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 7times
Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 2
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Don't go reading into so much. Sure some guys and have to say even women say that and it is their way of saying just friends but others like myself use it as a compliment and nothing else.
Its sorta the same as saying you seem like a great person, can be taken many different ways.
 ~Songbird~
Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 3
What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/9/2005 12:42:23 PM
I think you're reading too much into it too. Maybe it does just mean they think you're sweet?
 Jetplague
Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 5
What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/9/2005 12:49:35 PM
I actually think the guy thinks you're sweet if he says that. Perhaps it's just more of a polite way of saying "Daaaamn woman! YOU is soooo hot baby!"

Hmmm..yeah...sweet sounds more acceptable.
 Pertwee
Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 6
What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/9/2005 12:56:07 PM
I've said it when I chickened out of going any further with a woman... We go for the kiss... I get skittish... my nose ends up in her mouth... I look at her apologetically and say "You are so sweet."... I retreat to safety.

For me it definitely has that "I wish I was actually as ready as I wanna be vibe".
 Frrosty
Joined: 3/21/2004
Msg: 7
What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/9/2005 2:20:22 PM
It means he thinks you're sweet.

 FauzWuzHere
Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 8
What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/9/2005 10:49:59 PM
Could be worse. He could say that you're so salty.


I would like an intraverted, people oriented kinda gal. A humble "sweet" girl.


See how the word sorta snuck in there?
 FauzWuzHere
Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 10
What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/10/2005 3:36:42 AM
Marry me.
 crowmobe
Joined: 1/7/2005
Msg: 12
What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/10/2005 11:00:44 AM
means u saad or did something nice for them, just a compliment
 SweetKristine
Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 13
What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/10/2005 1:55:49 PM
i'd like to know the answer to that too...lol...personally i think its a line guys use w/me so they dont think they are hurting my feelings by going eww hell no lol...but seriously..would love to know the answer to that burning question also....
 foggyb
Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 14
What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/10/2005 5:20:34 PM
When a guys says you're sweet he probably really means it. I suspect most of us guys (a little help here guys) would agree with me. However, as with any subject, people are different and there's always a small portion of the population who does interpret things differently and may indeed not mean it. Just keep trying. It shouldn't be too hard to find the guy who says "You're sweet" and means it.
 MsRedDress
Joined: 4/30/2005
Msg: 15
What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/10/2005 5:29:57 PM
your so sweet... I just want to be friends.


means they know they arent getting any too fast.
they dont want to put any work in
they are moving on
trying to let you down easy
 mdew22
Joined: 11/23/2004
Msg: 16
What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/10/2005 5:34:18 PM
actually when i tell a girl that she is sweet it meens that she is nice good and a great person. thats all.


mdew22
 meowmix
Joined: 1/16/2005
Msg: 17
What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/10/2005 6:00:17 PM
it means he thinks your sweet.
MM
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 18
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What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/10/2005 6:18:33 PM
Hmmm when I say sweet, its a nice way of saying I wanna kiss you so hard and deep your ancestors will be horny.......but if anything else is added after it doesnt it make ya wana just wretch?
I've gotten that one too, your such a sweeet guy.........I'm glad we got to meet ....and uuurrrrppppppppplllllaaaaaahhhhahahhahahaha
sorry there goes the wretching again
There is a distinct difference between sweet and scchhhhweeeeeettttt but if sombody is telling you your schweeeet your gonna know whas up.
 alyvenwell
Joined: 11/26/2004
Msg: 19
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What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/10/2005 6:27:37 PM
well I suppose if he said it after kissing you that would be a great thing, unless you had been eating lemons then you would know he is full of crap. And what is wrong with being sweet?
 nu2town
Joined: 8/25/2004
Msg: 20
What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/26/2005 5:25:38 AM
"you're so sweet" is universal for "not a chance"

when a woman says it to a man it means, get lost, gimme a jerk.

when a man says it to a woman it means, get lost gimme a hottie with a naughty body who will hump our face for hours
 LiMoShark
Joined: 3/17/2005
Msg: 21
What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/26/2005 6:37:54 AM
"youre so sweet" genuinely means that they aren't going to be sleeping with you because you are actually a really nice person and they would feel bad about using you for sex.
 79dude
Joined: 6/8/2004
Msg: 22
What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/26/2005 6:53:27 AM
i disagree, i think limo is sweet and i'd love to... well....
 dco8993
Joined: 3/12/2005
Msg: 23
What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/26/2005 9:16:31 AM

"youre so sweet" genuinely means that they aren't going to be sleeping with you because you are actually a really nice person and they would feel bad about using you for sex.


that's generally true, however, usually there is a "but" after it and it is coming from a woman. Maybe it's a regional thing, but I have never heard a guy use the term "sweet" unless he is describing something cool, or how sweet something tastes. I'm sure if the guy used the term sweet he probably meant it. Only his actions afterwards would tell you if it meant a brush off.
 2busy4U
Joined: 5/22/2005
Msg: 24
What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/26/2005 10:56:47 AM
@kurategirl

I can't speak for everyone, but when I tell a woman that she's sweet it's usually means just that. I say "you're so sweet" after she does something particularly thoughtful, or nice, or when she gives me an unwarranted compliment. I even say it to my guy friends, but with them it's more tongue in cheek. Sweetness is definitely an asset for a woman, at least in my eyes.
 gym_beam
Joined: 5/10/2005
Msg: 25
What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/26/2005 11:34:20 AM
Sweet is a good thing.....infinitely better than to be told..."you really have a heart of gold"....which always sounds to me like they are surprised to find out I am not a ****.
 Wheat_King
Joined: 1/3/2005
Msg: 26
What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/26/2005 7:08:59 PM
"You're so sweet", can mean just that. Some of us want that type of girl
 mainaka
Joined: 12/11/2004
Msg: 28
What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/27/2005 7:25:28 PM
You are his cake and he is being hungry
 WeaponBoricua
Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 29
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What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/28/2005 12:00:56 AM
They mean that you are like chocalate and they only care for some gadongadon!!!!!
 Headboss
Joined: 2/13/2005
Msg: 30
What does a guy mean when he says Your so sweet...
Posted: 5/28/2005 12:31:11 AM
When a guy says "you're sweet" it can mean alot of things:
-Taken into context, that he thinks your a good person, caring, etc, aka likes you.
-self lie, hes not attracted to you, but he respects you and women in general, just a way to let you off easy without hurting your feelings.
-That he wants to have sex with you, but doesn't want to taint your image.
-Also some guys arent use to sweet girls, and they really think its a change of events.

Like most things guys say are direct, they mean what they mean, but "you're sweet" is an exception. Of course most things girls say are indirect :) All actions... Thats just what I think...
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