| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 7/25/2007 5:00:24 PM | i from shanghai,i am a chinese,ask a qustion;
here in china ,if a gril is over 30,it is so difficult to meet a boyfriend,as many men think a gril is a old gril,many men perfer young gril.some men is 40-50,they desire to meet women is below 30!
other side if is a woman divorced,it is difficult to meet boyfriend and husband
i feel unfair!
does like this in your country?
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 7/25/2007 6:00:42 PM | | OP, you are a very beautiful woman. I do not know what it is like there, but in the states, women in their 30's are much desired. My dad just came back from Shanhai on business and told me about what it was like there. Maybe you should come to the states, sounds like youd have better luck..LOL | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 7/25/2007 6:09:22 PM | | You seem like a well educated beautiful woman, regardless of age. A man from any country would be honored to be with someone like you...Wish there were more like you over here...Don't fret, you have a wonder future ahead of you. | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 7/25/2007 7:45:14 PM | Hi LuluCheng!
Well, it's probably that way all over the world. Fortunately, not all men are that way! And as I understand it women have the real pick of the litter (so to speak) when it comes to men in China!
A lot of things in life are not fair. In fact, I can't think of any example where fairness had anything to do with anything in life.... Take care of yourself and wait till you find someone you love and that truly loves you and who cares what a few people that are just playing other people are doing! People that are looking to "trade up" are so shallow that they tend to make lousy spouses anyway! | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 7/25/2007 9:22:36 PM | I am not going to post here just so there isn't ONE more guy telling to what you want to hear.
(hits head) DAMMIT. | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 7/26/2007 1:40:04 AM | I dont see what your worried about
is it not that China has a huge disparity between the ammount of men and women
I believe that men far outnumber women from what I remember reading | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 7/26/2007 3:28:30 AM | thanks everybody give answer
yes , chian has a huge disparity between the ammount of men and women,but in city woman more than men,in country,men far more than women.so it is difficult for a woman who is over 30.
i dont worry,i just want to know that is phenomena outside if like this,different country has different culture and viewpoints | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 7/26/2007 3:34:31 AM | Hi Lulu,
31 is young. No point stressing over what people say. Shanghai is a big place; there must be single men over 30 who will agree with boardies here.
If your personality matches your beauty, you would be a very desirable woman indeed over here. | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 8/3/2007 5:53:58 PM | | Not that I've noticed. Hell, I've noticed I get a LOT of really young guys hitting on me... interesting. | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 8/3/2007 11:25:09 PM | Cultures vary all over the world. Here in the United States most people would say a 30 year old woman is in the prime of her life! No longer a child, able to have direction and control in her life ! Perhaps showing those first faint laugh lines around her eyes that hint at what lies within ! | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 8/4/2007 3:06:12 AM | Being over thirty, is not old, good grief , you are only just starting to mature and become your ownself in confidence ,and those wrinkles ,who cares ,they are laugh lines . | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 8/4/2007 8:11:59 PM | | Not REALLY old, but old enough for me to think that shes got a head on her shoulders, and she's mature enough and strong enough to handle her business in life. A women whos divorced or has come out of a long relationship has some kind of story to tell "wheres shes been and you know where her maturity is coming from" A women whos single at 30 is still cool but I find there more career driven and really distant, or they havnt grown up already and still are partying in bars with there friends. | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 8/4/2007 10:58:47 PM | | NO age is not a factor, but if you are fat, that is a different story. Men will not date you if you are fat or the slightest bit overweight. | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 8/5/2007 8:46:52 AM | dear goodbyegirl3031,
your words are right too, men dont like women fat ,here is same.
but if a gril is cute and funning she is very welcome.
so women neet to learn how love ourselves!
if fat than before,try to lose weight,eat more fruite and vegetable,more sports,it is hard,keep it,keep fit,
keep beautiful not for men,jsut for myself!
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 8/5/2007 12:32:08 PM | yes , chian has a huge disparity between the ammount of men and women,but in city woman more than men,in country,men far more than women.so it is difficult for a woman who is over 30.
^^^ lulu, you may have just answered your own question here! and.....
so women neet to learn how love ourselves!
if fat than before,try to lose weight,eat more fruite and vegetable,more sports,it is hard,keep it,keep fit,
keep beautiful not for men,jsut for myself!
^^ you have given yourself the very best advice as well
think of us women like wine... with age, we only get better... more full bodied and robust! I myself can guarantee this as i have never felt more comfortable and desirable in my life then when i was younger because the mind not the body is the biggest most effective tool
best of luck to you dear lulu as you have nothing but good things going for you  | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 8/5/2007 1:46:54 PM | Hi Lulu:
You are indeed a beautiful woman. I am 43, and do not have a problem getting dates. Where I live there seems to be an abundance of younger men looking to date older women.
Here a woman in her 30's are high in demand. Maybe you should consider migrating. Canada is very multi-cultural. In some areas of our Country, caucasion is the minority.
I understand from a good friend of mine that now lives in LA that she is also in the minority being caucasion. | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 8/5/2007 3:05:36 PM | I think quite a few men in my country still lust after Nancy Kwan.
Can a Chinese man really tell how old a Chinese woman is? I don't think William Holden had any idea. | |
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 8/5/2007 7:32:33 PM | In The United States, and probably the rest of the North American
continent, a 31 year old woman is considered to be just entering her
prime years.
31 is only the beginning of life. It is not the end of it.
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| 31 old is really old for a woman?
Posted: 8/6/2007 1:32:14 AM | i agree it,different social has different mind,in west 30 is good age .
but in china,30 is good age for housewife,mother ,not be a single
30 is for chinese single woman has some difficulty,my friends and colleagues are most married,nowadays in shanghai 30 single woman more than before,but compare to married single over 30 is very less,in other little city of china,woman usually married 25 years,
if a girl over 30 not married people around her would wonder why she not marry ?she is old gril,etc...,dont like west society,choose single is private.
so sometimes feel is really 30 is really old?that is come from social compressive stress
acatually i feel i am very young in heart,if here many single over 30 or 40,i am more younger
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