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Posted: 8/31/2007 9:30:22 PM | I try to contact people on here, I am educated, hard working, have a nice physic and and am a guenuinly good person. I won't ever hurt any one and will go out of my way to help some one but I dont get any, well a couple, of responces and I cant figure it out. I am funny, I love to dance, I dont drink to much, is it my hair( or lack there of)? I want to find my soul mate, if there is such a thing but is it on P O F? Well I am just wondering and if there is any one that can answer this, With honesty, then let me know. | |
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Posted: 9/21/2007 9:52:17 AM | Sorry no anwers, but you seem like a nice guy, just give it time. I think when people first get on these sites they are afraid to talk to people at first.
I feel the same way though, the ones I contact don't seem interested or respond and the ones that contact me obviously didn't read my profile. Want to take me fishing, camping or hiking which is NOT my thing. Or they live to far away to have anything more than a chatting relationship. And I love the profiles where the man is my age (50) looks much older and overweight but wants a woman 22-35, slim trim and sexy. LOL Go figure. 
But I have met a few nice people that I have chatted with or met on dating sites, no love match yet but some new friends. So give it some more time and try some other sights too.
Maybe you can anwer one for me!! 
WHY why why do so many men want someone so much younger than them?
At my age, numbers aren't that important. Wouldn't mind someone within a few years either way, but can't imagine I would have much in common with a 20 year old. Not looking for a boy toy. LOL So? Why??  | |
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Posted: 12/12/2007 9:49:04 PM | | Well, hopefully you are targetting your own age or close to it...coz I know lots of girls my age aren't really ready to settle down yet...and also, I know you may have heard this before...but stop looking. Find a fixation on something else. Find a hobby; better your spiritual self. Take yoga or something to settle your homeostasis. Just chill out and stop ripping your hair out trying to figure this whole love/relationship thing out darling...when the time is right...as much as we hate to admit it...it will come. If you take up something else and find something that amuses you and you enjoy...then you will have passion rather than obsession. Patience is a virtue my friend...hang in there!!! | |
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| And for you Miss Thang hehe
Posted: 12/12/2007 9:57:40 PM | | Sweetheart I just wanted to answer your question based upon my experience. I am 20 yrs old and recently broke up with a guy who was 50. I don't know why why why he broke up with me...he just did. But anyway...I loved our time together...it wasn't like a sex toy thing whatsoever. We had conversation about everything from the moon to franchises and the thirty year difference fascinated us both. We could share memories and the different childhoods and I was most captivated by his mentor behavior. He seemed to want to better my actual self anyway he could. I always always always felt safe with him and he was very easy to talk to. And he was a very wealthy man, but he knew that I would never use him for money and he trusted in me...he knew I was as independant as I could be and wanted to own something of my own...not be indebted to some man all of my life...and that was attractive to him. Then again...he didnt look his age whatsoever lol...maybe early forties late thirties at best...but he was physically fit and had it going on down there if you know what I mean lol. Anyway hope my response was of some help...take care and good luck in finding whatever it is you are looking for! | |
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Posted: 1/6/2008 2:35:22 PM | | I seem to have the same experience - maybe it just takes awhile? I'm going to try to not focus on it so much - they (whoever "they" is) say that you will find someone when you least expect it - when you are not looking... Who knows? And I don't think that the lack of hair bothers most women at all.... I've found several men attractive, and their follicular state had nothing to do with it. When I read profiles of men, I look for a balance between the touchy-feely (but not too wussy), and the self-confident and masculine (but not conceited and arrogant). I don't know whom you've contacted or what's been said, but maybe try re-writing your profile? I did that a couple of times and it helped a little..... Good luck and if you find the answer, by all means, share it with the rest of us! | |
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Posted: 1/19/2008 1:57:52 PM | | If you would like a profile review I would be glad to give you one. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2008 10:32:04 PM | have a nice physic
Perhaps they are not into the sciences.
^^BG^^ | |
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Posted: 12/12/2008 5:24:59 PM | I wish I could answer your question there OP, then I would have my own answer as well. Try this one, 2 messages in 3 months. None returned that have been sent out, when they where kind and included points of common interest stated in thier profile.
Like you, not sure if this is the correct venue or not. Good luck. | |
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Posted: 12/23/2008 10:20:45 AM | Perhaps you should put your profile and your post in the Profile Review section. I'm lost as to why you are posting in a Kansas forum, if you are from Texas, and only a person within 75 miles can email you...
Wouldn't you think that's a little odd? Not to mention hard to accomplish. In limiting your dating radius, you severely limit your pool of potential mates.
The other thing I noticed in reading your profile was WAY too much DRAMA!!! First impressions are always the most important. Maybe you need to post a pic of you doing something you enjoy, so people can actually see the spark you speak of, and then instead of all that negative thrown into your profile, DX it and put some nice stuff in there, about who you are, where you plan to be in the future, what hobbies you have etc...
I think you'd find a better response if you'd open up more rather than posting a profile that sounds like a child throwing a temper tantrum...
CowTrucker
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Posted: 12/23/2008 10:26:33 AM | I just wanted to say, TennKan, your profile is GREAT!!! You do a great job of painting a picture of who you are, what you like to do, and what moves your heart...
Perhaps in your situation, the problem either lies in the who that you are picking, or in what you are saying in your first messages...
Other than that, Excellent profile!!!
CowTrucker
Chapman, Kansas | |
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