| how do you know if someone is out of your league
Posted: 8/17/2007 1:33:30 PM | when i look on here, or go down the pub, im looking for that someone special as we all are, but what makes someone out of our league, i think its not only a looks thing, the way someone dresses say's alot about them, also there wealth and/or job can put them street's ahead of you,
i know people say these things dont matter, but they do , what do you think ?  | |
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| how do you know if someone is out of your league
Posted: 8/17/2007 1:40:37 PM | I dont think you ever know if anyone is out of your league, if they ever are at all.
Isnt that abit like selling yourself short?
We are all unique and bring different qualities to another persons life in one way or another. | |
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| how do you know if someone is out of your league
Posted: 8/17/2007 1:55:48 PM | Well an honest answer would be:
if they have their own teeth or more realistically if they have a pulse then they're probably outta my league. Seriously though as everyone is of the same species (just) then technically speaking no one should be out of anyone's league. Maybe it's a lack of self confidence on one persons part. | |
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| how do you know if someone is out of your league
Posted: 8/17/2007 1:57:24 PM | I've been told i scare men.....
and some people avoid me because of what i do
we're all human beings, why should anyone be judged on job? wealth? dress sense etc?
isn't that what makes us all beautifully unique? that we're all different?
biggest compliment i ever had from a person of the opposite sex, was that he loved the shape of my mind.
nooooo before some smartarse says it....... he wasnt hannibal looking for a snack! | |
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| how do you know if someone is out of your league
Posted: 8/17/2007 2:16:11 PM | The truth is...no-one is trully out of your league.
They may be better looking but does that equate to them being better than you?
They may earn more money...again are they better than you?
They may be really popular.....but again...so ferkin what.
If you think you've lost even before you've began...then don't bother.
Generally people think certain people are out of their league... for eg...
.Good Looking
.Younger
.Richer
.Popular
.Powerfull
Contact whoever you want, if it's not meant to be it won't happen...BUT let's just say this "Out of your league" person answers back...are they really out of your league then?
It's all in the mind i tell you.. | |
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| how do you know if someone is out of your league
Posted: 8/17/2007 2:22:24 PM | ohh nobody should be out of your league..its all self belief/confidence etc...and we all add something to others lves ...even if we don't realise it at the time! God gave us the pack...we should make the best of it and play ....all night long! xx | |
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| how do you know if someone is out of your league
Posted: 8/17/2007 2:22:26 PM | ^^^^i try my luck all the time,its not down to being out of a league,........its wether these"big leaguers" are all there cracked up to be,,,,,,,,i met a stunner once,,,she was on like a million favs lists,(well in the hundreds,).......but when we met?.....i did wanna rattle the snake,but conversation wise?....i would have been better buying a sack of coal out of the local super stores,they aint all that....so here ye here ye,grab your queensburys,and go for it,in a non-helmet in the bush way.....just ask them out,anf if they say,stop mailing me or il contact the FBI...well sir,or miss,(im not sexest)...thats the time to stop clicking,and go buy a pot noodle and have a wank.  | |
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| how do you know if someone is out of your league
Posted: 8/17/2007 2:30:47 PM | Post 12....so does this not really answer part of the question in a fashion then?
I think the majority of the time its how someone see's themselves at the side of the opposite sex.
A partner can compliment another in various ways other than just the physical & I would trust that the majority of people that are kicking around on the site that want something meaningful out of a relationship go on more than just looks alone.
Personal experience should tell you that people who want to get by from just looks alone eventually find that it disappears & if there's no substance of character afterwards there's not an awful lot to admire.
Perhaps...& its only perhaps that if you feel upon reading someone else's profile you feel they are way out of your league it could be a consideration to gain other interests that may put you 'in the same league' as they are in your own eyes....but i'm with the majority view on this one that it is just a mindset & nothing more that stops you. | |
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| how do you know if someone is out of your league
Posted: 8/17/2007 2:33:33 PM | I don't quite agree, I met one guy on a date and he was way more intelligent than me (double first at Oxford) and I knew we were in a different league. He has actually become quite a good friend to me over the last few months but that feeling of slight insignificance (and that was my fault not his) meant that the belief we were too different set the tone and kept us from being more than friends.
No idea if I have explained that at all  | |
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| how do you know if someone is out of your league
Posted: 8/17/2007 2:38:07 PM | | im basiaclly sayin that if a girl,(who maybe has a pic of herself wearing next to nothing)...would get added onto a lot of favs lists....yes the favs might be stunners,might be bucket bakes,,,but they get an ego trip,,,,,,,,,so......if a normal guy,like me or you,would msg them .they could possibliy say...........ooooh u dam ugly,,i got me better fans than u!....like it or not,you WILL look at "whos veiewd me"...and always click on the nicest lookin bird or magpie...(men or sorrow aparently),...alls im sayin is,if you meet a stunner,and she dont speak ,buy a bag of coal. | |
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| how do you know if someone is out of your league
Posted: 8/17/2007 2:44:07 PM | Doesn't that depend on the reason you are adding to fave's in the 1st place though?
