| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 9/20/2007 8:47:37 AM | Would you date a bi-sexual women?
This does not mean that she's going to invite girlfriends into the bedroom, still an exlusive relationship, and there would be no-threesomes involved.
Why or Why Not? | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 9/20/2007 9:15:25 AM | | No. How could it be an "exlusive" [sic] relationship (I'll take that you mean exclusive as opposed to elusive)? How happy would a true bi-sexual person be in a monogamous relationship? I have enough trouble figuring out heterosexual women much less trying to sort out the needs and complexities that a bisexual partner must have. | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 9/20/2007 9:24:51 AM | | Would you search for a thread about whether men would date a bisexual woman? Why or why not? I did and found six. I used the words "bisexual woman". | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 9/20/2007 9:30:53 AM | The entire “concept” of two girls going at it - is for some a turn on. Not me.
Watching a gal ......... um playing with herself > hot
Watching a gal play with another gal > not hot | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 9/20/2007 9:50:25 AM | Wow, you guys all seem threatened...
I have dated bi chicks before, no big deal, I would LTR with one if I had feelings for her.
Bi women just seem to be more comfortable in their skin and more confident in their sexuality.
Ladies, if you are bi and you are afraid to tell guys, because you think they will view you negatively, there are just as many men that will approve, the key is, you need to be yourself to be happy, if you are bi-curious, go out there and find out, open that door and be proud of who you are no matter who that turns out to be, there will be someone to share your life with no matter who you are. | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 9/20/2007 10:38:35 AM | Apologies for spelling, typing is not my strongest subject.
As for serching for threads on bisexual women I did that and came up with 2, one from the UK where there are possibly different views (men from UK welcome to give input) and one pretaining to whether bi-sexual women look for different qualities in men. Using "bisexual women and bi-sexual women"
What I wanted to know is how many men out there would be threatened, or uncomfortable with the idea or who wouldn't be bothered at all. In a relationship that is monogomous. What is the definition of monogamous?
Well according to dictionary dot com:
mo·nog·a·my (mə-nŏg'ə-mē) Pronunciation Key
n.
The practice or condition of having a single sexual partner during a period of time.
The practice or condition of being married to only one person at a time.
The practice of marrying only once in a lifetime.
So does this not mean that a bi-sexual women could very well be monogamous? | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 9/20/2007 12:25:58 PM | | No reason not to, a heterosexual partner doesn't run around having sex with every man she can find when she's dating you, I don't see why someone being bi would suddenly cause this behavior. You're committing to a person in a relationship, not a set of genitals. | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 9/20/2007 1:01:12 PM | I only date women. What their particular sexuality is, is of no importance to me. Bi or straight, she's still a woman.
Oh, and I'm from the UK. | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 9/20/2007 1:17:16 PM |
I don't see why someone being bi would suddenly cause this behavior
bi people don't seem to know which side of the fence they belong on....making it hard for then to pick a side.......at best they are high risk.... 
of course that's just my 2¢ | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 9/20/2007 1:48:01 PM | OK….bi people will change frequency…..and are still hi risk….no matter what you call it!!!!!
Fell better now!!!!!! | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 9/20/2007 2:24:20 PM |
OK….bi people will change frequency…..and are still hi risk….no matter what you call it!!!!!
Where do you get that idea from? First and formost to answer the OP's question. Yes I would and I have dated bi-sexual women. Second bi people will not "change frequency or frequently". If you are having and exclusive and monogamous relationship then they are with you. They are just generally more open and comfortable with themselves and their sexuality and thats about it.
If you are talking about what they did before they get into a relationship with you... they are no more or less at risk then anyone else. Any person you have an intimate relationship with bi gay or hetero is as vulnerable as the number of partners they have had have had. If your the first or second relationship hey your lucky and your risks are low. If you're beyond that your odds of safety fall fast. But thats a numbers game and its pointless. If you are basing your relationships purely on sexual risk your not looking for a relationship which is what dating is about.
If you are talking about a non monogamous relationship well thats another matter and I'm not here to say for you one way or the other. I can say for myself my rules are always the same no matter straight or bi, be honest with me I will be honest with you. | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 9/20/2007 3:16:51 PM | | Whether someone is bi has nothing to do with if they're a cheater or not. There's straight, gay, and bi cheaters and there's non-cheaters in all the catagories too. All bi means is that you might not be the same gender as their previous or next partner. I've dated bi chicks in the past and have no problems with it. | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 9/20/2007 3:40:43 PM |
So does this not mean that a bi-sexual women could very well be monogamous?
Then the women would no longer be truly bisexual, would she? She would then be heterosexual in practice and perhaps bisexual in preference. A lot depends on how one wants to split hairs with the definition of monogamy. Would an actively bisexual woman be happy in a monogamous relationship or even seek one out? Also how are you defining 'date'? If you mean simple meetings with no expectations of establishing a long term emotional relationship (hanging out, friendship, or brief intimacy), then I would date a bisexual woman. If you mean dating for the goal of potentially forming a long term relationship, then absolutely not.
As far as the person who suggested that men who wouldn't date a bisexual woman are insecure, I wouldn't state that categorically. To blithely make such a statement indicates a fairly shallow look at things. I know what I want out of a relationship, and the extra emotional/sexual baggage that a bisexual woman would bring to the mix is not something I want in a partner. I'm not looking for a quickie, nor am I seeking to get into a project to change someone over completely in terms of sexual mindset. I'm comfortable with my preferences and it isn't difficult to find a young lady who feels the same. Why add the extra baggage when one doesn't have to? I'm happy to leave those with a preference or attraction for bisexuality to sort things out amongst themselves. No need for me to be involved. | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 9/20/2007 3:55:10 PM | I would. I have no problem with that, but we'd have to reach some kind of understanding about boundaries if it were to become serious.
That said, one of our best friends married a bisexual woman a few years ago. They just had their first child, and things are going well. Apparently some people have some negative stereotypes to overcome, but I guess that's their right. | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 9/20/2007 4:54:15 PM | I have dated a few bi chicks. One liked to watch me have sex with her girlfriends. Another didn't like it if I had sex with her girlfriends (but it didn't stop me LOL).
Sure, I date one again. | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 9/20/2007 5:58:38 PM | | It's not my bag baby.. Any woman I’m and going to get serious with I want her and only her. I feel it is destructive to any relationship | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 9/20/2007 8:19:21 PM |
Would you date a bi-sexual women?
As long as it is a monogamous relationship why would it it matter if some of her past "boyfriends" had no dangly-bits? | |
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| Would you date a Bi-sexual women?
Posted: 9/20/2007 8:22:08 PM | | Heck yes... and have. Who gives a toss WHO she slept with and is attracted to? If she's out on a date with me... she digs ME. If we choose to have a relationship and stay exclusive beyond that, it's just people she dated in the past, anyway. | |
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