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 gailann

Joined: 1/15/2005
Msg: 1
why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/9/2005 7:27:41 AM
i had a person call me a bunch of mean things on here i was thinking i would have a nice chat with that person i am nice person i think
 bunnybaby_81

Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 2
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why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/9/2005 7:29:45 AM
because the media has taught us that we should all be superficial people.

judging a person by how thin they are and how esthetically beautiful they should be.

i say the true beauty is what counts.

gailann, you are beautiful!
 samthebritgirl

Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 3
why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/9/2005 7:32:52 AM
Hi Gailann

Yes you are a nice person. I did enjoy meeting you at the bonfire bash and hey if people cant see who and what you are then that is their loss.
Some people have nothing better to do then hurt others. These are cold people who cannot get over the pain, anger, etc in their lives so they must lash out. There is one in every crowd.

My friend...Ignore the comments, smile and believe in who YOU are...

Hugs
 samthebritgirl

Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 4
why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/9/2005 7:36:52 AM
Hi Gailann

Yes you are a nice person. I did enjoy meeting you at the bonfire bash and hey if people cant see who and what you are then that is their loss.
Some people have nothing better to do then hurt others. These are cold people who cannot get over the pain, anger, etc in their lives so they must lash out. There is one in every crowd.

My friend...Ignore the comments, smile and believe in who YOU are...

Hugs
 love2hugu2

Joined: 12/7/2003
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why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/9/2005 7:56:52 AM
Gailann::: Unfortunately, the world is full of very insecure people and the only way they know how to deal with thier own insecurities is to try and put other people down, to build themselves up!!

Always consider the source and don't lower yourself to thier level, by letting it bother you!!
 gailann

Joined: 1/15/2005
Msg: 6
why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/9/2005 9:11:04 AM
y thank u lady im just sick of these peaple that they r so good buuuuuuut nooooooooot
 gailann

Joined: 1/15/2005
Msg: 7
why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/9/2005 9:14:13 AM
y thanku ladys im just so sick of people that think they r so good but they r noooooooot
 Enig

Joined: 12/18/2004
Msg: 8
why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/9/2005 9:17:43 AM
Gailann: I totally agree with the rest, I'm sorry you had to experience that. Some ppl just aren't happy unless they are belittling others. You are a very nice person and it was a pleasure meeting you at Sir James' bonfire party. I wouldn't let that kind of stuff bother you, those kind just aren't worth the time.
 ticky

Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 9
why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/10/2005 4:23:22 AM
i think the reason in because they themselves are insecure...and ***holes..on dating sites it reminds me of when bieng a kid and a boy would chase you home for school or pick on you it was because he liked you.. gailann your nice to everyone if someone isnt nice to you tell me i will kick there butt and if i cant i will find someone who can ha ha ha ha
 love2hugu2

Joined: 12/7/2003
Msg: 10
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why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/10/2005 5:35:43 AM
Maybe I should be rude to GAILANN,,,, I would love to have ticky kick my butt!!! LOL
 Enig

Joined: 12/18/2004
Msg: 11
why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/10/2005 8:00:13 AM
Love2hugu2....Ok just let me know when/where I wanna watch ok. LOL
 ticky

Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 12
why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/10/2005 8:03:41 AM
i only fight in jello or pudding
 love2hugu2

Joined: 12/7/2003
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why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/10/2005 8:13:33 AM
ALRIGHT!!! Jello and Pudding!!! Puick the place and time!!! I'm in!!!! LMAO
 miss_allison

Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 14
why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/10/2005 9:02:08 AM
gailann i know exactly what you mean!

i even had a guy send me a message the other day saying

"eww you are a pig, you're crazy if you think you're ever gonna find a guy on here who will even touch you"

i sometimes think people feel that cause we are online that its not "real" - and that it doesn't matter how they behave or what they say because its ONLY online

i dont know about you but my emotions dont go away just cause i'm "online" and the fact that i'm online does not make me "real". I am tired of people discounting my emotions cause I'm online.

it hurts just as bad to have a stranger on here call me names versus a stranger in real life saying it

i really think a lot of these folks who conduct themselves like that do so cause they are cowards who hide behind their computers - and most likely would be too chicken to say it to your face
 DULIKE?

Joined: 3/4/2005
Msg: 15
why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/10/2005 10:25:42 AM
That is too bad you guys, we're all just trying to have a nice time on here, I bet these people that are writing these emails are pretty nasty themselves and they have a picture of themsellves up there that is 5 years old or something.
At least we're being honest....screw them.....they don't know about a little something called
BAD KARMA!

