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 Ineedewe

Joined: 12/11/2004
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Why do 'little boys' do this?
Posted: 5/8/2005 12:52:09 PM
I don't get it. I'm polite online (generally) and if I tell someone they're too young or too far away (cuz' they are) .. they hurl an insult. So I'm either fat and or a b*tch and on a good day, I'm both! So why? Please explain. More to the point, how do I avoid these morons? Oh and the funny thing? They always initiate the contact. UGH.
 abyssdc

Joined: 8/8/2004
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Why do 'little boys' do this?
Posted: 5/8/2005 12:56:41 PM
Because they are boys?????
 grrrbunkle

Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 3
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Posted: 5/8/2005 12:59:21 PM
I think it's because by showing your cleavage and using the name bunnyslut, it's as if you are laying down naked by the side of the information superhighway with your legs spread. And then when someone pulls over to get a closer look at the woman who is waiting for a man to come have sex with her, and you tell him to keep moving, he is ticked off for having pulled over for nothing. It's like if you get a coupon for a free dinner, but then when you go to the resaturant to redeem it, they won't honor it. If you don';t want that kind of traffic you should either change your name or your shirt, because the combination of the two of them shouts FREE SEX FOR ANYONE.
 Bendilin

Joined: 5/6/2005
Msg: 4
Why do 'little boys' do this?
Posted: 5/8/2005 1:00:07 PM
Yeah, mainly because of their age, really. :/

If someone says I'm too young I don't care, I can see how someone is looking for someone their own age/slightly older so they'll more likely have more in common/be able to do the same things.
 cosmo's left the pond

Joined: 12/1/2004
Msg: 5
Why do 'little boys' do this?
Posted: 5/8/2005 1:05:40 PM
bunny your profile exudes sex I think that when guys contact you they are really NOT expecting rejection perhaps it takes them off gaurd?
 Ineedewe

Joined: 12/11/2004
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Why do 'little boys' do this?
Posted: 5/8/2005 1:08:24 PM
Oh. Ok. So I'm not allowed to tell ANYONE 'no' ..? As for the 'grrr' boy .. u sound kinda just a little scary.

I guess I'll join a convent now.
 cosmo's left the pond

Joined: 12/1/2004
Msg: 7
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Posted: 5/8/2005 1:12:38 PM
You ask why some one calls you nasty names think about a guy reads your profile it sounds like you LOVE sex suddenly bunnyslut says NO to them they take it personal


off color joke that sadly pertains to this topic

What is the difference between a slut and a Bi tch ?


(a)A slut sleeps with everyone, a Bi tch sleeps with everyone but you!

this is the mentality you are dealing with.
 Ineedewe

Joined: 12/11/2004
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Why do 'little boys' do this?
Posted: 5/8/2005 1:15:07 PM
I want to have my cake and eat yours too!! Here's the dealio. I'm a sexual person. I LOVE SEX, the seduction etc. I'm also particular with whom I spend my time. Is this a foreign concept?
 Ineedewe

Joined: 12/11/2004
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Why do 'little boys' do this?
Posted: 5/8/2005 1:16:10 PM
Perhaps I should rename my profile? I could be .. 'bunny ****'

 Bendilin

Joined: 5/6/2005
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Posted: 5/8/2005 1:16:53 PM
Nope.

But what you could do, if ti really is just the age that's turning you off, is to put up a filter so you get a minimum age group who can message you.
 Ineedewe

Joined: 12/11/2004
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Why do 'little boys' do this?
Posted: 5/8/2005 1:18:58 PM
I don't think it's an age thing .. some of these morons were like .. 40 something, AND MARRIED!!

 cosmo's left the pond

Joined: 12/1/2004
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Posted: 5/8/2005 1:20:23 PM
my cake is dirty dirty cake lol

the anger you receive is anger at being rejected EGO BASED not rational ,not logical.
The reason you get this from some guys is that, usually young guys have little/ no controll over their ego/temper. THEY ARE HURT you reject them. Of course everyone has their personal right to choose Everyone has the right to be sexual ,but people also have the right to be upset you reject them .
 SoOuttaHere

Joined: 5/3/2005
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Posted: 5/8/2005 1:33:57 PM
Your gonna take flack no matter what you do. This is an on-line community and it is often a lot easier to be a keyboard cowboy/cowgirl when you aren't facing the person face to face. Sad but true - social graces tend to evapourate on-line.

