| What to do about a severe size mismatch?
Posted: 10/14/2007 7:29:51 AM | Let's say you're an average sized guy, about the size of a Red Bull can and you can't get enough traction while having sex with your lover. What do you do?
She's pretty large and can easily accept three fingers all the way inside her. She says she does 10,000 (ten thousand) kegil exercises every day, but when asked to feel her do it you only feel the slighest movement inside. It's almost as though the muscles aren't even there. What do you do?  | |
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| What to do about a severe size mismatch?
Posted: 10/14/2007 7:34:33 AM | | Maybe she isn't doing them properly. I would search the internet for this and find out as much information as possible. Then share the information with your lover. Perhaps you can find a "sexually fun" way to improve those muscles!!! You could also have her ask her gynecologist about it as well. | |
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| What to do about a severe size mismatch?
Posted: 10/14/2007 7:45:31 AM | Get a penis enlargement
*Joke*
If none of the pelvic floor muscles are working for her then perhaps she should seek some advice from her doctor?
Or you could help her practice them whilst you are inside her, getting her to clamp tight against you and then letting go again...repeating regularly. This way you would be able to tell if she was doing it right and make it playful for her without hurting her feelings.
Or you could just enjoy her as she is, and be grateful you are having sex.  | |
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| What to do about a severe size mismatch?
Posted: 10/14/2007 7:55:42 AM |
Or you could just enjoy her as she is, and be grateful you are having sex.
That would be to accept what must be a fixable situation. People should never do that. | |
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| What to do about a severe size mismatch?
Posted: 10/14/2007 8:03:31 AM | I understand there's a surgical prcedure that actually shrinks/tightens the vagina walls, but I dont' have a link to forward.
Then again, if duct tape holds a car together at 200mph,.... :13: it might be worth a shot. | |
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| What to do about a severe size mismatch?
Posted: 10/14/2007 8:08:44 AM |
...about the size of a Red Bull can I have no concept of what size that is (seriously) ...
... but then
... can easily accept three fingers all the way inside her. I also have no concept of what size that is either.
Huh ... guess I really don't know much at all. I feel so left out ... 
OP ...
To be quite honest ... I think the only way you will absolutely know for sure if the lady is in fact doing the "10,000 (ten thousand) kegel exercises every day" is if you are sitting right there "feeling" whether or not she is doing them.
You could offer to count for her ... so she can just focus on the "squeeze" ...  | |
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| What to do about a severe size mismatch?
Posted: 10/14/2007 9:00:27 AM | mind you don't fall in , you could easily break your neck, if you go down on her and happen to talk whilst at the edge of her void, does your voice echo??
if you are struggling to feel anything in her vagina , why not just flip her over and stick it in her pooper??
seriously though, just experiment with different positions until you both feel comfortable with the sensations. | |
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| What to do about a severe size mismatch?
Posted: 10/14/2007 9:03:43 AM | Introduce her to one of your friends that claims to be "huge", and let them have at it while you look for a more suitable partner to enjoy.......either that or "duct tape".....
OT.......There are surgical procedures to help her with this problem and many have taken advantage of them once they have had children, along with proper exercise, and the desire to feel as much as their partner wants to feel.
Just my opinion.......   | |
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| What to do about a severe size mismatch?
Posted: 10/14/2007 9:07:19 AM | http://www.tcclinic.com/vaginal-tightening-surgery.php?gclid=CK2t8K_ijo8CFQ2aOAod80WgfQ
Try that site!
Just goggle vaginal tighenting surgery and there are tons of answers for ya OP! Share them with your SO if you are really concerned - but I would tread lightly!  | |
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| What to do about a severe size mismatch?
Posted: 10/14/2007 9:15:52 AM | average sized guy, about the size of a Red Bull can
I have no concept of what size that is (seriously)
3 cm across by 20 cm long Hmmm ... so a Red Bull can is about as big around as my nail polish bottle (which is 3 cm across) and about 7 7/8" long. I measured the circumference of the nail polish bottle and it is 4 1/8".
I ran across the following information a while back ...
Low Average … 4 3/4" long, 3 1/2" circumference
Average ,,, 6" long, 4 1/2" circumference
High Average … 7" long, 5" circumference (Soft … 5 1/4" long, 4" circumference)
Extraordinarily Large (but 4" short of the record) … 9 1/2" long, 6 1/2" circumference
John C. Holmes' penis is 12" long erect, 8 1/2" long limp.
Record reported erect penis is 13 1/2" long, 6 1/4" circumference
OP ... I'm not being judgmental, just stating a fact according to the above chart ... you do not appear to be considered "Average" in the circumference measurement, so that might be adding to the issue.
I can't believe anyone would suggest surgery when it occurs to me that just entering the vagina at a somewhat different angle could easily be a solution.
A lot of the articles that I read on the kegel exercises mentioned that even when they are done daily, one cannot expect improvement for about 5 or 6 months. It would help her if while you are inside of her if she did her kegel excercises then ... clamping down on you would feel good to both of you and strengthen weakened muscles in her body at the same time? | |
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| What to do about a severe size mismatch?
Posted: 10/14/2007 9:49:28 AM | The great majority of penises measure between 6-7 inches) when erect, with the average figure being about 4.5 inches.
A woman's usually extends to a length of about 12 inches when aroused.
So in new york city alone there is more then
500,000 mils of wasted vagina. | |
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| What to do about a severe size mismatch?
Posted: 10/14/2007 10:31:05 AM | "shark1" wrote (message 18) ...
A woman's usually extends to a length of about 12 inches when aroused. HUH? This is something I need to know about ... something that extends 12 inches on me when I'm aroused?
What on a woman is it that extends to a length of about 12 inches when aroused?  | |
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| What to do about a severe size mismatch?
Posted: 10/14/2007 10:38:29 AM | Buddy, if your sticking a popcan in there and she still doesn't feel it...thats called throwing a hot dog down a hallway.
1) Your lying and are actually the size of a roll of life savers.
2) She needs reconstructive surgery. | |
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| What to do about a severe size mismatch?
Posted: 10/14/2007 10:48:56 AM | | My last ex was 100 pounds overweight, had 2 kids and never recovered from looseness. Sex was not enjoyable for me but was for her. At least the average woman can be filled up. | |
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| What to do about a severe size mismatch?
Posted: 10/14/2007 10:52:54 AM | | cotter well it sounded like the op was talking about the vagina itself but well I cant say that is right however. If you watch close when you are going down on a lady you can definately see the clit gets bigger when aroused and the vulva itself seems to swell up a bit. So he's right it isn't only men who grow when excited. | |
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| What to do about a severe size mismatch?
Posted: 10/14/2007 10:56:50 AM | | another small fact the clit is acually 6 or 7 inches and well it is alot like a penis because there are the same amount of nerve endings in a penus and a clit but with the clit it is concentrated into a smaller area also as we will all know only about one inch of the clit acually comes out to play the rest is internal but hey it's still there. | |
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