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 Djonna
Joined: 7/14/2007
Msg: 1
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You're in a relationship with someone. Do you think your boyfriend/girlfriend or wife/husband should be upset if you post a naked picture of yourself on the internet?

Ok or not ok? What's your opinion? Specifying naked.... Showing any or all intimate parts?
 Nick Thinker
Joined: 2/10/2007
Msg: 2
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Posted: 7/31/2007 4:24:29 PM
What does the OP mean by "naked"? How naked?
 Call_Me_Luv
Joined: 3/8/2007
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Posted: 7/31/2007 4:26:38 PM
Yes the special other has a right to be upset. I can't imagine why you would want to post a naked picture of yourself on the internet in the first place, but I would hope that you would have discussed it with your special other first. That type of behavior is touchy for some people and means nothing to others. The reason behind posting it would be important to.
 prettyinpinkxo
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 4
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Posted: 7/31/2007 4:30:16 PM
Are you SERIOUS? If so..........Hell yes they should be upset.!!! Who are you sending nude pictures to and why?
 Djonna
Joined: 7/14/2007
Msg: 5
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Posted: 7/31/2007 4:31:29 PM
Me? No nude pictures here lol.... Just a question for the forum.... Me nude pictures? One thing I've learned about the forums.... People can be SO serious. My idea of a forum is to get people involved. Next thing ya know when ya post a forum statement or question, someone's accusing you of doing something because you ask a question? lol.... YIKES! Kinda like asking if you'd ever shoot someone; rob a bank or do the penquin plunge? That doesn't mean I ever would consider such a thing....
 Djonna
Joined: 7/14/2007
Msg: 6
Naked Pictures on The Internet? Ok or Not Ok?
Posted: 7/31/2007 4:38:54 PM

IMO, that's not good business. What are you gonna do if your employer or your business clients come across that? Imagine what your Mom & Dad would say? It always comes back to haunt those who do. If you do so, do it at your own risk, and what ever consequences occur, don't whine, cry, or **** about it.


WELL SAID!
 chloe70
Joined: 4/1/2007
Msg: 7
Naked Pictures on The Internet? Ok or Not Ok?
Posted: 7/31/2007 4:39:28 PM
no way why would you want to post a naked picture to show the world if you were in a serious relationship just isnt right
 Nick Thinker
Joined: 2/10/2007
Msg: 8
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Posted: 7/31/2007 4:45:40 PM
Hello:
"What does the OP mean by "naked"? How naked?" Swimswit naked? Lingerie Naked? Totally (Marilyn Monroe naked) w/o genotalia showing or Full-full naked?
Which "Internet". A dating site? A sex partners site? A blog? Where?

It is nice for one to be specific when starting off such a topic? Right? If one wants to hear the naked truth!
 prettyinpinkxo
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 9
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Posted: 7/31/2007 4:51:53 PM

Me? No nude pictures here lol.... Just a question for the forum.... Me nude pictures

What an odd thread to start. No reason.........just grabbed it out of the sky for a debate? HOW STRANGE!!!!
 mogrl42
Joined: 4/16/2007
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Posted: 7/31/2007 4:55:06 PM
Yes they should be upset if thier bf/gf or whatever feels the needs to show off thier goods to the rest of the world.
 .Marc
Joined: 2/11/2007
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Posted: 7/31/2007 5:51:26 PM
If I'm with someone in a serious relationship, and maybe I'm a bit old fashioned in this, I have the expectation that I'm the only one that is currently seeing them naked.... at least without some sort of prior consent.
 Nick Thinker
Joined: 2/10/2007
Msg: 12
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Posted: 7/31/2007 5:54:26 PM
Yes they should be upset if thier bf/gf or whatever feels the needs to show off thier goods to the rest of the world.


I agree. That is why I do not take my GF to the beach or let her play in Baywatch!
 Sanschele
Joined: 7/2/2007
Msg: 13
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Posted: 7/31/2007 5:59:12 PM
OP: Are you kidding me with this question?? No one, and I mean NO ONE will ever see me unclothed on the internet, S/O or not. oh, crap! I better check m-y-s-p-a-c-e. com just to make sure my face isn't on Pamela Anderson's body!!! LOL

Oy!! What's with the younger generation nowadays!?!?!? but..umm.if the pay is good then I just may consider it. I need new furniture. hehe to the post below me..my question entirely. haha!


Sans
 SomeonesX
Joined: 4/22/2007
Msg: 14
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Posted: 7/31/2007 6:25:38 PM
OP wrote:

You're in a relationship with someone. Do you think your boyfriend/girlfriend or wife/husband should be upset if you post a naked picture of yourself on the internet


I personally have no interest in posting a naked picture of myself anywhere...as clothes have been and continue to be some of my "best friends".

However, there are some people that aren't as Puritan in their views of the human body...some see certain types of photography as art and view the human body as a thing of beauty to be admired-flaws and all.