I know it is hard to do, but the best thing to do it hit "Delete" and be done with it. If you dwell on it or second guess it, it will drive you nuts.
 Ineedewe

Joined: 12/11/2004
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Posted: 5/8/2005 1:36:02 PM
Got it. I guess rejection is just .. rejection.

THANK YOU!
 twitchy

Joined: 6/23/2004
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Posted: 5/8/2005 1:49:06 PM
grrrbunkle: i'm starting to like you...

bunny: in addition to the suggestions made so far, perhaps you should change your email restrictions to something a little older... you do indicate 18 to 44.... what more would you expect from an 18 year old?
 Bendilin

Joined: 5/6/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 5/8/2005 1:51:16 PM
*coughs*
 happy2bsandy

Joined: 4/12/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 5/8/2005 1:52:21 PM
I just read your profile to see what all the commotion was about....and really, I think that you are just a whiner :0( You talk as if sex is as common as doing the dishes! Did you actually think that with that profile and the picture of your tits hanging out of your shirt that a respectable relationship would be possible? DUH And what you do with your time and energy is YOUR decision...Unfortunately, You are just making more difficult for those of us who DON'T need to show our shit to every man here... They just lump all women into one catagory... Here's a thought... button up and **** em with your intelligence and lady-like qualities.... POOR BUNNY SLUT!!! CAN"T EVEN GIVE IT AWAY....
 Bendilin

Joined: 5/6/2005
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Posted: 5/8/2005 1:57:27 PM
Okay, you're just coming off as sounding jealous. :/
 Jetplague

Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 19
Why do 'little boys' do this?
Posted: 5/8/2005 2:26:54 PM
Well, you should just ignore the "little boys" and not give them any attention. If they were "big boys" they'd know that you've stated why and reasons for not being interested and moved on. Or at the very least stay friendly to you. But seeing that you're in Intimate Encoutners...I think all you'll tend to get is overly horny little boys. But hey....thats just this man's opinion, not here to preach.
 Cherokee51465

Joined: 4/23/2005
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Why do 'little boys' do this?
Posted: 5/8/2005 2:51:14 PM
It is called "INSECURITY"...........
 Pandy

Joined: 11/11/2006
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Why do 'little boys' do this?
Posted: 5/8/2005 2:55:32 PM

POOR BUNNY SLUT!!! CAN"T EVEN GIVE IT AWAY....



Not cool , Sandy OR lady-like.
 Vandelai

Joined: 2/21/2005
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Posted: 5/8/2005 2:58:08 PM
" Oh. Ok. So I'm not allowed to tell ANYONE 'no' "

Strawman fallacy here :-)
 Cherokee51465

Joined: 4/23/2005
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Why do 'little boys' do this?
Posted: 5/8/2005 3:02:23 PM
However, you are soliciting, what more would you expect. I think you need to clean up your act a little bit, and be more specific about the type of man you seek. (All aspects).
Then, you should still expect others to step up and give it their best shot, men and boys figure they will give it their best shot, and hope for the best. Ego and pride does not allow them to prepare for the worst. What you should do is be the adult, and just let it roll off your back, as well as set a little better example for the youger crowd here.
 onehotmamax1

Joined: 3/31/2005
Msg: 24
Why do 'little boys' do this?
Posted: 5/8/2005 4:00:19 PM
No offense, but your profile and your name makes it sound like you are easy and looking for nothing but a quickie, it shows no self respect whatsoever, and if you don't respect yourself, you can hardly expect a man to.
 dco8993

Joined: 3/12/2005
Msg: 25
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Posted: 5/8/2005 5:12:48 PM
I don't know about the rest of you, but I like what she put for first date options.
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