindred spirit as well.
The kindred spirits are both male and female who understand on a deeper level.
The soumate knows everythingl they experience everything on your level.
Scary stuff when you are sitting on a 100 foot tower and can smell her when she is on a plane to Seattle.......been there........would love to have that magic again. | |
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Joined: 1/9/2005
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Posted: 5/4/2005 7:07:11 PM | Found one.
<<<< once a skeptic, now know different. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2005 7:08:16 PM | | Go, Late! They are hard to find. And great to have. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2005 7:11:00 PM | @garyo
As long as you weren't smelling the plane's wate fuselage being dumped it's all good. 
Joking around.
I thought I was with my soulmate and found out differently when we bought a house together. She totally changed. It was incredible.
So if I were to meet another woman that I connected with in that way, I'll still have the feeling of doubt. I know I shouldn't, but once bitten... | |
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Posted: 5/4/2005 7:14:26 PM | | A "soulmate" is an ideal. I don't think there is just one. And, perhaps, that status is only temporary. Two soulmates at one point in time may grow apart. Far better to find someone acceptable you are confident you can grow with. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2005 7:23:10 PM | I believe there is a soulmate for everyone, sad to say I have not found mine. But hey it is an interesting journey I am going through in the hope That I might be so lucky to find one who soul connects with mine. I must say that I am not desperate to find him I feel that when the time is right the stars will align and it will all be good. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2005 7:24:30 PM | "A soul mate is someone to whom we feel profoundly connected, as though the communication and communing that take place between us were not the product of intentional efforts, but rather a divine grace. This kind of relationship is so important to the soul that many have said there is nothing more precious in life." 
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Posted: 5/5/2005 8:55:28 AM | | Yes, I believe in soulmates and kindred spirits...However I DON'T believe that there is just one, that it will be someone that you can have a primary realtionship with, or that everyone either finds theirs or stays with them. I think having a syccessful realtionship is largely about being with the right PERSON, in the right PLACE at the right TIME....Dee | |
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Posted: 5/5/2005 9:08:17 AM | i kinda agree with dee. Alot of ppl think they have a soulmate. but whos to say who that is? How are you sure that youve met that One? people think that everyday. but there are ppl splittin up everyday that once mightve thought that they were meant for each other. Why do you think that theres so much divorce? lol
Kindred spirits...now that, i can live with. | |
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Joined: 5/8/2005
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Posted: 5/8/2005 7:17:45 AM |
Scary stuff when you are sitting on a 100 foot tower and can smell her when she is on a plane to Seattle.......been there........would love to have that magic again.
Garyo, what happened to the magic in the first place? Please don't tell us that she kissed you and you turned back into a frog?!? | |
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Posted: 5/8/2005 7:19:52 AM | | some peoples souls have a certain electricity, aura, or gravity about them.. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2005 7:40:55 AM | Noper
Not to burst anyones bubble or argue with them, and if you feel there is, Good for you. I bet you are happier as a result.
I think there is a Type of mate that would suit each person for a long time. But I do not think we are "destined" to fine "one" mate to live with for ever and make us happy. My Happiness comes from within me. And when I am with someone and can share that happiness, that is a beautiful thing. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2005 7:44:04 AM | The concept means whatever you like, here is how I see it for myself.
Everyone you meet, you have a sense of who they are. If you like them, and they feel the same way, and there is nothing standing between you, that's a soulmate. Other people you can love but it's not like you feel as much yourself with them as alone, meaning it takes being careful not to screw it up. They may love you, only you can tell that something is held back. Being soulmates is about a natural affinity we have no control over and we can't exactly describe, but know when it happens. One way to tell is holding her breast in your hand. It isn't all that accurate but there is no harm in it, either. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2005 7:49:26 AM | A soulmate is simply sharing an intimate part of your heart and mind with someone who is sharing the same with you.
Is there only one with whom you may have this closeness? I don't know for sure...but I don't believe so.
The first and main element is to be happy with you....nobody else can make you happy....
You must first be happy in and of yourself before you are ready to share anything with anyone. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2005 7:58:12 AM | | I prefer to be happy in and of a woman, to myself, since they have a provision for just that. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2005 7:58:48 AM | | yes i believe that there is that one special person on this earth for each and every one of us. i do not believe that it could ever be any of your close relatives. i do not believe that God would put anyone in that position. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2005 8:27:25 AM | | everyone has soulmates .Ever walk into a room and meet someone and have that connection that you have met before? WE have Soul families, people that come into our life at certain times notice how you connect with some co workers and not others. Soulmates teach us lessons of life, some stick around for a while, then they move on, some forever. That one connection may bring your Twin Flame or THE ONE into your liife when your not ready, lessons have to be learned before you can reunite. | |
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Posted: 7/21/2005 10:03:08 PM | I think in order for me to find my soul mate I would have to clone the **stard myself!  | |
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Posted: 7/22/2005 12:10:57 AM | I beleive my soulmate is out there,but I'll have to tell ya,the 3 day thingy don't
existe in this day and age anymore!
Knight Rider! | |
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Posted: 7/22/2005 12:50:04 AM | im with OTB on this one, i think u just get along with certain people or have a "bond" that attract u to each other for a while, i mean look at the divorce rate. they say they love them and that they're their sould mate or destiny or whatever, but then down the road sonner or later then get bored of each other or they "change".
my 2 sense
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