| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 7:29:17 AM | Reasonable question. Any reasonable answers?
On the one hand they DO WANT to show their sexuality and impress the guy, on the other they get offended. Do they see it as natural if the guy DOESNT stare at their breasts? And Im not talking about a 15 sec stare, Im talking about a 2 second stare. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 7:37:20 AM | As far as I,m concerned if a woman put ups pictures showing breasts and being in suggestive poses then they are crying out for attention and saying look at me. So they shouldnt get offended if they get started at. Get over it girls , if you gonna behave like a hoe then take what comes with it. End of  | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 7:53:57 AM | thats is a crazy question and no matter how you answer it will be wrong lol 
i was standing at a bus stop a few years back in abbey street in dublin reading a book while waiting for my bus
this girl walked pasted me, then i noticed here walking past me the other way
this happened a few times until i took my head out of the book to look at her
when this happened she tutted as if to say what u looking at
all i could do was laugh  | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 8:44:17 AM | I for one prefer not to show off my assets but sometimes it is out of my control depending on what I wear and I do not wear low or tight fitting clothes. I refuse to wear a snow suit so sometimes guys look. Depends on my mood if it annoys me or not, and usually the type of guy looking as well.  | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 8:48:27 AM | If your going to stare or just admire, be sure to make eye contact at least once and at least say HI!! LOL What is there to get upset by, guys are guys and will look even if you aren't showing cleavage.  If your showing some cleavage, it saves them from having to strain so hard to see right?!?! Isnt there better things to worry about rather than getting upset because a guy is starring at your breast? I've had guys tell me I shouldn't be conservative, that I need to show cleavage, because it makes for a good day, so its like a no win situation! And the guys that know I have tattoos, will ask if they can see my tattoos, just so they can see cleavage! Other women think you are a hoe when you show cleavage and guys get upset not seeing it! | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 8:56:06 AM | It's just part of the game, dude. There are places where it's not only "ok" to stare, but they promote it (as long as you have $$$ to stuff someplace)..
Here's the other half of the game : one comes along and after staring you notice she is motioning you to come over and check it out a little closer - and you split thinking "that ho"..
Isn't life grand... | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 9:02:19 AM | Any woman who sticks out their breasts/shows too much cleveage, has sexually provoking pics and puckers/licks their lips in their pic and then says "I hate you pervs. stop staring at me you creeps!!" is a progression of thumb sucking. Their mental reeks of s**t and their personality needs a diaper change. move on.
Same goes for guys who have pics of themselves with their shirt off flexing muscles in a mirror then get upset when they are shot down because they look like "playas". move on.
both sides don't have much conversation skills anyway. you get what you attract. change your bait if you can't handle it. | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 9:09:01 AM | to cupids chokehold....
Oh my god. my stomach turns when women call other women Hoes. You have a man in your profile with lots of man boobs showing. What is he called....Hunky? Muscular? Manly? Studmuffin? Women...if you are going to celebrate your cleavage and show it be prepared for glances and comments and sadly be prepared for other women to judge you and slap judgemental labels on you. There is clevage and there is clevage. There is bending over in your profile to say hey look down my blouse cleavage...want some of this. And if that is what you want go for it...just don't complain. There is I am wearing a top that has a scooped neck and I have half an inch of cleavage. It does not mean you are a Hoe. What about men that walk around cutting the grass without shirts on. Maybe the next time I see my next door neighbour cutting his grass without his shirt on, I will pull up a lawnchair stare and make comments. Oooo baby nice man boobs wanna go back to my place ...and trim my bushes and bring your garden hose..... Really!
I am going to go outside in my tank top right now and do some gardening and I have some cleavage exposed I hope my neighbours don't think I am asking for sex. Especially the 79 year old one. Even though it is 85 F maybe I should put on my turtle neck. My next bathing suit will have to cover my ample cleavage as well. Oh my goodness I just realized I have toe cleavage. I better put on my hiking boots because some men have feet fetishes and I wouldn't want to be called a foot hoe. Hmmmmsome men love hair and it drives them wild....maybe I should cut my hair...wouldn't want to be a hair hoe. Some are leg men... get my point! Maybe burkas are the way to go
(I will read and challenge you...don't need more hateful comments about our own sex..that is why this is called a forum p.s. I don't suffer fools gladly either) | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 9:29:03 AM | Some pretty interesting answers to this question.. my favorite mr. dynomite's. In particular, "You get what you attract. Change your bait if you can't handle it".
So true!!
Still, for the sake of balance.. I think it's the type of looking that bothers a lot of women.. I for one detest being stared at, but enjoy looking nice! Hmm.. shouldn't be a crime! I've noticed however that the guys who stare and are offensive act as if they have a right and a staring license and a woman is supposed to take it as a compliment if she's being stared at in a filthy manner, when in fact it's an insult. Further, guys like that stare no matter what I'm wearing, and in just the same (disgusting) manner! Ya know, the whole undressing you look, either way!
So, my rule of thumb.. dress appropriately for the place (I don't think POF profiles are an appropriate place to show off the assets unless the gals or guys are just advertising themselves for exploits.. why seek something real with something that provokes only one night stands?) and dress comfortably for season, temperature etc.
I dress for my own comfort whenever possible. Truly, if a man is going to look at a woman like an object whatever she's wearing he's clearly someone I would never be interested in or enjoy spending any time with.
On the other hand there are men who are gentlemen! I recently met a wonderful man from POF.. he looked with respect, didn't stare.. when we talked about the visit later he complimented my appearance wonderfully so apparently he noticed! He's definately someone I'm looking forward to spending more time with!
Take notes guys.. showing some respect goes a long way!  | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 9:29:36 AM |  Last time I knew a "hoe" was a garden tool, but maybe I am wrong, since I have breasts and maybe once in awhile show cleavage, I am now considered a "hoe". What about guys that have big man boobs, and women look at their "cleavage" are they hoes to? Guys do you get upset when we look at your cleavage and not your "package"? I get kinda jealous when I see guys with bigger boobs than me!
what about guys that purposely grab their crotch to "readjust", in front of you? That is their way of getting your attention to look at their package. That or the sock they are using trying to make themself look bigger is falling. LOL!! Its life, get used to it, if you dont like cleavage than dont look! | |
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| Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts?
Posted: 9/23/2007 9:35:59 AM | | those that are making remarks about my hoe comment. ( its an american term by the way- used widely by the likes of people on ricki lake etc ) are all getting me wrong. I mean women on pics with next to nothing on in suggestive poses licking lips, legs open etc that is behaving like a hoe ( ok i spelt it wrong) . nothing wrong with some boobs showing if it cant be helped. I have a large pair myself which are hard to hide. so no need for all the sarcastic remarks people. we dont act like that around these parts | |
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