| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/26/2007 10:23:52 PM | i have been wondering about a mans opinion on dating pregnant women, can any men give an answer to a question i have been asked by alot of women.....
please be honest in your answers as every answer can help women everywhere who are facing this predicament...
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/26/2007 10:28:28 PM | I don't think pregnancy is a time for women to really be dating. That is such a traumatic time, especially for a first baby. I suppose things are calm enough in the first trimester, but things just get more and more stressful and then there is a baby!
Ya, I just don't think it's the right time to date. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/26/2007 10:31:25 PM | Im thinking why would a man date a pregnant woman?
I cant answer for any guy on here, but for me its a matter of her hopping from one guy to the next, most men don't want to be a instant father to a child ( that isnt his)
I would suspect that would be the main reason.
Morning sickness, mood changes, limited sex, baby after being born the guy moves the second position on the totem pole, the aforementioned is good if the guy was the father.
Pregnant women shouldn't be dating anyways. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/26/2007 10:41:20 PM | | Unless you were raped - then within the last 9 months, or less, you were so head over heels in love with a guy to want to bear his child??? So we are to just know that's all over now?? He's out of the picture too forever, right?? Hardly | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/26/2007 10:41:42 PM | I think I would date a preg. woman, I just assume if she is preg. then she probably has a guy at home, and I leave her alone.
I guess I never thought of asking out a preg. woman.
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/26/2007 10:57:44 PM | | My opinion on this is because we have a hard enough time dealing with the emotional outbursts that a woman has when she's not pregnant, why on earth would we wanna put ourselves through the emotional ups and downs of a pregnant woman especially if we didn't make her that way. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/26/2007 11:11:50 PM | | For one, i would assume that she is already involved with someone, i mean...she is pregnant. Secondly my roomate just had her kid a few months ago, she was not the nicest person when she was carrying the child, not all women are the same but she was nasty alot of the time, not a good time to get to know someone. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/26/2007 11:25:17 PM |
Im thinking why would a man date a pregnant woman?
I’m wondering that as well.
I’m also wondering how this could possibly be a question on a lot of women’s minds, unless you work in a clinic for unwed mothers or something. Without taking a pole, I’ll guess statistically that more guys are likely to shirk their responsibility than take on one that isn’t theirs in the first place. But hey that’s just a guess, I’ve been wrong before. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/26/2007 11:31:40 PM | | Well upon further inspection, meaning looking at your profile, specifically for you the problem might be that you list yourself as seperated. HMMMMMMMM big turn off in my honest opinion. This puts up a big flag babies daddy drama ahead and again I go back to that emotional thing. Who needs it. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/26/2007 11:31:51 PM | | Also, they aren't going to get pregnant! Seriously, I read a Danielle Steel novel about this when I was like 14, it's a fairy tale...not something that can be sought out. If it does happen successfully, it is between two people who I don't think anticipate being in that situation. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/26/2007 11:47:27 PM | In North America, If a male dates a pregnant women, after 6 months, The Male becomes a caregiver ,and can be sued for child support.
Do a Google search on the subject...You would be surprised. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/27/2007 12:05:49 AM | By my understanding the man must be married to the woman when the child is born.
This also changes depending on where they live. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/27/2007 12:13:06 AM | Judging by the number of single moms, most men don't even want to be with the woman carrying the child they created, much less one with someone else's baby in them.
Why would a woman WANT to date while pregnant? You have so much on your mind already, and then you have to worry about trying to get back into shape quickly and they guy whining about when he can have sex after you give birth and how your belly is floppy, etc. So much more relaxing to recover with no pressure and be able to focus on the baby. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/27/2007 1:30:05 AM | A sensitive issue...
Firstly, I'd be wondering what kind of guy would leave a pregnant woman, that's the coldest of the cold. There could be other circumstances, like her guy died when she found out she was pregnant. That would suck. Or raped...I could go on...
Even so, I couldn't think about going on "dates" either...she should be resting, right? That's up to her I guess.
I mean, maybe if we were friends first, and I cared for her alot...I'd help her out. Go to Lamaz classes with her...the whole deal. Who knows? I'm a sucker for kids. But, she'd have to be a long-time friend...
As for a stranger who is pregnant...would I go on a date with her? I would have to say no. That would be...the wrong thing to do. I would feel anyway. Depending on the situation, I'd feel like I'd be moving in on her vulnerability, or I'd feel like she'd be...using(?) me.
IT ALL DEPENDS...quite an open question. Could you involve a situation? | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/27/2007 2:05:44 AM |
In North America, If a male dates a pregnant women, after 6 months, The Male becomes a caregiver ,and can be sued for child support.
Not in the US, and the laws vary by state anyway. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/27/2007 2:19:46 AM | Personally, I don't get why men should date impregnated women---simply because of sociobiology . . . IF it's not their child, so it completely supports the fact that biological kinship with the offspring is zero. Genes, to a certain extent, are selfish, and parental investment in progeny---not from surrogate fathers---makes little sense from a lineage and procreative level.
The question should be phrased, why do women ask illogical questions as posed in the OP inquiry? Sounds as if you're prey to social engineering. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/27/2007 4:33:07 AM | Most women who have their ovens filled, are normally not available (they are often attached to the guy who filled the oven).
Hence dating them is not a first thought. Would I reject dating an available pregnant woman? No, but then I might not have considered she being available. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/27/2007 6:54:44 AM | There aren't that many pregnant women in the dating scene at any given time. Unless these women really get around, the number of men who date them will necessarily be small. Don't blame men for that.
Personally, a woman's pregnancy wouldn't hold me back if I was interested in her. Of course, I didn't realize that it could lead to being sued for child support. Family law is so perverse.
The argument that aversion to fatness disadvantages pregnant women is false. Pregnant involves some extra weight, but it's far different than obesity and far more attractive. If a woman is attractive unpregnant, she will be attractive when pregnant, possibly more so.
Finally, why does everyone put all the blame on guys pregnancy? Women should accept some responsibility for what goes on inside their bodies. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/27/2007 7:23:42 AM | Because it sucks. You are having to take on a child from birth, that is not yours. It would be an advantage if you want to have children and are infertile. Otherwise, why not have your own?
Imagine you are NOT pregnant. But you meet a man who's ex is pregnant with HIS child. No question about it. Even did 2 paternity tests and both came up positive. She's getting first priority when she's pregnant, the kid comes first for the next 18 years, he cannot afford to spend a lot of money on you because it all goes on child support, and you have never even had a first date with him, w/out a problem. I don't even think a guy in that situation would even get a date unless he lied through his teeth about it. Then, when you did find out, what would you do? You'd run.
Now the shoe is on the other foot, is all.
If you want to date when pregnant, better make sure that what he gets in return is worth it. And I am not just referring to sex. If you want to see him more than once, you have no choice but to make him feel so great about you that he is eager.
In North America, If a male dates a pregnant women, after 6 months, The Male becomes a caregiver ,and can be sued for child support.
By my understanding the man must be married to the woman when the child is born. This also changes depending on where they live. In a lot of states in the USA, and in a lot of countries, a man who is a common-law relationship takes on child support for the children of the woman from any previous relationships. So, yes, if they are in a relationship, there is a good chance that he will have to pay child support for the newborn. | |
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| why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 7/27/2007 7:44:03 AM |
i have been wondering about a mans opinion on dating pregnant women, can any men give an answer to a question i have been asked by alot of women.....
please be honest in your answers as every answer can help women everywhere who are facing this predicament...
thanx...
Why? Because a pregnant woman that is dating is a drama nuclear bomb, just waiting to explode. Who wants to get caught in that blast wave?  | |
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