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 ***Mac***

Joined: 10/13/2006
Msg: 1
do u listen to peoples advise
Posted: 9/18/2007 12:52:46 PM
when someone is giving u advise do u listen to it serously or do u make your own mind up any way. i have quiet a strong persinality and always do what i think any way . do you or do u listen. i will try honestley lol pmsl
 Miss_stevie_G

Joined: 3/30/2006
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Posted: 9/18/2007 12:55:24 PM
I great at giving advice and i`m very eager to help if i can, but not very good at taking my own advice, in fact as you say i just suit myself and do what i thinks right


 oxxx||========>

Joined: 10/19/2005
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Posted: 9/18/2007 12:55:57 PM

when someone is giving u advise do u listen to it serously or do u make your own mind up any way. i have quiet a strong persinality and always do what i think any way . do you or do u listen. i will try honestley lol pmsl


Ok, my first bit of advice would be do a thread search before posting new topics, things like why do nice guys finish last, and looks or personality, have been to death!

OT - i listen to advice when i ask for it.
 NatashaWallis

Joined: 3/26/2007
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Posted: 9/18/2007 1:05:31 PM
Ok, my first bit of advice would be do a thread search before posting new topics, things like why do nice guys finish last, and looks or personality, have been to death!




^^^^^ yep follow the advice of our esteemed friend above. It would have been my advice too - it helps if you can read the rules which are at the top of the UK Forum section.

Kindest Regards

KQ

EDIT: VVVV certainly not a team leader but your thread was about advice so I thought I would suggest the reading of the rules so you will not be so upset if your other threads were to be deleted either by member plebiscite or by the Mods. Glad something makes you chuckle though it puzzles me what gave you a giggle fit.
 ***Mac***

Joined: 10/13/2006
Msg: 5
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Posted: 9/18/2007 1:07:10 PM
thanks kq are you a team leader on here. thanks for your advise lol pmsl
 short n ugly

Joined: 7/29/2007
Msg: 6
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Posted: 9/18/2007 1:21:08 PM

do u listen to peoples advise


absolutely

yesterday i took all my savings out of northern rock.
this morning my next door neighbour who smells of cats and shouts at the moon told me to put my cash into the robert maxwell pension fund.......so this afternoon i did!


thanks kq are you a team leader on here.


with airbags like yours honey i'll follow your lead anywhere
 sprite57

Joined: 1/25/2007
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Posted: 9/18/2007 1:24:08 PM
Sometimes, if I need help, but I'll usually ask for it. I dont like being given advice that I feel I dont need.
 salster2004

Joined: 7/15/2006
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Posted: 9/18/2007 1:26:56 PM
I always listen to peoples advice, but its not very often I actually do as they've advised.

I'm great at giving advice to others too usually - but I rarely do as I've advised myself! lol. Oh well - maybe one day I'll learn! lol.
 Fierce Fish

Joined: 4/19/2007
Msg: 9
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Posted: 9/18/2007 1:40:36 PM
when someone is giving u advise do u listen to it serously or do u make your own mind up any way.


If i didnt ask for their advice i wont listen to it... unless its the same as what i've already decided is correct.. otherwise they're wrong.
 socialjustice

Joined: 5/28/2007
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Posted: 9/18/2007 2:19:52 PM
If i didnt ask for their advice i wont listen to it... unless its the same as what i've already decided is correct.. otherwise they're wrong.


even if its sound advice from someone who may know a little better?

id advice you to be more open minded, but you maybe wouldnt listen o fierce one. lol.

 lilxcx

Joined: 4/20/2007
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Posted: 9/18/2007 3:22:30 PM
I will CONSIDER it,depending on the person,then useually go and do my own thing,regardless,and then think "damn,i shoulda listened to him/her".
But thats the only way to learn really,making your own mistakes.
 Milly-Molly

Joined: 10/12/2006
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Posted: 9/18/2007 3:28:03 PM
I am very good at giving advice (and luckily it is usually sound) but sadly I am not too good at taking others advice on board. I usually like to trust my own instincts. However I may be changing this as it appears others are far more sensible than me
 ClockworkMonkey

