| Why do guys ignore girls they like?
Posted: 7/26/2007 10:33:00 AM | Hi there
Met this guy, lost contact for a few months, hooked up again, had a great time. He hasn't called - hasn't told me he isn't interested and gets all nervous when I try to call him and hangs up. I've given up. I don't know where I stand with him and I still like him. Any thoughts - guys and girls? | |
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| Why do guys ignore girls they like?
Posted: 7/26/2007 10:56:33 AM | Don't call him .. stop on by.. maybe he isn't a telephone person.
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maybe he doesn't like you, and doesn't want to hurt your feelings? | |
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| Why do guys ignore girls they like?
Posted: 7/26/2007 11:37:17 AM | | don't keep calling, let it go, go out, have fun, get him off your mind. if he's into you, he'll contact you...you've done more than enough now to show you're interested. | |
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| Why do guys ignore girls they like?
Posted: 7/26/2007 11:47:43 AM | ^^^^^ exactly right!!!!!! A very smart woman!
However I must add - sounds like he's in a relationship with someone else! I would move on! | |
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| Why do guys ignore girls they like?
Posted: 7/26/2007 11:53:33 AM | maybe he's just not that into you?
it happens
maybe he's married?
I'd leave him alone. Especially if he hung up on me.
Thats a huge no no | |
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| Why do guys ignore girls they like?
Posted: 7/26/2007 1:04:21 PM | cut him loose....if he comes back...he's yours...if not is it worth going after someone that doens't want you......
you can change the world,,but not the man.....(mom's words of wisdom..) | |
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| Why do guys ignore girls they like?
Posted: 7/26/2007 1:15:27 PM | inexperienced or not...even a five year old boy knows to pull the girls pigtails when he has a crush on her.
you want him, you're into him, you're trying to figure out all sorts of reasons and excuses why he's not calling, ignoring you, etc. stop 
it really doesn't matter why he's ignoring you--he just is. i know it is hard on our egos to think that a guy we're into doesn't reciprocate them (I know, shocking!) but that's just how simple it is. And, yes, we've all done it but time to learn and move on and the next guy who comes along will spoil you like the goddess you are!
now, tell yourself how hot and amazingly awesome you are, put the phone down, and go out on the town with your friends and have fun and don't look back! | |
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| Why do guys ignore girls they like?
Posted: 7/26/2007 1:16:13 PM |
Met this guy, lost contact for a few months, hooked up again, had a great time. He hasn't called - hasn't told me he isn't interested and gets all nervous when I try to call him and hangs up. I've given up. I don't know where I stand with him and I still like him. Any thoughts - guys and girls?
Why did he hang up?? Sounds fishy to me. He must be either married or attached!!
He is REALLY inexperienced with both dating and in intimate situations....do you think this means anything?
How old is he????
Run like the wind.  There's plenty of fish in here........ find someone who will not hang up on you.
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| Why do guys ignore girls they like?
Posted: 7/26/2007 1:22:41 PM | If he hangs up when you call, then stop calling. Either he is hiding something (like a wife) or he doesn't want to hear from you.
Just start looking again, there are plenty of fish, as the website says. :P | |
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| Why do guys ignore girls they like?
Posted: 7/26/2007 1:53:12 PM | | I called once. Ignored him for a few days and noticed that he kept me on his MSN messenger until I told him he was rude and didnt know how to communicate. Then he deleted me. From reading everyone's posts, I am seeing a pattern - he has issues and has no idea what he wants. He did the same thing last time we were together. Acted like he likes me, ignores me when I call and doesn't talk to me. Now we wait 3 months to see each other, so he must have had some interest and then the same thing plays out. He acts like he is interested, I contact him and he brushes me off. I just can't figure out his deal. Funny thing is, if he was interested in sex - he didnt get any. | |
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| Why do guys ignore girls they like?
Posted: 7/26/2007 2:20:26 PM | Put out once and then he won't be able to resist you.
Okay, that may be bad advice, but he is already screwing you. | |
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| Why do guys ignore girls they like?
