| Strap Ons with Men
Posted: 7/18/2007 2:16:04 PM |  Ok, SORRY if this has been done before... But I had to ask!!!
Fellaz - Seriously - Have you ever wanted a female to (and i quote) "Use a strap on me and **** me hard until YOU say stop"
This was a request I got just a little bit ago... He went on to explain that he wasnt gay, he just liked for women to treat him and do things to him like men do to women. He likes them to use toys on him, make him wear female undies and what not...
Now... I know this is a fetish thing... But can someone please tell meh if this is a common one? Or if maybe the guy has some 'issues' with his sexuality? I know that light anal stimulation is good in a lot of cases with guys but to that extreme?
OR am I just more close minded than I thought?! | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 2:30:02 PM | Common? I don't think so... light anal stimulation will only make me get up and put my clothes back on and go home, and probably stop dating you.
Personally I think this is left to you and him and kept in your bedroom. Who cares what everyone else does?
You're not close minded, don't let anyone tell you that just because you don't have the same weird fetishes as they do. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 2:30:23 PM | | He might have told you he was not gay, but i think he lied thru his teeth. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 2:33:01 PM |
make him wear female undies and what not...
that one I would have a problem with to be honest... but as far as the strap on ... believe me... no man is going to admit that on here in fear of sounding gay.... (which it is not by no means) I have had men liking this and have no problem with it.... women are allowed it both ways,why not men? I am not into women,why does it mean men are into men ? OP this will be interesting lol... a sore subject with men  | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 2:34:03 PM | Is he an attorney??? They like all that stuff behind closed doors....... | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 2:50:16 PM | Not something I'd do.
Of course, I just don't like the whole anal thing in general.
Exit only thank you. :p | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 2:55:18 PM | Most of us will shy away from anything anal due to the homosexual stigma that goes along with it.
The prostate is supposedly a pretty good source of pleasure for those who enjoy that sort of action, so he may just enjoy taking it to an extreme. Is he gay or bisexual? Possibly, but not necessarily.
I don't think you're close minded, as you're not into it and I doubt that it's a particularly common request. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 2:59:50 PM |
Is he an attorney???
i would say no...attorneys generally do that to others, they never seem to get f**ked themselves. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 3:07:04 PM | | Well Ive had just the opposite asked of me.I once dated a woman that asked me if I would let her try this with me....my reply was a short and very susinct...no. I don't necessarily think this is unusual or wrong...as long as both parties are ok with it. Is it common? I think its probably more common than most of us think. the womens underwear is another issue, I think he has issues with his sexuality. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 3:13:20 PM | you know... i dont know why its ok for girls to go both ways and not guys... i dont mind if they do, i wasnt trying to gay bash (and if it sounded like that sorry)...
its just i have never heard of this before... just the whole wanting to get treated like a girl getting diddled by a guy really hard...
it seemed a little.... 'different'
but its good to see some people who have run across this... *nods* | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 3:14:26 PM | For some odd reason that thought turns me on and is right now keeping me away from my computer studies!!!
Thanks a lot Joquer! I've lost all sense of logical thinking! Wow now I know what men feel like when the blood is flowing in the wrong direction! | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 3:30:55 PM |
For some odd reason that thought turns me on and is right now keeping me away from my computer studies!!!
Poor winter all wound up now...
Wait! whats that bzzzzzing sound?  | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 4:23:08 PM | I admit... I asked a woman to use a strap on:
A female friend of mine came over to help me paint. She didn't want to dirty her clothes as she came directly from work so, she painted in her undies. She didn't want to wear clothes i offerred her because it was hot, anyways.
As it was getting late and we were behind schedule, I asked her to wear the strap-on and stir the paint as she trimmed around the doors. She did a wonderful job of painting and stirring!!!
That was the only time I requested and/or was present when a strap-on was used
ps.... we finished on schedule | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 4:44:45 PM | I don't thnik most guys can--or would--say what's up with this with other guys but it does seem to touch off a bit of heated debates or comments to the effect that is does NOT turn a guy on, it's a precursor to being gay and all sorts of other negative comments. I honestly don't think I'd like being buggered with a strap on but I do know my anal regions are quite sensitive to a womans touch. A few have been quite adept at massages and touch which have only heightened my orgasms. The first time was quite a surprise and had it not been for the powerful explosion of the resulting orgasm (while still inside her) I too might have had some thoughts of it being gay or something else not so good.
