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Posted: 8/23/2007 4:57:14 PM | This is a serious question folks.
I have a real problem. My part time partner thinks I used to be a stripper after I danced naked for him. How can I convince him that I have never done that for money. I must be really good at from all what he has said. Kinda made me feel good, yet bad because he didn't believe me.
Please help@! | |
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Posted: 8/23/2007 5:38:15 PM |
How can I convince him that I have never done that for money
If he already has his mind made up,
you probably can't.
All you can do, is hope that he grows up
enough to execise some basic common
sense.
The poor fool doesn't realize just how lucky
he is to have an S/O openminded enough to
have fun like that. | |
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Posted: 8/23/2007 6:04:49 PM | | Just looked at your profile and I really think he is looking for a reason to argue with you, because you certainly do NOT look like any stripper I have ever seen. No offence. | |
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Posted: 8/23/2007 7:31:41 PM | Um... if he doesn't believe you about this, chances are he just simply doesn't trust you. And it will be the first of many.
Move on. | |
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Posted: 8/23/2007 7:54:38 PM | It's kind of hard to convince someone that you did not do something when you really didn't . . . as, you have no proof to back up something that never happened.
I remember one time in high school, this woman called me and accused me of having an affair with her husband. I was in friggin' high school for crying out loud. I had no clue who she was, who her husband was, or what the heck she was talking about. However, she had a piece of paper with my name and phone number on it that she found in her husband's wallet. It was really hard for me to convince her that I had no clue who her husband was. After I asked her a few questions about her husband, I realized that he worked at the shop where I recently had my tires changed. Turns out the weirdo wrote down all of my personal information off of my work order and kept it in his wallet. Anyway - it wasn't easy convincing this woman that I didn't do something that I . . . had no substantive proof that I didn't do.
I wonder if my boyfriends thought I used to be a prostitute . . . . Hmmmm. Well, if he's just a part-time boyfriend, who gives a hoot what he thinks? I mean, he's not even worthy of full-time status. And anyway - - so what if you did strip for money. Is he the Pope? Tell him to get off of his high-horse and be a prick about more important things. | |
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Posted: 8/23/2007 8:22:11 PM | I had someone argue with me about something slightly similar but because he trusted me and knew I was honest it was quickly dropped.
My X, would have had the same reaction as your part-time partner (this is a new category of SO to me), and there would have been nothing that would convince him differently because he has a poor attitude about women in general which includes the idea that none can be trusted. As another post mentioned, this will be the first of many such confrontations. He will want you to enjoy sex, but if you are too good he will assume that you have been getting tutoring on the side. Good luck, you will be exhausted in a short time. | |
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Posted: 8/23/2007 9:24:17 PM | Dear Valerie:
You've touched my raw nerve with this one...
Do not bother to convince him. Do not waste your time and energy.
Run. Run as fast as you can. (If you can dance, I'm sure you can run).
Oh, please, Valerie, run away from him!
I've known guys like that: you go out of your way to please his senses (naked dancing, striptease, especially good oral, super-sexy lingerie, etc.), and, instead of appreciating it, he asks how many others you've done it for.
I'd rather be single that be with a guy like that!
Guys like that are not worthy spending time with! | |
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Posted: 8/23/2007 9:46:11 PM | I guess the first thing I'd do is delete my profile from this site...since you have a profile up wanting a bad boy and all. It makes it seem like you don't actually have a partner.
But on the upside..this thread will get you lots of attention since you're advertising your skills at dancing nekkid. You go girl. | |
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Posted: 8/23/2007 10:08:42 PM | He sounds like a loser.
Either drop him or say "I haven't done this professionally believe me or not but shut up about it or we're over"
something along those lines. | |
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Posted: 8/23/2007 10:32:16 PM | | I agree with SweetlilNative. Drawthe line and end it if it keeps being an issue. | |
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Posted: 8/24/2007 6:44:54 AM | You are dating a loser. Get rid of him. He should just thank his lucky bleepin stars you were a woman willing to do such thing for him as many women wouldn't do for their man.
Dump him and that'll shut him up. | |
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Posted: 8/24/2007 6:46:31 AM |
Um... if he doesn't believe you about this, chances are he just simply doesn't trust you. And it will be the first of many.
Move on.
QFT | |
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Posted: 8/27/2007 8:16:22 AM | I would tell him to buck it up. I had been thinking about him all day, Watched Jerry
Springer then practiced all day to surprise him. Now sorry fella you blew it not happening again. Oh yeah, Here is all the extra crap you have left at my house | |
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Posted: 8/27/2007 9:31:35 AM |
Just looked at your profile and I really think he is looking for a reason to argue with you, because you certainly do NOT look like any stripper I have ever seen. No offence.
Ahahahaha!!! Prettyinpink FTW! | |
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Posted: 8/27/2007 10:09:38 AM | | maybe he is insecure? I dunno but if you were doing it for me the last thing I'd be thinking of is "hmmmmm did she do this for work before???" And really, even if you had before you met him...so what. | |
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