Posted: 7/26/2007 3:30:59 PM | u_need_me, really sounds like a screen name that people will try to keep you attached to them.
Since you do live in Toronto,he probably does have a girl and /or boy friend that he doesn't want you to know about. Your best bet is to move along, and try to find a real man that will pay attention to you.
Good Luck | |
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| Why do guys ignore girls they like?
Posted: 7/26/2007 3:54:30 PM | OP, sounds to me like you're kind of stalking him. Generally speaking, guys don't like this kind of behavior. It turns them off and is demeaning to your own character. When someone hangs up on you, they are trying to tell you something. Now I could be wrong, it is possible that he is toying with your emotions and “playing hard to get.”
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| Why do guys ignore girls they like?
Posted: 7/26/2007 4:09:31 PM | | haha stalking ? sounds more like hes trying to brush her off ... i think stalking would take more effort then shes claimed to put into it . Personally ... why the hell would you chase someone that has comunication issues... isnt that a red flag to you ? Your best bet is to move on and find someone that wants you around... not want you to chase them... sad part is ... on the outside of this .. to those that know you , you look foolish and desperate . Dont do that to yourself , no one is worth it | |
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| Why do guys ignore girls they like?
Posted: 7/26/2007 4:17:00 PM | because we never know what we have until its gone?
Guys are notorious for not seeing the signs that are right in front of them thats why we always need a friend to give us directions
JC | |
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| Why do guys ignore girls they like?
Posted: 7/26/2007 4:34:44 PM | | He's not taking your calls....and you find that he likes you? Hmmm....something seriously wrong in this whole bigger picture here. I'm going to go out on a limb here and think that maybe...possibly...perhaps...in some way or shape or form (or on a forum)....that he's just really not in "Like" with you as much as you think. If he's avoiding you....time to do the same and avoid him..."you can go about your business....move along." | |
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| Why do guys ignore girls they like?
Posted: 7/26/2007 5:44:25 PM |
He hasn't called - hasn't told me he isn't interested and gets all nervous when I try to call him and hangs up. I've given up. I don't know where I stand with him and I still like him
That's definitely "red flag" material
I called once. Ignored him for a few days and noticed that he kept me on his MSN messenger until I told him he was rude and didnt know how to communicate. Then he deleted me. From reading everyone's posts, I am seeing a pattern - he has issues and has no idea what he wants. He did the same thing last time we were together. Acted like he likes me, ignores me when I call and doesn't talk to me. Now we wait 3 months to see each other, so he must have had some interest and then the same thing plays out. He acts like he is interested, I contact him and he brushes me off. I just can't figure out his deal. Funny thing is, if he was interested in sex - he didnt get any
^^^^ but then again... so is this ^^^^^
Why are you doing this to yourself?
I think he is no more to blame than you are.
In my opinion, if you allow behaviour like this, you are not very good at relationships either.
You must have a cut off point as to what is/isn't acceptable ways to treat you. So far, you have shown him (and us) that he hasn't crossed that line yet.
Draw a line in the sand.
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| Why do guys ignore girls they like?
Posted: 7/26/2007 7:01:56 PM | | He is inexperienced in both relationships and intimacy and doesn't know how to take the next step. I already decided I don't need that. How is calling him once stalking? | |
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| Why do guys ignore girls they like?
Posted: 7/26/2007 7:23:44 PM | | If you know he dose not want to talk with you yes it's stalking do you check his profile out all the time you still have him on your msn cut all ties and walk away | |
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| Why do guys ignore girls they like?
Posted: 7/27/2007 11:54:02 AM | You have to stop making excuses, for him being inconsiderate. I dont me to be rude, but youre coming off as needy. What is so special about this guy that he deserves all this attention? He clearly doesnt want it, but yet you continue to chase him? If i was in his position i'd would back away from you, as well. I'd be more direct about it, but being needy has never been an attractive quality.
Chalk this up as a learning experience, and move on dude. You can't catch them all.
Best of luck,
-Drea | |
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