I do have to think those who so loudly claim it's NOT for them, they'd never allow it or even try it with a trusted partner do have issues with it and that's fine. If something like this is to be enjoyed it has to be done with at least an open mind----if not then there's no way it can be anything more than an invasion of the worst kind.
We're not talking about guys who might be latently gay or secretly desire to be penetrated by another male, we're talking about an area of the male body that doesn't get too much attention. Just like our nipples some regions long for contact and attention but until or unless they receive it we're clueless how it feels.
I did like the painter girl in her undies though-----like Paris says "that's Hot!!" | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 5:39:30 PM | | You aren't going to get a STRAIGHT answer on this one, Joquer. Most men will say NO because lots of people are looking. But in secrecy, they'd probably say otherwise. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 7:48:36 PM | First in our society, sexually women are much more free to "Openly" express their sexuality than men for the most part without too much stigma attached. For this reason you will have a hard time getting much information on the subject in here (you may want to find a forum somewhere that is more sexually oriented for the subject).
As far as the topic at hand, I think that there are many more men than would admit who enjoy anal stimulation of one kind or another, and believe it or not the prostate is also known as the male equivalent of the female "G" spot. All of that aside from the description that you have given in this case it sounds to me like the individual in question most likely does not fall squarely into the binary gender role his genitalia place him in. Without going into a lot of detail (as there is plenty out there for anyone who's studied it) the fact is gender isn't completely binary. It's more like a line with one end being male and the other female with a million points in between. Most people tend to be clustered withing a fairly close proximity to one end or the other (just like you have more or less masculine men and very feminine women and "Tomboys"), however there are a significant number of people who are in the middle ground as well and have a need to express both masculine and femine traits. It sounds to me like the gentleman you are referring to may well fall into this area. LOL as far as "issues" with his sexuality, I guess if he's Ok with himself I wouldn't call it an issue, perhaps just another person who does not fall within society's norms- no shortage of those in the world. Milan | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 9:04:37 PM | | Well,Honestly I have found the woman for me. And yes I'll admit that when she goes south of the border and touchs that area with either hand (lightly) or mouth ,it is an Extreme Turn On ! The nipple biting is also an extreme turn on ! I am secure enough in my Manly Manhood to Admit this.Sounds to me that YOUR Feller is Also secure enough to reveal this fantasy to you.Go with it.Could be the best thing to ever happen to either of you.Just my .02 cents. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 9:24:37 PM | | There is no point in answering if we say no and everyone thinks we are telling a lie because we are in a public forum. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 9:30:01 PM | I've never had a woman who claimed to WANT to do this (it's called "pegging" by the way) so it's never come up. I'm certainly not looking to MAKE it happen, but I suppose if I met a woman who was really into the idea and she was willing to try the things *I* want to do, I'd let her give it a shot, if I liked her enough.
Statistically, most men who want to dress up as women (crossdressers) are straight. (No, I'm not one of them.) | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 10:24:47 PM | | Personally for me, HELL NO! I had extreme diahrea and thought I had food poisoning a while ago, went to see a doctor, she said she had to check for anal bleeding and made me bend over and to "push out." Worst experience ever. So I will never let any girl shove anything up my bong hole. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 11:41:27 PM |
HELL NO! I had extreme diahrea and thought I had food poisoning a while ago
damn!!!!! next time make her wash it first!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 7/19/2007 12:35:46 AM | I was actually rather surprised to see a couple guys actually admit they liked it lol.
Would i do it? Absolutely. I've actually asked girls before if they would do it (though you'd be surprised how many girls freak out when you bring up the topic ahahaha). I actually had an ex of mine finger me before, freakin loved it.
Am i gay/bi? Absolutely not. If a guy tried to mess with me in any way that could even be misconstrued as sexual, i would punch him in the throat. | |
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Posted: 7/19/2007 12:41:15 AM |
Lets just hope she doesn't want to slide the ol' tongue down your neck afterwords ay!! | |
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Posted: 7/19/2007 5:24:03 AM | | ok wow yes i have tried it and not ashamed to say i have done so | |
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