KEEP SMILING CHICKS!
 ~M.P~

Joined: 2/27/2005
Msg: 16
 w82b

Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 17
why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/10/2005 1:06:58 PM
if you perform a much closer examination I am certain you can appreciate that your weight is not the issue with them. Their issue began when they decided they didn't like what they saw in the mirror.
 FirmBear8

Joined: 5/30/2004
Msg: 18
why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/10/2005 2:15:10 PM
Hey now don't go leting those rude asses make you sad okay!!
Maybe they just have not seen a nice sexy like You and it scares them !!
Never pay those who are rude any attention okay!!
And besides that if you do let them make you sad I won't be making any more Timmies runs for those triple triple coffees you like so much !!LOL
Yep dam good looking lady you are ! Yeah I know I like ladies little smaller but thats just cause I'm a little guy okay!! You'd where me out lovin little me I hope you know !!
Yep I probbly couldn't handle lots of lovin with you for staters !Wink wink ! Hey but I know your one sexy lady though !! And yep dam good friend also !!
So I don't want you makin me do some wild dancing with you on friday as you'll end up takin me home :-)
And yep I probbly wouldn't stop you either !!LOL
But you'd have too stop for a Timmies on the way though !LOL
Yep never let anyone put you down your a very lovely lady and yep I noticed some guys at the bbq checkin you out so better be lookin sexy friday night as I bet they'll be there lookin for you too !!
Hey good news about Sammy ah !
Yep I was tryin to find out how she made out with her date on saturday but she didn't tell me till today !! I'm happy she's got her man now !! But yup I told her she still better be my good friend or I 'll be upset !! LOL
Yep no worrys with the firmbear here and yes I might get drunk after the dance but hey now I have a reason cause one of my best lady friends is finally got the love of her life now !!
Now if only I could get the lovely lady I'd call the love of my life to email me back and stop complaining when I tell her shes a very lovely lady then wooo hooo!!
I'd be throwin a party !!

Well I see my lady I am interested in is gonna be at the dance but not sure if She'll give me the time of day though !!
So yeah thats why I posted I might be gettin pissed up friday night !!LOL
Well not too worry you just get out there friday night and show them ignorant people your one sexy lady okay!!
Huggers from the firmbear !!
 gailann

Joined: 1/15/2005
Msg: 19
why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/10/2005 3:33:07 PM
ok u now have me blushing and i would like to thank u all for making me feel better and u r all geart people
 samthebritgirl

Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 20
why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/10/2005 3:58:04 PM
We are all speaking from our hearts Gailann...
I ALWAYS see the inner beauty in everyone. Age, race, sex, weight, height, none of that matters in my world.
Now yall may think im mushy but hey thats me, take me as I am....

Wow, I guess I am in love...Yes it feels fantastic.

 guyrob

Joined: 12/11/2004
Msg: 21
why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/10/2005 4:03:24 PM
Don't allow yourself to be taken in by rude, obnoxious bullies. They insult because they have nothing better to do. They are worse off than the rest of the good POF GANG.
 creter

Joined: 5/2/2005
Msg: 22
why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/10/2005 4:07:01 PM
I guess it really boils down to people who have no class. If you have no class, you have no inner beauty. Without that you have to make other people feel bad to hide just how ugly you are as a person.
Id just have to say, pay them no mind. Your a much better person then they are. And in the end its you we would rather have around.
 Belfast Child

Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 23
why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/10/2005 6:59:42 PM
Gailann:

I know I've placed this on a posting before but, I'm gonna say it again;

It's very easy for anyone to hide behind a monitor and spew forth sexual remarks, distain and discord...it is, after all, their SAFE place...
ie: people that are truly insecure.

'nuff said.. :)



 guyrob

Joined: 12/11/2004
Msg: 24
why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/10/2005 7:08:01 PM
yea, they hide behind their "monitors" like a stalker hunting their prey. Take anything anyone says with a grain of salt, especially on the web.
 w82b

Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 25
why do peaple have to be rude about people being over weight or there looks
Posted: 5/10/2005 7:15:46 PM
Chances are good that any person chatting with him will dtermine that he has a poor level of self esteem, which inturn results ina lack of compassion for others.

Keep smiling, you're a wondeful person.
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