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 isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 1
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Is it me or do most girl have conversations like this on POF
Posted: 8/13/2007 3:14:25 PM
newbyfish: how are you?

isabelle_guns: good thanks

him (changed the dudes name): what are you up to?

isabelle_guns: at the moment...chatting..in an hour trying to pick up something
out of a cook book to cook
isabelle_guns: yourself

him (changed the dudes name): tired and horny, just chillin!

isabelle_guns: are you at home?

him (changed the dudes name): yes

isabelle_guns: you know they have porn to help the horny issue...if you google
porn you can get some free pics.

him (changed the dudes name): I know!
talking with someone would be better!

him (changed the dudes name):
As for the tired...take an awesome nap and bum around the TV

isabelle_guns: lol
I hear you

him (changed the dudes name):
are you horny?
can I call you?
hello!


I was suggesting the porn thing as a polite way of telling him to go away without seeming like a ****.

I seem to be getting these type of conversations a lot for some odd reason.

Aren't there voyeur sites like ifriends or something like that where you can pay per minute for this stuff without having the girl ignore you?

Men (some not all). WTF?
 jtw1974

Joined: 6/18/2007
Msg: 2
Is it me or do most girl have conversations like this on POF
Posted: 8/13/2007 3:26:11 PM
From what I've heard... alas... many do indeed go just that way. Heck, I have yet to hear of even ONE guy ever getting an im that just went from zero to horny in 5 seconds. Well... perhaps simply none have complained about it, now that I mull that brainteaser over a bit.

Mighty nice of you to point him in the direction of some porn, however. Public service and all. I hope the lad doesn't get carpal tunnel.
 beachchick

Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 3
Is it me or do most girl have conversations like this on POF
Posted: 8/13/2007 3:30:10 PM
No, I don't have them, because i turned off the IM feature. LOL
 Izzy011

Joined: 7/29/2007
Msg: 4
Is it me or do most girl have conversations like this on POF
Posted: 8/13/2007 3:34:38 PM
prob not the best thing to bring up the porn thing..he might of thouhgt u where playing along. Im think of turning of thr IM feature because it is kinda annoying now like. But no i no of at one descent person on here...U no who u are ;)
 jewelescent

Joined: 3/2/2007
Msg: 5
Is it me or do most girl have conversations like this on POF
Posted: 8/13/2007 7:33:58 PM
You should have just blocked him when he mentioned that he was horny. Call you? Heck no!
 obfuscatedb

Joined: 8/4/2007
Msg: 6
Is it me or do most girl have conversations like this on POF
Posted: 8/13/2007 7:37:01 PM
I turned off IMing as soon as I found where that clicky box was. Having IM on with sites like this is never any fun for me.
 dear_huntress

Joined: 5/11/2007
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Is it me or do most girl have conversations like this on POF
Posted: 8/13/2007 8:29:59 PM
Not exactly like that, but I had a guy IM me, and the first thing he asked me when he read I was a widow, was if I missed having a guy in my bed.
That was the end of conversation for me. I am not a public service. I pointed him nowhere... just turned off the IM and blocked him. As easy as that.
 jeepgurl82

Joined: 4/26/2007
Msg: 8
Is it me or do most girl have conversations like this on POF
Posted: 8/13/2007 8:43:07 PM
YUCK!!! I turned my IM's off too! B/c of crap like that!

Seriously!!!!
 BCBOY81

Joined: 6/13/2004
Msg: 9
Is it me or do most girl have conversations like this on POF
Posted: 8/13/2007 9:17:44 PM
Wow, you mean you actually replied? I've yet to get a decent reply from a woman.... let alone a conversation. Wow. Shocking.
 GoldieLocks5

Joined: 5/22/2007
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Is it me or do most girl have conversations like this on POF
Posted: 8/13/2007 9:39:15 PM
How do you block people? I like having the IM on that way I don't have to give my msn right away. But ya I hate when I get jerks like that, the best is when they ask what are you looking for on this web site? What do you think. Gar that makes me mad.
 jtw1974

Joined: 6/18/2007
Msg: 11
Is it me or do most girl have conversations like this on POF
Posted: 8/13/2007 9:44:51 PM
Seriously, this blows my mind. The sheer amount of male retardation that goes on around a place like this. I usually don't get all high horsey and proclaim how sh*tty many guys tend to be... but OH MY LORD what morons. I've said it before and I'll say it again... this MUST work for them somehow. With some women. Somewhere. For such a caveman-like behavior to be so prolific... ugh. That's it. Just.. ugh.

You know, as a dude, I never had an awful im experience. Sure, some were a little strange (I've never initated an im meeting, always the recipient...) but never enough to turn off the function as of yet. Oh Wait. I forgot her. Okay.. ick.... Once there WAS someone who just creeped me out to no end, but that was it. Ick-Girl. Just one isolated person. It's a shame, too, 'cause when I'm chatting with someone... an innocent comment like "Chicks dig horses" gets taken waaaaaay out of context and I need to bring up literary references like Black Beauty and The Black Stallion in order to dig myself out of a double-entendre dug hole. don't get me wrong.. I ain't no choir boy... far far from it... but there's a thing called "tact" that soooo many lads are missing. They should offer classes.

It does make me wonder, however, if guys got inundated with suggestive ims as well... I doubt most would even THINK about turning off the im function.
 scorpiomover

Joined: 4/19/2007
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Is it me or do most girl have conversations like this on POF
Posted: 8/13/2007 9:46:53 PM
To lpkoji in msg #10:

How Do I Turn Instant Messaging On Or Off?

You can turn the IM feature on or off in the Mail Settings section of plentyoffish.com

How Do I Block Other Users On Instant Messenger?

To block other users simply click on the circle with a cross through it on the instant messenger viewer
Copied from Instant Messenger Help on the Help page.
 VioletSkye

Joined: 1/3/2006
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Is it me or do most girl have conversations like this on POF
Posted: 8/13/2007 9:53:41 PM
NO IMing for me. Grrr

And I state in my profile it's a no-no. If that is all anyone is looking for, look elsewhere.

It's that simple.
 Mafiachixrule

Joined: 5/4/2007
Msg: 14
Is it me or do most girl have conversations like this on POF
Posted: 8/13/2007 9:59:22 PM
Ditto on the no IM.
It makes it far too easy for bad behavior to grace my screen.
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