Joined: 6/28/2007
Msg: 13
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Posted: 9/18/2007 5:29:49 PM
An ex of someone I was dating tried to give me some advise, which I mistook for her being jealous! Big mistake! She turned out to be spot on and this guy has moved on to his next conquest. I'd love to advise her but somehow think she'd react in the same way as I did
I'm pretty good at listening to advise but always make my own mind up in the end and don't blame people if I have chosen to head their advise to my detriment, at the end of the day the final choice was mine
 *Goodgirlgonebad*

Joined: 6/18/2007
Msg: 14
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Posted: 9/18/2007 5:35:44 PM
I will sit there and hear them out......will i actually listen ? Hell no im terrible i do things my way.
 xxOff My Rockerxx

Joined: 1/13/2007
Msg: 15
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Posted: 9/18/2007 11:03:40 PM
I will listen and then decide if I'm going to take heed or just do my own thing as usual
My friends tell me I'm a good listener and a good advisor and have often helped them in making decisions in their lives.
 mike bradly

Joined: 11/26/2006
Msg: 16
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Posted: 9/19/2007 12:47:40 AM
Advice should be what we us to mould our actions not to govern them, it's always sensible to listen to what is said and even better still to listen to the explanation at how they reach that point of view, sadly the person giving it can't fully appreciate your history and feelings so they can't give 100% accurate advice, thats where you put the finishing touches to the point of view, then accept responsibility for your action.
As for me personally I'm all male, never listen to whats being said or so people think.
 nippysweetie

Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 17
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Posted: 9/19/2007 2:16:55 AM
It would depend on who was giving the advice, if it was coherent, well founded in fact and correctly spelled i would most certainly listen,

i find that my friends generally listen when i ADVISE them on a matter
 ~Student Nurse~

Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 18
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Posted: 9/19/2007 2:18:28 AM
I give fantasic advice........................

But so so good at taking it, i'm afraid!!
 ***Mac***

Joined: 10/13/2006
Msg: 19
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Posted: 9/19/2007 3:56:36 AM
It would depend on who was giving the advice, if it was coherent, well founded in fact and correctly spelled i would most certainly listen,

Me too . btw "spelled" should be "SPELT" in the way of your wording tut tut lol pmsl lmfao
 ~fiesty~angel~

Joined: 8/12/2007
Msg: 20
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Posted: 9/19/2007 4:14:55 AM
I have learned to seek out advice when in trouble or conflict in my life. Do I always take the advice given, no...I weigh out what is happening to what advice is given and go from there...but I don't just ask one person I will ask a few.

I am also very strong willed and like to do what I want to do so I don't like when people give me unsolicited advice, then mmm 9 times out of 10 it is ignored even if it may have been great advice!


fiesty
 eattherich

Joined: 3/15/2007
Msg: 21
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Posted: 9/19/2007 4:16:03 AM
I only listen to my own advice, as I know it is unbiased and generally correct,


by the way msg 19 as a matter of interest both spellings are correct and acceptable, spelled is the definitive way of spelling the word as can be confirmed by both the Oxford and Cambridege dictionaries, but a lot of people use spelt, this was added in the last 20 years as is usual with misspelled words which by osmosis somehow become accepted into the English language.
 Glasvegas30

Joined: 5/10/2007
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Posted: 9/19/2007 4:39:47 AM
She spelled and phrased it correctly. You can use either spelled or spelt in that sentence. 'Spelled' is more polite.
 tequila~rose

Joined: 4/8/2007
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Posted: 9/19/2007 7:12:14 AM
I usually know what im gonna do before I ask for an opinion, and I generally follow my own advise. The only prob is I cant blame others if it all goes wrong lol
 Fierce Fish

Joined: 4/19/2007
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Posted: 9/19/2007 10:41:33 AM

even if its sound advice from someone who may know a little better?


Surely there is not anybody who knows better than me


id advice you to be more open minded, but you maybe wouldnt listen o fierce one. lol.


And i'd advice you to try it for yourself o socialjustice
 ~~Posh4~~

Joined: 6/21/2005
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Posted: 9/19/2007 10:53:19 AM
I only listen to the ones that agree with me..
At the end of the day, if I make a mistake, I want it to be my mistake, otherwise the idiot that gave me said advice, that caused me to make the mistake, had better steer clear ..
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