| | Profle....Good or Bad???Page 1 of 1 | I would like some help in developing a really good profile. Seems the one I'm using is not catching any fish...I thought it too be well thought out, but I'm not sure....
What can I change???
Thanks in advance for all your help! | |
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| Profle....Good or Bad???
Posted: 10/6/2007 11:20:14 AM | Hi Who Me
Pics??? Not sure if the one with you sticking your tongue out should be your main profile pic. Its cute for sure, but not sure its the first one you want the guys to see....I noticed a few pics you have that are lets say a little more sexy..why not try one of those..however I am always skeptical about the type of men you may attract when you show a little skin...but see if another pic works for you..
You have some great stuff in the body of your profile...I would wonder how many men would actually finish reading it tho? I actually think you have been thoughtful and articulate in your profile, maybe someone else here can give you some better feedback than what I have to offer...
Best wishes in your search
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| Profle....Good or Bad???
Posted: 10/6/2007 11:25:11 AM | | I do change out the pics all the time...however, I will change the main one again... | |
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| Profle....Good or Bad???
Posted: 10/6/2007 2:30:51 PM | I agree that the pic of you sticking your tongue out doesn't make a good main picture. Other than that I think your profile is great. I find it hard to believe that only 3 guys have put you on their favorite list... Are you removing them?
Maybe I'm not the type of guy you want to be attracting, but if I lived closer to Incognito (lol, I know what it means) I would try to contact you, even with our age difference. | |
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| Profle....Good or Bad???
Posted: 10/6/2007 6:01:53 PM | | I think some of the pictures you have could attract the wrong people as others have noted. I think you are really descriptive on your personality and what you are looking for in your profile, but it may be too much for some people to read. Some guys may think that you are too picky just by glancing at your profile and seeing all of that stuff you have there, even if you don't really have a lot of expectations in there. | |
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| Profle....Good or Bad???
Posted: 10/8/2007 6:50:27 AM | | What would you consider I change....I've looked at my profile and not sure how to re-word without losing much of me. | |
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| Profle....Good or Bad???
Posted: 10/8/2007 7:29:53 AM | | Your profile is very well written and tells a lot about who you are, what you are like, what you value and what you seek. Most of the profiles that women write here drive me nuts - they are so short as to be useless. If you write a long profile then you are probably most interested in people who have the sense and ability and intelligence to write long profiles and they will prove themselves by having written their own communicative, meaty profiles. Best of all your profile is actually easy to reply to because there is so much in there on which to comment and generate communication. You might want to add MORE to your profile, but don't shorten it or deviate from your concept. Do you really want a guy who doesn't think like you when it comes to writing a profile???? It's not the number of messages you get -- it's the quality that counts. Sincerely. | |
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| Profle....Good or Bad???
Posted: 10/8/2007 9:19:42 AM | Keep pic 3 & 5 - pictures on the bed don't belong in a profile stating a desire for long term. Sure you'll get a lot of views and responses but probably not the type you want.
Florida has mountains? | |
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| Profle....Good or Bad???
Posted: 10/8/2007 9:45:19 AM | I like your profile. You have some good pictures in there and your "About Me" description is quite clear and well written. I have to agree that the "bedroom" pictures may give some the wrong idea but you can use that as a gauge to help weed out the U-Know-Whats. The only thing I would change is "IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHERE INCOGNITO IS....we are probably not a good match!!" line and shift it down to just before "Buona Fortuna ~ Ciao". Starting off a profile with a Negative kinda presets dome people.
Sadly, you are far away and in another country, otherwise I'd contact you myself.
I wish you the Best of Luck in your fishing expedition. Remember, finding the right fish can take some time and sometimes the right one is found in the most unusual places. | |
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Chasem
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| Profle....Good or Bad???
Posted: 10/8/2007 9:56:04 AM | Hi Who.me
You have a pretty smile, I would use that to your advantage as your main picture.
I would imagine your first two pictures are going to attract the sharks. | |
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Who.Me
| | Joined: 8/26/2007
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| Profle....Good or Bad???
Posted: 10/8/2007 10:22:11 AM | worldsworstdater:
The pics are not taken on a bed...I am actually on a chair....I did hide one of them however.
No lorida doesn't have mountains, but I live few hours from the Smokey Mountains and originally from NY.... | |
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Who.Me
| | Joined: 8/26/2007
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Who.Me
| | Joined: 8/26/2007
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| Profle....Good or Bad???
Posted: 10/10/2007 11:29:05 AM | ok...I changed my pics, but still not getting any responses.
Do I give up? or be more patient??? | |
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| Profle....Good or Bad???
Posted: 10/10/2007 2:16:00 PM | Patience girl..give it time......unless you feel you have exhausted your options in your local area....the other thing to consider....your such a cutey the guys are too nervous to approach you, assuming you would not be interested in them..I know its lame but it happens all the time to nice looking gals like yourself...
Keep smiling....
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| Profle....Good or Bad???
Posted: 10/10/2007 2:36:59 PM | | hehehe, not catching a good fish lol! I will give you a little insite to a men who understand about being a man. Lets see when I was 17 girls that wher 17 want boys that where 20. So boys that where 17 had to wait until they where 20 before they started getting the girls (and boy did they come :) ... so now the boys that are good looking at20 and are real men will always get the younger women until they die, this is caused by human nature. So you might want to move your age basket to about 38 to 52. I think this wouild be the best for you if you are real real real looking for a man forever:) | |
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| Profle....Good or Bad???
Posted: 10/10/2007 3:31:12 PM | Hmmm, that's kind of odd if you aren't getting attention. I liked both your pics and profile. You're very attractive. You seem positive, healthy, real and not conceited which is big. I'd say you're getting responses, just not from the people you want perhaps. Stay patient, that one will catch a good man's eye.
BTW, where in incognito? | |
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Who.Me
| | Joined: 8/26/2007
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| Profle....Good or Bad???
Posted: 10/10/2007 5:45:48 PM | Crashingchloe - thanks for your nice compliments. Your right about men not approaching me. I go to parties and the same thing happens....I am happy, friendly, outgoing but men stay away....
Edlandlord - what is the difference between 49 and 52? 3 years....I don't want to date someone in their 50's....not yet!!!!
dsfinpa - No, I don't get responses....most men I approach don't even bother. I am probably going after the wrong men. Someone told me that I like the whole package. What's wrong with that? However, what I consider the whole package and my friend considers the whole package are two entirely different things.
Incognito is not a place....
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| Profle....Good or Bad???
Posted: 10/10/2007 6:58:10 PM | | I don't care for your main profile picture. It screams out click me to see what sexy pose I'm in -- but I think you may be getting more curiosity seekers. Try the one of you sitting at the table. | |
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Who.Me
| | Joined: 8/26/2007
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