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 scorpiomover
Joined: 4/19/2007
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A good female poster asked: do older men think younger women want to be pouned like a jack hammer?

Now, it's not something I EVER wanted to do. I'm not a jackhammer.

However, I've met a lot of young women who talked about their b/fs like they really enjoyed it. One young woman said that her b/f went "like a donkey on roller skates".

Also, I've seen a thread on rough sex, and a lot of the female posters said they preferred rough sex, and saw more sensitive sex as "vanilla sex."

Now, I appreciate that as a woman gets older, her tastes refine, and it is likely that she will be more appreciative of sensitivity and touch.

However, I am now curious as to how the younger women feel about it, and how the mature women felt about it when they were young.

If you are a young woman, or when you were a young woman, was that what you wanted, to be "pounded like a jackhammer"?
Now that you are older, or when you get older, would you want to change and be more sensitive, or are you still inclined that way?

Guys: how did your g/fs want sex, the younger women and the mature women?
Also, did women want sex from you differently at different stages in your life?
 mlm_mlm_mlm
Joined: 4/29/2007
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do younger women want to be pounded like a jack hammer?
Posted: 8/11/2007 4:43:54 AM
shouldnt this be under sex and dating?
seems to me it should where other perv like questions go.
 Quois?
Joined: 7/16/2007
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do younger women want to be pounded like a jack hammer?
Posted: 8/11/2007 5:11:58 AM
Didn't want it when I was young and wouldn't want it now. It's no fun when your head hits the headboard or wall over and over again. There's a difference between 'getting into it' and 'just going at it'. In my experience it seems the guys that did that were trying to prove something....what that would be I have no clue.
 Fairybread
Joined: 4/24/2007
Msg: 4
do younger women want to be pounded like a jack hammer?
Posted: 8/11/2007 5:23:13 AM
I got to use a real jackhammer. I had to lift tiles from the floor. The only thing that scares me more than the actual jackhammer, is someone pounding me like that!

Never have I felt the need to be pounded like that. Sex should be loving and compassionate. Something you share with someone you love, not going at it like a couple of over sexed rabbits.

I have always liked what they call "Vanilla Sex".

I am 35 now and have been sexually active since my teens. Never at any time have I experienced a jackhammering and I don't want to either. I can't understand how anyone would enjoy that, but each to their own.

Rough sex on the other hand, like having sex on a staircase, on the bonnet of a car, or even bondage (light) can be fun but at the right time AND with the right person.

I have seen one woman hanging onto a towball of a car while her boyfriend goes for it, that is something not for me. I would at least need a cushion to rest my knees on! Lol.

Before Prettyinpinkxo has another dig at me, bring your camera, you might learn something! Lol.
 autumn_wind
Joined: 7/29/2007
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Posted: 8/11/2007 7:51:08 AM
Ok, I'm going to roll out the much touted "everyone is different".

When I was younger (still fairly young at 29, but I guess that depends on your perspective) ... no, no jackhammering for me. Now, still no jackhammering. I am not one of those women that enjoys having the hell beat out her cervix. *shrug* I don't think it has anything to do with "refining tastes" as if I'm moving from discount center tastes to haute couture. :P

Rough sex is a different story and doesn't necessarily mean getting "jackhammered" by your partner.
 taray_queen
Joined: 6/8/2007
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Posted: 8/11/2007 8:18:26 AM

shouldnt this be under sex and dating? seems to me it should where other perv like questions go.


Agree, it should be in the sex forum. OP's looking for a turn on.
 bellydancer18
Joined: 4/19/2007
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Posted: 8/11/2007 8:27:45 AM
They have a forum for sex questions....

But sexual preferences are not age related, they are person to person related.

I did see an article in a women's magazine that suggested young women and young men try to emulate porn movies as that seems to be their only reference to sex sometimes. So women get so caught up in the screaming and acting wild they don't even bother with their own pleasure and men pound away thinking this is what all women want.
 scorpiomover
Joined: 4/19/2007
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do younger women want to be pounded like a jack hammer?
Posted: 8/11/2007 8:34:40 AM
The original thread of this is posted in the Ask a Guy forum. No-one asked for it to be moved. So it made sense to I post a similar question in Ask a Girl.

But since 2 posters have expressed an issue with the equivalent premise here, I've requested it to be moved.

My only questions are: Why didn't anyone who normally posts in Ask a Guy ask the same question there, on that thread? Or are women more dainty than men, and are more uncomfortable about sexual discussions? Or has everyone who posted on this thread NEVER posted on any thread in Ask a Guy and never would and that is why they never posted this point on that thread?
 bellydancer18
Joined: 4/19/2007
Msg: 9
do younger women want to be pounded like a jack hammer?
Posted: 8/11/2007 11:18:05 AM
It's because sometimes these pervs come in here to get their jollies by hearing women discuss their sex lives. And often when they get a girl to respond in a way they like they will then contact that woman privately to try and hit on them or talk sex more privately with them. I've had this happen and it is creepy.

