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| wondering why men are only intersted in women that are sexy?what about the rest of us?
Posted: 7/22/2005 5:38:20 PM | Well I tell you what , It happens to the best of us . I am a BBW and I have been single for 4 years and there arent to many men that care for us bigger gals. But I have met alot of guys around the world that perfer us. But I am here and they are there . So I am still single . The only thing that I can really say is this...While there seeing only the beauty part ,their missing out on the love and affection sweetness and the best sex that they can imagen. I know I try hard to please my partner and so I some times can over do it but they still like the pleasure. But the last one I had well we wont go there ....Lets just say Dam Im good But the man he wanted was Better !!!!! | |
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| wondering why men are only intersted in women that are sexy?what about the rest of us?
Posted: 8/10/2005 10:10:45 PM | | Sexy is not in body size, shape or what shows. I prefer small features. Jenifer Lopez is not pretty to me and has a big ass. But I find her sexy. My ex to me was very sexy but to my friends no one found her that atractive or sexy with small boylike features. For me sexy is in the eyes, stlye and smile. Sound of her voice and the way she carrys herself?? Does that make sense?? Mike | |
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| wondering why men are only intersted in women that are sexy?what about the rest of us?
Posted: 9/26/2005 4:07:58 AM | | you all need to keep in mind there is a mate out there for every one. theres not one human thats exactly the same, some like large framed mates some like tiny framed and some just like average framed. its just a preferance deal. myself i like slender sexy ladys but i have dated some stocky ladys that are just as sexy.;;;; im just glad blow up dolls are not to large or they would need a bigger box ;;;lol | |
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| wondering why men are only intersted in women that are sexy?what about the rest of us?
Posted: 10/1/2005 10:58:08 AM | | I so agree. Just because I have a few pounds to lose men then you don't have a heart or that you are desperate. Am not a trophy on an arm but a friend holding the hand. Suppose women do it to. Not an easy life being single especially at my age. But at least I am not exploiting sex and carrying a mattress on my back. Nice thought sometimes but not me. | |
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| wondering why men are only intersted in women that are sexy?what about the rest of us?
Posted: 10/17/2005 2:36:17 PM | yeah i know how u feel im looking for i guy that doesnt care about body type so far im still looking and big girls need love to im trying to lose weight but still guys need to be openminded big girls are kind hearted and less likely to play games then a hot body with blonde hair big boobs
all of my friends that are guys i talk to online say that there having a hard time with there girl friend and mind games i dont play mind games but the big girls dont get a chance we get pass off which isnt fair..
i want a guy that will treat me right and the way i deserve to be treated. just because my weight is bigger then other girls doesnt mean i can love or have a serious relationship i would love to have a realationship with i guy i can go walking at night to the lose the weight with or get fit together. I used to date a really terrific guy and we went walking and exercise together and then it was going great i lost 50 pounds i got dumped by him and gain it back but i lose 10 pounds again. im trying to lose weight but i want some one to get fit together skinny ppl have health problems too like there cholestral is a major one. but im not trying to beg no one im just letting ppl know how i feel yes im only 21 but ppl my age that are overweight that are my age feel the same one we all need to be loved
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russ01
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Joined: 9/24/2005
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| wondering why men are only intersted in women that are sexy?what about the rest of us?
Posted: 10/19/2005 8:16:34 AM | ohhhhhhhhh that wasnt nice....i never have left a message on these things before but....the shade comment I dont think was really called for. There are hearts and minds behind those as you say large women. Just try to remember that please.
To me, if you say that..then why dont you add that the twiggy skinny women are the poles you use to fish with. No disrespect to either but.....same thing no ? | |
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| wondering why men are only intersted in women that are sexy?what about the rest of us?
Posted: 10/25/2005 2:05:39 PM | amen have any of u ever heard of simple plans new song
the song is called crazy.
I just got rejected by some one that is not hot he said i want some one my body type he said i wasnt what he wanted any more.
im sick and tired of guys passing by bbw we are ppl and deserve respect ive never cheated on any one but guys cheated on me and i always try to please my boyfriends why is society always wanting the hot sexy bodys they always end up breaking your heart bbw treat guys especially ten times better then some one skinny. im not in to mind games i just want some one to care about me and i want to care for some one else too is that to much o ask for | |
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| wondering why men are only intersted in women that are sexy?what about the rest of us?
