| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/14/2005 12:10:44 PM | i have a question for the REAL MEN. why do men only tend to go for dating the "good looking prima donna barbie doll type?" it seems that guys tend to look a picture and base their whole wanting or not wanting to be someone based on physical apperance. a girl could have a beautiful face, great personality, had have her head on straight, but if she has a litl bit bigger ass than a size 8 you guys run and dart and lable her as the perfect "sister or bestfriend" so why date something that will fade in time and not date something that will always be there....that is the beauty inside a person.........help me out with this one. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/14/2005 12:20:01 PM | | not sure...i mean i have seen it happen soo many times... a guy dates a good looking girl... and not saying all good looking woman are like this..i know there are some pretty ones who are really terrific people...however we all know the types... the drama queens...the want me want me and then i leave you for something better.. we all know the types.... so why do guys go for them? anyone ever heard that song "if you want to be happy for the rest of your life,get ugly girl to marry you" lol. i wouldn't say i'm ugly. i have a pretty face and great personality...but since i'm a thicker chick..most guys look at profile or e-mail and delete it and pass it along.. WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU GUYS LOOKING FOR THEN??? damn not all of us had the privledge of being born small.. some of us had to go through surgies to go from 403lb to 180. i even watch football for the love of god.lol | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/14/2005 12:20:02 PM | Hmmmm.... I've never sought out or ended up with the "Barbie doll" types, ....still, I've been burned.
....I haven't noticed that looks make a difference at all in regards to "inner beauty", ....and especially in regards to "nasty-ness".
My current love, is probably the slimmest, shortest ..... and prettiest yet, of any women I've had relationships with.
......She is also the most understanding, honest, smartest, caring, unselfish, and most eloquent of any of the women I've known, .......that's what "caught" me....
Her aspect is also beautiful, ....to me though? This is not about her dimensions, or closeness of them to any Madison Ave. ideal ....... it just is. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/14/2005 12:25:36 PM | I date a woman for thier mind.....if they can't keep up with the coversation then I have no interest in wanting to be with them. Ask anyone here that knows me.....I never stop talking.
As for eye candy hanging around a guys neck I think most guys like it as it makes them look good.
What most plastic barbies got to keep in mind is there's no make up out there that can defy gravity. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/14/2005 12:33:16 PM | | see..... and that is what cracks me up about men...they say woman are too worried about how they look, and what people think of them......hell....most level headed woman don't. i don't care what others think about me.. like me or not i'm me. i'm a bigger girl... just means more of me to love and to put towards loving someone else......damn it cracks me up how vain and shallow my generation of guys are....not sterotyping all of them..but the majority. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/14/2005 12:38:58 PM | | @biz...... then you are just the type of guy i'm talking about. it's all good in theory " oh looks don't matter, it's about her mind, and yada yada" but when it comes down to it..........no deal. that's what cracks me up right there. not wanting to put you on the spot hun you just happend to validate my point is all. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/14/2005 12:40:54 PM | I think given the choice men want it all, good looks, personality, wit charm, the whole shebang. If we are doing a search for women in our area say, and we get however many hundred matches, we will of course start doing a quick sort, discarding women that may not be as attractive to us physically. Once we have the list narrowed down we can start looking for the other qualities that are attractive to us. The hope being of course that one of the hot babes will have everything we are looking for.
If it turns out that our search yielded too few results, we expand a bit and start looking through the forums or reading other details.
It also helps to remember that some of us probably signed up here when we had a boner at work and rather than ignore it and be good employees, we decided to waste some time and see if this internet dating thing could be an easy sex fix. Ahem... (that's hypothetical in case my boss is reading... I'm still on schedule and stuff  )
Naturally just being bored and killing time doesn't really instill a lot of serious intent into our searches and "real women" will be ignored in search of something that is titillating like porn, but less likely to get us fired. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/14/2005 12:43:19 PM |
damn it cracks me up how vain and shallow my generation of guys are....not sterotyping all of them..but the majority.
This can hold true for either gender, ....of any generation......
Thankfully, ...we are only looking for "one", .....not a majority. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/14/2005 12:44:34 PM | "so are you saying you would date and maybe become interested in a woman
who is say 5 foot and weighs 300 lbs?"
This statement is what some would consider at "Strawman Fallacy"
In actuality, no man in his right mind would date someone that would require her to use a "Hoverround" to transport her. lol | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/14/2005 12:45:19 PM | | i personally don't like the barbie-doll type. but, i don't like overly "chunky" either. someone with a little meat on her bones is excellent, and personality goes a long way...but i need to be physically attracted to her first. size doesn't matter, but there are many other things that do. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/14/2005 12:45:33 PM | @stephanie23
Here's the deal.....a bit on the heavy side is fine as long as she can keep up. If a person doesn't take care of ones self on the outside it just shows what's on the inside.
I've been down this road and I've see how her and all her large friends were. They honestly didn't care about being a large Marge even though they knew it was destroying thier health.
Killing ones self with food is something that I don't want to be around. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/14/2005 12:50:06 PM | You very seldom find a man who doesn't think he's a stud...It's the D!CK...
Men have a very strong self image and many times see themselves much better than what they really are ... Women tend to think less of themselves and most times can't see there own beauty...why this is I don't have a clue! There are more good men your age than mine.... they haven't been ruined YET !
Steph...your a beautiful woman! | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/14/2005 12:51:32 PM | @redress
biz likes them any way he can get them........
seriously, he likes a healthy, active women....
hard to go for a 4 hour hike if you're obese or not in good health
then after the hike you have to be able to drink a case between home and the shower...
followed by intense activity right after.....
@biz.....all in fun honey!!! | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/14/2005 12:53:58 PM | thats what I figured
Is is safe to say you are interested in a womans mind
IF
she first meets your physical requirements?
instead of saying you are interested in a womans mind?
I am just trying to understand :) | |
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