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Posted: 7/19/2007 1:39:43 PM | | Okay. I met this guy on here a few weeks ago. He moved fast when we started talking. The thing is. Things started happening. The second day we spoke, by now we were using yahoo msgr, he randomly logged off. A week later, he logged on pof and sent me some really rude and mean emails. And his profile was changed to say some really terrible things about me, my name was even in there. Well the same night, 'he' logged on and went through to say it wasnt him, it was his roomate. That he had had a seizure and was in the hospital all week. Hed given his roomate his passwords to check his mail,etc. So I let that one go. A few days later he had disappeared again, followed by an email saying his grandmother had died. This I do not doubt or question. Although. About two days later. He was on and was telling me he was in Jonesboro at his aunts. Due to the death he was helping family. No big deal right? Well, again, he randomly logged off. That was around 11. At 6 that morning, he sent an email saying that his cable had messed up, and while he was waiting for that, someone broke into his house and cut him and he had had to go to the hospital. The problem being. This situation supposedly occured at HIS place in Jacksonville. When he was supposed to be in Jonesboro... Make sense? Yeah it didnt to me either. Again, I said nothing. And I let it go. After that he signed on a few days later, Tuesday the 10th, he said he was going to call and even drive to see me, and that he was looking for an apartment in hot springs, the town i live in. Then he logged off yet again. Needless to say, he neither called nor come to town. He also did not ssign on again until this PAST tuesday night just after midnight. For those keeping track, thats another week of not hearing ANYTHING. And again, I get the mean emails. And his profile his changed. Yet again. This time saying SOMETHING in I guess Japanese. *hes japanese btw* Moving on. So I wrote and asked what the deal was. My reply was a lengthy email cussing me and telling me I was lying to him, various things. A few hours later. He signs onto yahoo. And wouldnt you believe. Has 'no idea' what I'm talking about when I confront him about it. He again uses the story that someone has hacked his account. Though he supposedly changed his passwords. His excuse for being gone a week this time, the storm crashed his computer and he had to buy a new one. Again, the random log off and hes not been back on since. Although. As many know, if you have someone on your favorites list on POF, you can see when the last they logged in was. His last logon showed to be at midnight when the hate mail started coming in. Though he said when he got on yahoo at nearly 3 that he had just logged in. I know I'm being ignorant in even worrying over this anymore but I just. I want to believe him. But I dont. Can someone please give some advice? Because my friends are just the type to stand by me. Not the brutal honesty type. I'm honestly not sure WHAT to do. Any help would be GREATLY appreciated. Sorry it was so long.... | |
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Posted: 7/19/2007 4:50:38 PM | | Please drop him. You are too attractive to even waste a minute with this creep! | |
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| Can I get some advice?
Posted: 7/19/2007 7:50:23 PM | | Ha. Thanks. Yeah. I just told him I was done with his games. I think I just stuck with it because he seemed to be the only one who showed interest... and said the pretty things... | |
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Posted: 7/20/2007 9:39:17 PM | | REALLY NEED TO ADDRESS THIS AS WHAT IT IS ....PHYSCO!!!!! Run like hell don't look back and never ever contact this guy I would even think of changing names here etc...or add different ID's...Jeeez.. and I thought I've met some real wierdo's..sorry babe ... | |
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Posted: 7/21/2007 8:27:04 AM | LOL I think I've been dating him for the past 6 months. 
If not, I think somebody just beat the record for the biggest fibber in Arkansas!
Actually, I'm just playing. My guy is not Japanese. But he is a HUGE liar. We are broken up, by the way. :D | |
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Posted: 7/21/2007 1:51:52 PM | Run, Forest, Run!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't believe that you have stuck around this long!!! As the website is called....."Plenty of Fish", there are plenty others here!  | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 8:02:55 PM | Now i'm not defending anyone, but the guy MIGHT be ok (doubt it though). But, if you are having problems this early, trust me...it's not going to get any better later on. Looks like he is full of excuses for something that he is trying to cover up. Thats what it appears to be anyway. Now there is always 2 sides to a story and we know one side of it, but from what you've posted, yeah...time to go fishin for something a little better. Throw him back and let him grow a little.....
I've been down roads like that with a few women too so it ain't just guys that do that kind of stuff! | |
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| Can I get some advice?
Posted: 3/3/2008 7:59:59 PM | | Sounds like bullsnot to me. This feller got more personalities than a ape got ugly, and more excuses than a politician. You need DUST this insatiable internet wierdo post haste and hold out for sumthin' genuine. | |
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Posted: 3/4/2008 7:03:34 AM | | I think that you are being conned, I would erase him and block his message site. Don't be hooked in by somebody like that. It is not worth it. Joe | |
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Posted: 3/8/2008 11:34:21 AM | | Run ... don't look back ... don't even wave goodbye ... just dump him. | |
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Posted: 3/15/2008 8:36:16 AM |
This feller got more personalities than a ape got ugly,
Too funny!
I have to agree with the majority here. Trust your instincts. Don't waste your time and energy trying to MAKE something work with someone you think you can fix.
MS | |
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Posted: 6/26/2008 8:17:46 PM | | If I may, I went rthrough similar stuff with a gal i meet on MySpace among two other who did similar things, A- he is either trying to see how far he could get a way with blowing smoke up the neither regions or he is playing and when he gets tired he come back and talks with you and mind tweaks you. I say cut all contact, tell him to never contact you again or you will seek support from the law. There are better people out there, | |
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Posted: 6/28/2008 7:33:31 AM | Sounds like untreated bipolar disorder or paranoid schizophrenia. Then, it could be drug/alcohol-induced psychosis. Bottom line is, it ain't going to get any better. (I think I dated him a couple years ago, lol!).
Christy | |
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