It still boils down to the exact same thing though doesn't it? You partly judge someone by the way they look & not behind the picture you see....
Yeah a lot of people more than likely do get ego trips off the back of being added to fave's lists but also consider the amount of****eads that mail what you & I would consider to be 'stunning' & get pissed off with the whole aspect off it.
lol
Its a long conversation to have & I'm sure there are a million & one different 'supposings' that could come out of the back end of it...but the simple answer is to find out for yourself...
but.....agreed...coal might have a bit of charisma  | |
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| how do you know if someone is out of your league
Posted: 8/17/2007 2:46:08 PM | op you're saying that the way someone dresses could determine that you may see them as out of your league? (as well as other things).
Yes the way someone dresses does say alot about them but don't you think that some people may dress how they see fit for the occassion? I can go out glamourous in full c0cktail/dinner dress for an evening or wear cut down denim shorts in a pub watching the football with a pint in my hand!
I'm happy to dress for any occassion & feel comfortable in anything but then what you're saying is how you'd percieve me on seperate occassions, so on one occassion you may think I'm out of your league & on another you may think my god look at her the slob!
You should never look at someone as out of your league simply by first impressions. | |
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| how do you know if someone is out of your league
Posted: 8/17/2007 2:47:17 PM | well i reckon everyone sees different in someone,
what one person may like about a guy/girl, another
may not...looks arent everything either although
there has to be some attraction, its how you feel
when you're with them.
as for intelligence? did i read the question right ? 
we shouldnt be out of anyones league or
think they're out of ours..... | |
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| how do you know if someone is out of your league
Posted: 8/17/2007 2:53:18 PM | sorry this is a pity thread.
look at the funny man on the planet? hardly blessed with good looks but they make a woman laugh.
nobody is in or out of leagues, if you are yourself then people pick up on this. if your a moody swine, then people perceive you as a moody swine. if your a funny swine, then people perceive you as a funny swine.
normal people do not consist of leagues of dating.
i think truely the only people out of a normal persons league is a A list celeb. but saying that Jennifer Ainston dated a london brickie? so anything is possible.
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| how do you know if someone is out of your league
Posted: 8/17/2007 2:53:23 PM | This topic has been discussed before and i again cry BULLCRAP there are those you view out of your league..... only those being dishonest cry that crap might as well cry looks dont matter either ..
No one is out of my league.Nopers.Doesn't mean Jack Crap really now does it?People will like or dislike you for whatever reason they choose.
So if the sweaty villiage moron with no teeth , bath once a month , torn clothes, and a quarter in his pocket , ( since he has no job and lives behind the gas station ) lets pretend he walked up and asked the wonderful lady if she wanted to go for a drink ....... NOW since no one is out of your league .... your going to say ok sure sweetie lets go ?
there is always someone out of everyones league if a person is honest they will admit that .. | |
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| how do you know if someone is out of your league
Posted: 8/17/2007 2:57:13 PM | | ^^^il admit,,i once did add people for no particular reason,just thought it was fun to try it out,but a person,or persons once said.,,in wise words.."if your gonna add me to your fav list,the please at least say hello).....so i finely tune who im gonna get my lookin glass onto,and if i do add a person to my favs,its because,i random click.....lol....but in a way,its a sign that might mean,ooh,,he or she must think im attractive..or,hes been pressing random buttons,il be honest injun here,ive been rated by some hot ladys,its a shame they live to far away,cause id be in like flint,but i look apon it,and say......awww.......she must have made a mistake. | |
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| how do you know if someone is out of your league
Posted: 8/17/2007 2:58:39 PM | | I think it all depends on our individual taste. There might be a guy that dresses like a tramp and looks awful to some but to another he will actually be just her type. Never think someone is out of your league. An ex taught me that. He thought I was out of his league when actually we got on very well as we still do and 'leagues' had nothing to do with it. We were both attracted to each other. | |
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| how do you know if someone is out of your league
Posted: 8/17/2007 3:05:55 PM |
So if the sweaty villiage moron with no teeth , bath once a month , torn clothes, and a quarter in his pocket , ( since he has no job and lives behind the gas station ) lets pretend he walked up and asked the wonderful lady if she wanted to go for a drink ....... NOW since no one is out of your league .... your going to say ok sure sweetie lets go ?
No, he might not be someones taste that's all....personal prefference is often confused with arrogance and****ness...
*personally i would want to see him clean and fed incase i'm missing the man of my dreams lol* | |
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| how do you know if someone is out of your league
Posted: 8/17/2007 3:07:31 PM | Women out of my league = Usually the glamorous narcissistic ones with bikini and breast shot photos on their profiles, smoking a fag who like "goin clubbin wiv me mates". I'm truthfully stereotyping...
Thank fook. | |
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