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 HotHippieMama

Joined: 6/27/2007
Msg: 1
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 7:59:06 PM
I always let a guy know before or sometime during our first time having sex, that I love it when he makes noises. I usually 'remind' him during and I ask him to just TRY to make noise.
Some are good and noisy for me. Even when they just give me a little grunt, it drives me wild and that usually gets them making more noise...
But WHY do I have to ask? Doesn't it feel better to you when you moan?

ANGIE
 Tsorath

Joined: 5/10/2006
Msg: 2
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 8:00:28 PM
lol Ill make as much noise as she elicits from me its uncontrollable when its good who can hold back?


JC
 Chronidus

Joined: 7/31/2007
Msg: 3
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 8:01:38 PM
ill moan for you lol...... :D

I think its more an embrassment thing for most guys, for me i like to moan because well its fun and it stops me holding in my breath lol
 Leeanne

Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 4
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WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 8:03:48 PM
hehehe I had to check your profile to see where you lived - I thought you may have dated one of my last BF's!!! I so hate having to tell a guy to let it out and give up the moaning and bed talk!!! The best lover I ever had was sooooo vocal and oh it was soooooo hot!! I love a man that can just let it all out and feel every moment with sounds of bliss!!!
 Treasure224

Joined: 3/3/2007
Msg: 5
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 8:04:32 PM
HAHAHAHAHA, I love your guys' response!!! I hate it too when you guys don't make a sound. If I'm doing the naughty thing to you, I like to know that you are enjoying it. Pleasing you, pleases me so shout it from the rooftops baby!!
 Chronidus

Joined: 7/31/2007
Msg: 6
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 8:06:42 PM
Maybe we just dont like moaning, i dunno. I like to and it is really for the fact i cant hold my breath in that long, and yeah its more about allowing your partner to know she is doing good ;D. Just not good when you have grandkids in the next room ya know lol
 King Nosmo

Joined: 8/5/2007
Msg: 7
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 8:22:59 PM
Well, in a pinch you can always pull his finger. Helps if he has a dog to blame. Never mind, bad idea.
 opt

Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 8
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WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 8:26:08 PM
That is ABSOLUTELY RIDICULOUS... you are telling HIM to moan... so YOU can feel better???

WOW!

Why dont you tie strings to his limbs so you can REALLY control him for YOUR pleasure...

freakin A!
 OutMind

Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 9
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WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 8:32:19 PM
They are trying to be honest.
 obfuscatedb

Joined: 8/4/2007
Msg: 10
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 8:50:13 PM
Yeah.

Silent lovers are creepy.
 patrol sgt

Joined: 4/16/2007
Msg: 11
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WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 8:50:34 PM
ill make noises...but if ur TELLIN the guy what to do ahead of time...ur puttin him on the spot and probley takin sum of his enjoyment away...
sex is supposed to be for the both of u...if hes quiet...theres a reason...and its not always that ur not doin it right for him...or that it doesnt feel good...its just sum guys r quiet. but by tellin him to be loud...and hes not normally...thats just like tellin him to fake it.
if the guy TOLD u to be quiet in bed...wouldnt u feel a lil...well..put off?
 hiphopHONEY

Joined: 8/7/2007
Msg: 12
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 8:54:22 PM
I agree men like it but they dont moan. I have be known to be a little loud not crazy but i defiantly moan. It makes a girl feel guy he is moaning to just like the guys like it when a girl moans....oh baby!
 Naturally 2

Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 13
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 9:02:05 PM
Have to agree with the sgt.
I would feel weird if someone told me to quiet down or not say anything while in the middle of it.
But I dont mind telling the person that I like it when they are more vocal during lovemakeing, its a turn on for me.I would just try to do it so it wouldnt make him feel as though he needed to perform for me.
The best sex is with someone I trust, and who feels the same way with me...then we can both try things that maybe are out of our comfort zone....like him being more vocal,and me being less vocal.(Not going for the 2nd one) lol
P.
 psunitro

Joined: 5/31/2007
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WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 9:09:53 PM
Well, you have to let the one your with KNOW that you like what or the way they are doing something is to VERBALIZE. A little moaning,groaning, pillow talk goes a LONG way!!
 CaughtUPeekin

Joined: 4/15/2007
Msg: 15
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 9:12:56 PM
Forget moaning ... Say my name, B!+ch!

;)
 patrol sgt

Joined: 4/16/2007
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WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 9:14:46 PM
ya know we rely on u to give us signs on what u like and whats not doin anythin for u....and we pay attention to it....
like u said...when the guy makes noises..it drives u wild...so really....y do u have to TELL him to be loud or REMIND him....just let him know u like him bein a lil vocal durin it in ur own lil ways aside from comin right out and orderin him what to do....ull probley get alot farther. and remember....the guy ur with may have had his last gf tell him to be more quiet...everyones different...sex is different for everyone...just keep that in mind.
 str8ahd

Joined: 5/22/2007
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WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 9:22:55 PM
I hate that just breathing in my ear. A someone else said, it's creepy. A little chatta, please.
 Double Cabin

Joined: 11/29/2004
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WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 9:35:36 PM
Did any of you read OPT's post? Moan's arte supposed to be voluntary ladies. Maybe you should read up on how to better foster them. I'll moan when the spirit...or you move to do so.
 GuitarGuy_

Joined: 3/15/2007
Msg: 19
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 9:37:16 PM
I'm the opposite, I like to get some chatter in the field going, and plenty of moaning for both of us!

*smile*
 jtw1974

Joined: 6/18/2007
Msg: 20
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 9:39:07 PM

Why dont you tie strings to his limbs so you can REALLY control him for YOUR pleasure...

Am I the only one here who has no problems with that concept either?
 Belina

Joined: 6/5/2007
Msg: 21
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 9:45:17 PM
i agree, why dont more men make noise, i like noise, the more noise the better! lol dirty talk is fun too!
 BCExpat

Joined: 3/14/2007
Msg: 22
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 9:46:55 PM
Are you kidding? Who's quiet? LOL I feel wierd if no one is making any noise and then I feel wierd if I'm the only one not making any noise. ...YES baby...just like that... oh you're so beautiful... could you get any sexier!!... Does that feel good? ... jane, Jane, JAne, JANe , JANE, JJAANNNEEEE, IINNNSSSEEEERRRRRTTTTTT YYYOOOURRRRRRR NAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMEE..........
 aack

Joined: 6/17/2006
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WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 10:05:35 PM
Super quiet lovers just don't do it for me either. Not that I suppose it must be so, but it smacks of a lack of engagement to me. Besides, I want to take in the experience completely, feel it with every sense.

Perhaps people are stuck on the porn deal? The men there are always quiet (until the end). Whatever. I say BRING THE NOISE!
 batgirl_20

Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 24
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 10:28:14 PM
Damn, all the vocal lovers are commenting on this post and not in my town!

It turns me on so much when a guy is vocal. I would never ask him to be, but I have had a few that never made a sound no matter how loud I got. It's not so much fun if you're wondering if they are still alive.

I wish I could find a guy who actually LIKED being vocal. I would be all over that!
 benhem612

Joined: 7/17/2007
Msg: 25
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/12/2007 10:33:41 PM
I agree on this point 100 percent. While others are getting put off about folks being demanding, the fact of the matter is everyone has different tastes and if they aren't communicating them then folks are running blind. I personally enjoy it when my partner lets me know what she wants because it makes my job much simpler and i get more enjoyment out of it myself. I am not the most talkative person but if I know my partner enjoys I will be able to put more effort into giving her that. Essentially if its presented in a way that isnt a put down then it can only help things.
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