| my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 3:36:46 AM | Had a date a couple of months back. Not through PoF. Prior to meeting for the first time, I got the impression that the woman I was going to meet was quite open minded as she mentioned sex a couple of times and said she was a bit "adventurous" and liked to "role play in the bedroom". She also said "I can be a bit kinky sometimes you know".
I actually thought that, although odd to hear this before even meeting, it was still interesting and added a bit of spice and excitement to the forthcoming date, which was arranged for two days time.
We met in a bar we both new in town. We actually got on very well. The evening was progressing and we aere drinking and having a good laugh. we had lots in common. During the eveining while we were chatting, she started asking me what I like in a woman and if I was "adventurous" like she was.
She then started telling me in a little more detail that she was interested in me going back to her place that same night for some "role play" as she liked to act "dominant". I was kind of looking at her, half smiling, sipping my drink. She then said what she'd really like to do to me that night was tie me up and blindfold me and rub a cheesegrater on my privates and draw blood.
I choked on my drink and made a swift exit.
I wouldn't say I am narrow minded but please tell me this isn't right or am I missing something? | |
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| my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 4:32:29 AM | The words "role play" are frequently associated with BDSM and she probably thought you understood what she meant.
At least you found out before the ropes came out :)
Best wishes ~ | |
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| my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 5:11:44 AM | This sounded interesting until the cheese grater...geez I agree that was too much
Being adventerous and creating some fun with a little spice thrown in can be interesting - kitchen gadgets now that is something else. | |
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| my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 5:59:44 AM | | aspiring angel, when she mentioned role play I thought she meant something like her dressing up in a sexy nurse's outfit or something ... i never imagined she wanted to grate my penis. | |
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| my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 6:33:34 AM | | Sounds more like a "psycho b*tch" to me, abs. Not all women in BDSM are that violent--but there is a hidden "subculture" within even that where blood "donation" is greatly appreciated. (Not me, dear. I prefer sex the "old-fashioned way".) | |
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| my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 6:49:55 AM | LOL need to clean up my keyboard from the coffee , sigh
I guess next time you will need to ask more questions beofre the meet if sex has already been brought up, kinkt isnt bad but everyone has their own ideas of what they like
OMG cheeze grater and blood, ewwwwww | |
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| my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 7:06:23 AM | | CBT is just scary. I saw a video once of guys hammering nails into the junk and hitting it with hammers and all kinds of horrible stuff. Hands down the worst thing the internet has ever shown me. | |
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| my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 10:58:51 AM | Tied up... $50
blindfolded... $75
cheesegrater rubbed on privates to draw blood... priceless
I think she was just testing your boundaries, too. I mean, perhaps that IS some twisted lil' kink in that naughty naugthy lil' vixen's mind, but if you stayed to discuss your boundaries and what you would have been comfortable w/sexually she might have been responsive... all I'm saying is "who knows?" You might have had some fun exploring.
But, again... bloody privates. (shudder) | |
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| my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 11:56:44 AM | | She was joking. There is no true "dominant" woman out there that would come out and say that. If she truly did enjoy the cheese grating for getting off purposes she should tell people she is a sadist instead. Whatta nitwit! | |
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| my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 12:53:42 PM |  Funny stuff
But next time a woman tries to psyc you out like that, don't run away like a scared school boy, stand your ground and trun the tables on her. Come up with some disturbing stuff of your own that will have her dashing out of the bar. " Cheese grader huh?" "I'm into Necorphila myself, lets go down to the morge and look for some fun." If she say SURE, run like hell.........
Cheers! | |
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| my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 12:54:13 PM | While no one enjoys a bit of bondage and some light slapping around like I do, there are limits.
Digging nails into my back? Awesome!
Drawing blood from said nails digging into back? Pretty effing cool!
Dragging a cheese grater along the "purple headed warrior"?
Time to go... and I would not have paid the check, either.
justforums~ | |
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| my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 1:17:49 PM | damn.......................................................... i have heard of women that like to do that type of stuff... girls get into it, some guys love being put through that type of pain....
personally, im GLAD she told you before hand *lol* you might have forgotten the 'safe' word once she got started!!! | |
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| my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 2:00:43 PM |
damn.......................................................... i have heard of women that like to do that type of stuff... girls get into it, some guys love being put through that type of pain....
personally, im GLAD she told you before hand *lol* you might have forgotten the 'safe' word once she got started!!!
I always found that a good choice of safe word is OHDEARGODINHEAVENNooooooooooooo
Always worked for me. Never forgot it. | |
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| my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 2:22:13 PM | 
I just barfed a lil in my mouth...
I can handle the blindfold, the tying up...heck even a spanking isn't too much. Not that I go for that...
But i think she was having you on.
I have never heard of anybody doing that...even my friends get kinky and blab the details.
Cheese grater? Yeah, I can see her laughing at you while you almost choked.
Only in the world of Ren and Stimpy would that exist...you SICK lil MONKEY! | |
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a bit of "domination" & role playing is fun here & there, but blood-letting of any sort?no, thanks... 
