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What do you think of totally submissive men? I have a friend that is a cuckold and is completely in love with his owner ( partner) and feels he is only there to serve her every need, be truthful in your replies if you are already a cuckold then say so, it will be an interesting view. | |
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Posted: 7/14/2007 11:27:00 AM | That particular type of submissive male believes that he deserves the treatment or lack thereof which he receives from his "owner", including watching her have sex with multiple partners. If he is a "good boy", she might let him have sloppy seconds or thirds, or just let him clean up after the romp with the other(s).
He views this demeaning treatment as a reward for being good. Otherwise, he tends to view himself as worthless. | |
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Posted: 7/14/2007 11:52:18 AM | | Angel, i know exactly what they do, I wondered what you thought of them.You know them very well? | |
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Posted: 7/15/2007 6:49:21 AM | | Women will never control me, I've always been in control of my lifestyle and nothing will get in the way. Girly men with no interests, hobbies and backbone are the ones women like to manipulate. | |
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Posted: 7/15/2007 7:50:28 AM | | You would be suprised, they are usually very strong willed men, have the body of a god and it is they that have a need and yearning to be submissive. I know this man and his 'owner'. It doesn't make him weak, without backbone and without hobbies, it makes him stronger than some as he doesn't need to feel macho. | |
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Posted: 7/15/2007 8:13:14 AM | Girly men with no interests, hobbies and backbone are the ones women like to manipulate.
The question was not about girly men, HFG. A tad judgmental there, aren't you?
it makes him stronger than some as he doesn't need to feel macho.
Good point. However, a cuckold is not necessarily the same as a submissive. You can find a great deal of information at http://www.domsubfriends.com/cgi-local/wwwdir/ under resources.
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Posted: 7/15/2007 2:39:32 PM | | so pleased you understand them, afterall they are still the man. They are wonderful creatures with the most calming qualities.What total commitment could a woman wish for?The owner makes use of silly little toys thats head are ruled by their 'manhood', a cuckold goes beyond that and sees a woman for her full glory. Girlie men? lol | |
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Posted: 7/15/2007 2:41:50 PM | | Cuckolds, meant two people were married and one spouse was cheating on the other. | |
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Posted: 7/15/2007 2:59:40 PM | | I think it's a turn on for some of them to have a woman who is in control......while others are most likely just **** whipped. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2007 2:44:54 AM | I guess my first question is W T F is this in 'Broken Hearts' ???
HikingFitGuy: ROTFLMAO
Women will never control me, I've always been in control of my lifestyle and nothing will get in the way.
Dude, that statement sounds like you are terrorfied of anything outside of the box you have defined to keep you safe.
"Control is an illusion... " -- Days of Thunder
Girly men with no interests, hobbies and backbone are the ones women like to manipulate.
This one is even funnier, women IGNORE girly men with no interests, hobbies, and backbones, they simply have no interest in them, there is no challenge.
Women do not manipulate, people do, I think you are mirroring a part of yourself there.
You are also harboring a misconception:
In Dom/Sub culture, the Sub not only has the higher self esteem, but also has the power. It is a contra-intuitive thing. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2007 3:02:13 AM | Why does one person have to have control?
Isn't it about helping each other, needs wants you have to have boundaries of what you can and cannot handle. Why would anyone want to control another person. I think we all just want to be loved and their has to be some give and take where conflict arises, negotiating if you like so both parties are satisfied to some extent. Does anybody really want to be a doormat??? Possibly, all I know is myself. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2007 7:58:45 AM | Trancer 32, I have no idea how my question ended up in this section but after reading a lot of things, and replying to some, I wanted to put something out that is a break from the norm.
It does take a woman with a high self esteem to control sucha relationship and yes powerful to a fault. Relationships interest me, people interest me, I don't judge but like to know others insights into the unusual. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2007 8:02:01 AM | The different in the cheating as, nobody is hurt because the cuckold knows all about the other men, prepares her ladyship for them, runs her bath and dresses her for the men in her life. He enjoys all of this and the more men she recieves the more exciting for him.
It's 'whatever rocks your boat', I have come accross a couple in this sort of relationship and they are very much in love and both parties very happy. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2007 8:07:14 AM | | Some people want a one to one relationship, some want the subject relationship, some live in abusive relationship and stay, some have an open relationship, it's about what makes the individual happy. In all relationships it's what you can handle or rather what you want.Some women willingly practise being the submissive to wealthy men, isn't that being a doormat?Actually a little more than a doormat, in my book it makes them a prostitute but if the couple are happy, who am I to judge? | |
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Posted: 7/16/2007 3:39:08 PM | My ex works as a corrections secretary but before that, she was in the control room for an entire shift in a max juv jail....that was really the first time I said
theres a woman in control
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Posted: 7/16/2007 4:04:24 PM | canuckpete, there is a small part there where a woman is in control, my darling sister, god rest her soul, was in same position , same field, but she was not powerful in the home, didn't want to be.
Cucks feel love by serving his owner, no greater love to be bestowed.Usually to men that have the world at their feet, think of rock stars that end their days on drugs to oblivion, they have everything but need to have more, a greater high, this is a cuck, can have the world but want the reverse.
Cuckolds love like no man can, their mind body and soul lain naked before the woman they love, submisivenes can be total commitement, who is afraid of 100%, not a cuckold. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2007 5:30:43 PM | Perhaps there is a language barrier here. The American Dictionary reads:
cuck·old
–noun
1. the husband of an unfaithful wife.
–verb (used with object)
2. to make a cuckold of (a husband).
Unfortunately, #2 does not elaborate.
whosalady - care to expand upon what you're asking?
trancer32 - you so get D/s! Not many do... | |
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Posted: 7/17/2007 8:03:26 AM | | parula, simply asking what a variety of people think of them and their way of life, i admit this question is in the wrong section, but it landed here, may as well get the views. | |
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Posted: 7/17/2007 1:07:10 PM |
It does take a woman with a high self esteem to control sucha relationship and yes powerful to a fault
Uhmmm sorry, go back and read your dom/sub culture handbook, the DOM is the WEAKER, always. It takes more self esteem, more confidence, more sense of self to be SUB !!!! unless you are just a weak minded person, in which case its not culture its just weakness.
Have you ever noticed those people who dont like themselves tend to be abusive to others as well ? The bad boy you dated for a month, only to find out, he wasn't cool, he hated himself and was simply abusive to others because of it ? His behavior is DOM because he lacks self esteem, or sense of self, he hates himself and others.
I am not saying this is always the case, but DOM does not equal high worth, high self esteem; however, most of the time Men who are SUB, have a very high sense of self and are usually very high functioning , very successful men.
I have also dated SUB women who were a total mess, but I am mainly reflecting on the subject of MEN that are SUB. | |
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Posted: 7/17/2007 2:28:36 PM |
simply asking what a variety of people think of them and their way of life
Asking what people think of a husband of an unfaithful wife? I think that he'd have to evaluate his relationship and boundaries and determine what his next action would be. | |
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