Ironically, my last X had on several occassions asked me if I would ever consider posing for what he described as tastefully done photographs with me being topless (not complete nudity). At first I was livid and angry with him and couldn't imagine why on earth would he ever ask me such a thing as we were in a "relationship" ...however, his being an artist he explained to me that not all nudity or partial nudity is of a pornographic nature and he simply viewed all my body as being something he saw as "beautiful art"...and he wanted to do a photo shoot and artisitically render and/or edit the images he captured into photos that could be shown and possibly sold as part of his portfolio.

I gave all the arguments that many here have listed as to reasons why I couldn't or wouldn't do it-I've got kids, run a business, what would people I know think if they found out...and then it occurred to me that it was probably one of the highest compliments anyone had ever paid me..in his mind he totally saw only my "beauty" and none of my physical flaws that I so blatenly see and had fixated on most of my life and he didn't see my "baring more of my fleshy parts" as anything more than art.

So my answer to your question is it depends on the people involved and the circumstances, what might be a h*ll no it's not ok for one couple, might be ok for another...and No, I'm not telling if I did or didn't indulge his requests...
 InSiGhT_62
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 15
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Posted: 7/31/2007 6:30:39 PM
What are their intentions????

What are they hoping to gain from this?????

That's what i wanna know
 CoolBreezez
Joined: 8/20/2006
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Posted: 7/31/2007 6:44:45 PM
NAKED PICTURES! WHERE?



Is there pay involved?


Gee- nobody gives it up for free anymore.

I just don't think its a good idea on a dating site- leaves too little to "learn" about somebody.
But what do I know- it may help somebody with GADD - "Getting Attention Deficit Disorder"

Exhibitionists are people too.
 akimmbo
Joined: 7/22/2007
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Posted: 7/31/2007 6:58:24 PM
naked pics are for playful lovers.
but to post on the internet is a bit risky...in that...they 'will' end up somewhere..on some site....for many...perhaps thousands, to see.

unless you are a pornstar, then why bother. It's just not worth the risk.

~~~~~~akimbo~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
 RockGnome
Joined: 6/29/2007
Msg: 18
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Posted: 7/31/2007 7:06:58 PM
If I had a special someone, and she posted naked pics of herself
on the net....

How mad I'd be, would depend an awful lot on what
percentage of the financial profits I'd get.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 19
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Posted: 7/31/2007 7:10:48 PM
I personally think that if you want to post picture of you naked in the internet go for it. However, there's a caveat to that. If you are in a relationship, you are taking part of you that were intimate and are sharing it with the world, so to do so, it would have to be a consensual agreement between you and your partner. Now, once that consensual agreement is established you need to ask yourself deeper questions, such as why are you wanting to post. I know of people with tattoos that are very well in touch with their bodies and for them to be naked on a web page is an honor. Same applies to people who like photography or nudist communities. Being naked is not necessarily something porno. With that said, just be careful where you may post such pictures, because you don't want your artistic idiosyncrasies, to be confused of washed out as cheep porn, unless that is what you are looking for.
 Cort1295
Joined: 12/26/2006
Msg: 20
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Posted: 7/31/2007 7:13:41 PM
I think they'd have a good reason to be angry, although it doesn't bother me that much personally. The only thing that has ever bothered me about it is the risk factor involved in posting them. If they get out to the wrong people or onto the wrong website it could easily cause problems in the workplace or other aspects of someone's life.
 Montreal_Guy
Joined: 3/8/2004
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Posted: 7/31/2007 7:16:03 PM
I don't agree. That's something that should remain totally private, if done.
 bellydancer18
Joined: 4/19/2007
Msg: 22
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Posted: 7/31/2007 7:28:51 PM
uhm...you should not do it no matter if you are in a relationship or not. It will be seeen by people you dont want it to seen by, and people can easily steal the photo and pass it around.

it will come back to haunt you. be very careful with giving those out or posting them
 christi66
Joined: 4/17/2007
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Posted: 7/31/2007 8:24:19 PM
If you are in a relationship you should respect your self and partner enought to show respect for your relationship to not be posting naked pics .

Unless your both into that kind of thing .... if your partner is not , by all means the answer is no they should not post naked pics.
 horsewhisperer2
Joined: 10/3/2006
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Posted: 7/31/2007 8:41:42 PM
If you are in a relationship, I believe it would be disrespectful to "share yourself" with anyone else.
 TexRaceMan
Joined: 10/18/2006
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Posted: 7/31/2007 8:53:22 PM

What an odd thread to start.


Oh well. Send anything up the flagpole, a few of us will salute regardless.

Had a few of an ex, got into a deal with her post relationship, was going to post them. Didn't though. They're all shredded now. Cause I really didn't want to see 'em anymore. No looking back, who needs that?
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