| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 5/15/2005 9:45:44 AM | | would you have sex on a first date?why or why not? | |
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| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 5/15/2005 9:48:30 AM | | i would, bc im a big girl and if i want something real bad... i do everything i can to get it... even if its on the first date... | |
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Posted: 5/15/2005 9:53:18 AM | | Yep, have and would again if it felt right. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2005 10:56:11 AM | | been there done that....and would again if it felt right :) | |
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| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 5/15/2005 11:12:36 AM | Sure, if it felt right. I mean, the mood, the timing, not the sex. Although if sex itself doesn't feel good, do not have it again!
Although, in my experience, guys will not respect you if you do. Won't want you long term. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2005 11:18:46 AM | That's how I lost my virginity. I'm still looking for it . . . . . . I think she took it with her when she left.
Oh well. Maybe it'll turn up somewhere,  | |
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Posted: 5/15/2005 11:37:56 AM | | no not true mainegrad, maybe in your experience they won't want long term but generally they fall in love, most men are suckers for that stuff. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2005 11:57:38 AM | This threads been up before.
Yes I would and have on most occations had sex on the first date. If two people are comfortable with each other by the end of the date and know there will be a next date and a next then why wait till the next time or the time after. Most of the one's I have had sex on first date I ended up spending much time with. I respect them and love them dearly. There all my friends still and I think that by haveing sex with them it sealed our friendship for life. | |
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| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 5/15/2005 11:59:21 AM | Welcome new people.
Please read this thread and do thread searches to see if your topic is already in discussion:
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts827133.aspx
There are four about this topic already:
)How far would you go on the first date....4 pages
)Is sleeping on a first date right or wrong....3 pages
)Mind games: sex on the first date.....6 pages
)Sex and the first date......3 pages | |
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Posted: 5/15/2005 12:01:53 PM | I have done it...maybe a few too many times.
I would rather take my time to get to know someone...but sometimes, passion overwhelmes you!
-Michael | |
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Posted: 5/15/2005 12:05:02 PM | | never. very bad on relations. i got a failsave system built in. very nervous at first and can never get a boner. was a problem when i was younger. i now quite open about it now. tell my date at first moment of meeting. remove lots of stress for both of us. i can tease the hell out of her with not pressure of having to live up to it. | |
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| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 5/15/2005 12:37:51 PM | i wouldn't have sex on the first date because i like to get to know the guy first. I like to know that he likes me forme and just doesn't want to get into my pants... thats my opinion....
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Posted: 5/15/2005 12:45:41 PM | Only if I were pole vaulting....I'd run as fast as I could....dig the end of the pole in as hard as I could...and arch my body over for a soft landing hopefully...the higher you go the more scary...
Kids appreciate it. haahahhaha
Did Bill Clinton do that to curry favor from constituents hahahahh (must have and keep relationship with them in loving spoonfuls... ;) ) Not everyweekend mind..you that called sport effing or notching or something....not wholesome heheheheh...(if you're not eating the animal....I don't know.....must feed each other) | |
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| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 1/24/2008 12:10:40 PM | No I wouldn't.
It's no benefit to me to have sex on a first date.
I am looking for a long term partner,not a partner for casual sex. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 12:24:30 PM | | no. I need to decide if I like him first before anything and that takes more than one date. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 12:25:34 PM | | if you are asking which answer I would go with;;;;; "Why not?" we could die tomorrow. | |
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| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 1/24/2008 12:51:35 PM | Only if we really clicked and I saw relationship potential.
I don't do sex for just sex anymore. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 12:54:25 PM | | yes i would, if two people are comfortable why not. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 12:57:03 PM | Been there done that...my last relationship was established over sex on our first date. However throughout our whole relationship "sex" was the foundation and once we broke up he reiterated tome that he had no respect for me from day one because we did have sex. So yeah, I don't do sex on the first date anymore. I want someone that's going to respect me and not think of me as a "slut" later on. Gotta love the longevity of double standards in this world. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 1:09:53 PM | | No. Call me crazy, but I get to know someone first. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 1:12:55 PM | | I have had sex on the first date. It does happen but not alot. Just everything feels right and i'm excited. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 1:17:48 PM | As usual I hate answering questions with questions but usualy do.
Why is every one so worried about having sex on the right date, but, apparently not having sex with the right person.?
The girls in paticular are classics for barely tolerating a goodnight kiss on the first date no matter how fabulous a man theyve found.
But come the third date, or the fifth date, even if the guys a total creep, they seem to feel obliged to offer him sex, even if they know they wont enjoy it.
Here's an interesting twist. Most girls would refuse sex on the first date, without a secodn thought, but if the guy proposed marriage on the first date they would consider it. And a marriage proposal is still asking for sex. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 2:24:28 PM | I have asked several of my male platonic friends what their take is on a woman "putting out on a first date".
Bottom line was this:
Many women won't on the first date because of the stigmatism and not wanting to be someone ending up a "one night stand".
Now on the other hand, many will put out on the second date.
So the guys I talked to stated: women putting out on the first date, I'd more than likely not hang around or only hang around when I wanted some action. Women putting out on the second date for the most part didn't want to end up being one of the aforementioned but in all reality still are because they gave it up on the second date. What they informed me of was this: : "if she's fun to hang with and sexually attractive and makes me chase a bit then that's cool. I don't mind a few dates to get to know each other first if I'm looking for a long term relationship. But if she has me waiting too long, then I'll move on because a man is still a man wanting to hit it with a woman." | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 2:27:38 PM | | No sex on the first date. It has been so long the shock would kill me. I have a real fear to ending up on the news on televison especially for dying while having sex for the first time after so many years. Does this make me different? | |
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| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 1/24/2008 3:05:38 PM | | Why do people on FORUMS keep asking me this, and not in REAL life???? | |
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