Posted: 11/18/2005 4:08:07 PM | i was just going to mention that yes alot of guys are intrested in looks but no more then girls are myself i could care less infact if i had a choice i would pick someone more pretty rather then beutiful simple because all the so called beutiful women that i have date are to aware of just how good looking thay are and it makes the whole dating experiance stressfull to say the least give me someone whos careing and affectionate and im a happy camper :) looks aside
with me good looking is a pluse but nothing more | |
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russ01
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Joined: 9/24/2005
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russ01
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Joined: 9/24/2005
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| wondering why men are only intersted in women that are sexy?what about the rest of us?
Posted: 12/25/2005 10:37:07 PM | Okay sexy, you saw my profile picture.....Try waking up to me one morning on pms swellon, cranky, out of coffie, in need of a root job, (umm yeah, its not natural)
Then remeber you get 3 - 5 days of that every month for the next 15 - 20 years and then guess what.... change of life. 
worse than that try waking up next to me the day ater I'v had to much to drink...
Try going to sleep with me if you ever tell me I can't have to much to drink. It only happens once ever 3 - 8 months.
The girls who aren't trying to be sexy to start have it easy... Girls who try to be sexy get dumped when they have a natural day. Girls who are natural all the time get a guy who wants them the way they look.
Ohhh yeah and there was the time the cops tryed to arrest me for prostitution with my husband.
They assumed I was looking sexy for him cause I was trying to get money for sex. Totaly messed up the aniversery gift I was giving him at the time.
The sick thing is they talked to him not me. But then again they would have had to shoot him to talk to me. He never allowed men to talk to me.
Note girls I did say ex....
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| wondering why men are only intersted in women that are sexy?what about the rest of us?
Posted: 1/12/2006 4:43:15 PM | I have met only few men who are truely interested in normal women. And I haven't had great relationships with these guys either. The guy I've been "seeing" (not dating but screwing) lately cheated on me cause he's a "sex addict" or something. I don't know, it messed me up though when he did that but I'm still messing with him.
Funny thing, a lot of the men who are not interested in larger women are butt fugly themselves! haha | |
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| wondering why men are only intersted in women that are sexy?what about the rest of us?
Posted: 4/26/2006 5:59:18 AM | ladies....patience.
trust me there are men, abeit few and far between, that will take the time and effort to enjoy the whole WOMAN, not just the outer packaging. you need resilience. when you run across a mindless dolt (why do i keep seeing russ01 run through my head?); you have to let the experience bounce off, and move on.
one thing i would caution you on. if YOU make your weight an issue, as i've seen and heard some women do, it can put a wall around you that most men won't bother to attempt to scale. just be yourself. if he likes you for whom you are, he'll let you know. if not, such is life... | |
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| wondering why men are only intersted in women that are sexy?what about the rest of us?
Posted: 5/8/2006 7:25:50 AM | Ladies! Ladies! Its all about supply and demand. Lets be honest here. The Brad Pitts of the world will be able to attract the Jennifer Annistons. The Tom Arnolds will be able to land Roseanne Barr. Me, I'm a big boy, I have no missconceptions that I'm going to date a slender, athletic, barbie type. Big girls settle for big boys, big boys settle for big girls. We make it work or not, from there. Sure there are exceptions but thats the way I see it. P.S. if there are any barbies that like a big boy with good hygene, I'm here. | |
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| wondering why men are only intersted in women that are sexy?what about the rest of us?
Posted: 5/14/2006 12:18:23 PM |
Big girls settle for big boys, big boys settle for big girls.
I don't "settle" for anyone. I don't think I'm considered a BBW, but definitely no barbie doll. I have curves and extra padding in areas I don't neccessarily need it. But I have NO trouble finding men either for sex or relationships. I think alot of it has to do with attitude. I do happen prefer big men, but that is my preference. I was married to a stick for 10 years. Cuddling up to him was like trying to cuddle with a bag of rocks. Give me some padding to snuggle up to anyday. Women, start feeling better about yourselves and good things will come. | |
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