Why did they like it in the ''ask a guy'' forum...come on do you even need to ask this question? Men are obsesed with sex. While some women are too, we tend to be far more discreet about it.
 Elfenlass
Joined: 1/8/2007
Msg: 10
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Posted: 8/11/2007 12:14:48 PM
Honestly? Usually yes.
- It's very common for most women to not have an orgasm early on in their sexual lives. Being 'pounded' can feel very good. It's like an internal massage. And these young girls think they're having an orgasm because they don't know the difference yet.
- Younger women are more apt to feel as though they must please the male at all costs sexually. Hard and fast makes young men orgasm.
 sayalla
Joined: 2/18/2007
Msg: 11
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Posted: 8/11/2007 5:02:01 PM
My body is built for comfort, not speed.
 obfuscatedb
Joined: 8/4/2007
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Posted: 8/11/2007 5:40:41 PM

Now, I appreciate that as a woman gets older, her tastes refine, and it is likely that she will be more appreciative of sensitivity and touch.

I'm sorry; what about liking sex on the rough side indicates someone has not yet refined her tastes? People will always have a huge range of sexual tastes; the fact that some of them are opposite of yours doesn't mean they're not "refined."
 El_Mariachi
Joined: 4/21/2007
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Posted: 8/11/2007 5:58:47 PM
My body was made for many things. I'm certain that I haven't even quite figured out what half of those things are yet.

Variety is best though. Soft, hard... tied to a tree? Whatever floats your boat and you and your partner agree on.

Fun is fun is fun.
 Lotus_Flower
Joined: 8/8/2007
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Posted: 8/11/2007 7:54:32 PM
Yes, yes they do
 SunsetStorm
Joined: 5/27/2007
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Posted: 8/11/2007 8:07:12 PM
Maybe they were taking the piss out of you Id say .. my boyfriend f***s like a donkey on roller skates haha YUP cant see through that as someone taking the piss out of a man old enough to be her dad trying to ask her about sex.

 dutchpirate
Joined: 3/4/2007
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do younger women want to be pounded like a jack hammer?
Posted: 8/11/2007 8:30:29 PM
This is actually a written fact written in a recent cosmo magazine:

Jackhammering is not sexy. Never was, never will be.
 obfuscatedb
Joined: 8/4/2007
Msg: 17
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Posted: 8/11/2007 8:38:01 PM
Well.

If Cosmo says so.
 TheDevilsAdvocate
Joined: 2/27/2005
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Posted: 8/11/2007 9:12:54 PM
Jack-Hammering is painful, especially if the male in question is more than moderately endowed.

I've yet to meet a female who actually enjoys it. If anything, when they discuss it with their girlfriends, it's with reference to cervical cramps or yeast infections.
 fishbill
Joined: 3/19/2005
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do younger women want to be pounded like a jack hammer?
Posted: 8/12/2007 3:32:35 AM
""Jack-Hammering is painful, especially if the male in question is more than moderately endowed.""

What is all this "jackhammering" talk? I'm just as perverted as the OP, and never heard that term (except when describing a dildo attached to a masonary hammer). And I do apologize if this sounds perverterd, but, WHY DO YOU WOMEN SEEEM TO KNOW SO MUCH ABOUT THIS NEW "JACKHAMMERING" fad, especially if you dont like it????


Maybe I need to get out more....
 Hypno_cat
Joined: 4/15/2007
Msg: 20
do younger women want to be pounded like a jack hammer?
Posted: 8/12/2007 5:12:57 AM
Does there have to be an either or an or?My tastes haven't changed, depends on the mood, I prefer a guy that can do both, always have always will.
 rara_avis77
Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 21
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Posted: 8/12/2007 6:53:34 AM
Women are bigger perverts than men, although they won't admit it.
 obfuscatedb
Joined: 8/4/2007
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Posted: 8/12/2007 7:22:11 AM
They won't? Damn. I must be a dude then.
 El_Mariachi
Joined: 4/21/2007
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Posted: 8/12/2007 9:43:12 AM

Women are bigger perverts than men, although they won't admit it.


Some do. Some wear it like a badge. *adjusts her badge*

Not so much that they're perverts.. they just know what they like (and don't like).. you know.. kind of like men.
 scorpiomover
Joined: 4/19/2007
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do younger women want to be pounded like a jack hammer?
Posted: 8/12/2007 11:28:26 AM

Maybe they were taking the piss out of you Id say .. my boyfriend f***s like a donkey on roller skates haha YUP cant see through that as someone taking the piss out of a man old enough to be her dad trying to ask her about sex.
She said this when we were both in uni together, about 12 years ago, and there was about a 5 year difference. Didn't stop her hitting on me when we first met. We knew each other about 9 months by that point and we had discussed everything. Compared to most of the stuff she said, this was tame by comparison. And I didn't ask. She just came out with it.
 bellydancer18
Joined: 4/19/2007
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Posted: 8/12/2007 11:37:49 AM
YES! Mariachi that's exactly right...we know what we like and what we want!

Men need to remember that porn is not real life. Those people are getting paid to act.
Different women like different things. Our bodies are all made different and respond to different things. We all have different erogenous zones and things that ''work'' for us in making us satisfied.

Men need to not take it so personally when we let them know what we like and don't like. We're just trying to make sure we get ours.
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