| in love wiht my ex
Posted: 5/24/2004 5:39:25 PM | | hey everyone my name is cindy ,i lost someone i really truly love and cared for and wanted to spend the rest of my life with , i keeped letting people but in to are realtionship.i want so bad to fix things beween us,one of the problems is me not dressing like a female should. | |
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| Re: in love wiht my ex
Posted: 5/24/2004 7:24:23 PM | | Like a female should? I didn't get a memo regarding men and women dress codes. This guy you were with, was he some kind of religious freak or fundamentalist? | |
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Ender
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Joined: 2/1/2004
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| Re: in love wiht my ex
Posted: 5/24/2004 7:40:02 PM | | Right.......ummmm wtfe. If you broke up becuse of the way you dressed, then I have to say that it most likley wasn't "love". | |
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| Re: in love wiht my ex
Posted: 5/24/2004 8:14:28 PM | | I don't understand, dressing like a female should! Is there a dress code that we are suppose to go by? Personally I think that we wear whatever makes us feel good about ourselves! So if other ppl disagree with the way we dress, than why waste the time to be with them? | |
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| Re: in love wiht my ex
Posted: 5/24/2004 9:50:50 PM | FIRST OF ALL WHO CARES HOW U DRESS THAT ISNT THE BASIS OF A RELATIONSHIP I MEAN Y SHOULD U HAVE TO CHANGE WHO U ARE TO SATISFY SOMEONE ELSES IMAGE OF WHAT A WOMAN SHOULD LOOK LIKE.
HECK I DONT ALWAYS DO WHAT SOCIETY WOULD DEEM ACCEPTABLE BUT THATS CUZ IM JUST DIZZY. ITS ONE THING TO MAKE A COUPLE OF SACRAFICES HERE AND THERE AS LONG AS BOTH PARTIES ARE DOING IT AND ITS NOT JUST ONE SIDED, BUT MY ADVICE IS JUST BE YOURSELF AND IF HE CANT HANDLE IT FIND SOMEONE WHOS GONNA LOVE U FOR U. LIFES TOO SHORT DONT WASTE IT TRYING TO MEET SOMEONES STANDARDS OF WHO AND HOW U SHOULD BE | |
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| Re: in love wiht my ex
Posted: 5/24/2004 10:05:41 PM | TY BABY U KNOW IN A WAY I KNOW WHERE SHES COMING FROM.
I SING IN A BAND FOR U WHO DONT KNOW ME AND WELL I DATED A WOMAN FOR 2 YRS AND I DID LOVE HER BUT IT WAS ALWAYS ME HAVING TO MAKE SACRAFICES FOR HER RATHER THEN HER SUPPORTING ME IN WHAT MADE ME HAPPY AND WELL ONLY U CAN MAKE U HAPPY.
YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER CAN HELP BUT ONLY U CAN DO IT.
DONT WASTE YOUR TIME THINKING AND CAREING ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK ABOUT U BE U BE REAL AND LIFE WILL REWARD U WITH ALL ITS SPLENDOR | |
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| Re: in love wiht my ex
Posted: 5/25/2004 6:46:31 AM | | first of if you are happy with the way you look it doesnt matter what other people think. if your a tomboy be proud of it. there are plenty of guys that dont mind. | |
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| Re: in love wiht my ex
Posted: 5/25/2004 9:50:08 AM | I suposse the only problem was not that you did not dress in a feminine way.
But it is possible to go back to a relationship unless something that can not be forgive happened.
Try to have a look back to the relationship and try to think if will be really good to go back in.
My exboyfriend left me 3 months ago and I was living with him, and we had our good things and bad things, but apart that he did a very bad thing to me at the end. That I could not forgive, I had a review to the relationship and I realise that I am better off.
I do not know how long ago did you finish the relationship, but time is a good thing.
I still have my ex in my mind, but I feel very happy without him. And I even had the feeling that he wanted to come back to me, but I did not give him any chance, my case was very clear.
If you have a look to your relationship and you find that it would be good to go back to him, the think to do is to fight for him, to do things to speak with him and try to have him back.
If he does not come back, at least you tried.
But if you have a look back to your relationship and you remmember the moments and you find out that not everything was perfect, It would be much better that you try to get over.
To do new activities, try to meet new people, you can meet new people in this website.
I said everything to you with my best intention to help you.
But I can be wrong. Nobody knows what is the best.
Take care
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
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| Re: in love wiht my ex
Posted: 5/25/2004 10:25:31 AM | hmm welli dress very feminine...i have to for work....skirts..dresses heels ect. The guys love it because im always dressed up. I dont even own a sweatshirt....or a track suit. I neeed some casual clothes..lol..
my ex loved it as well...then he met soem fat cow who looked and dressed like a tomboy...and i would drop the kids off all dressed for work....looking snazzy and he"d look at me like the cat licking his lips at the canary. ahahah.. oh well...shes gone and im unavailable
but really some guys dont mind how you dress...some do...but if you are happy with how you look...and make an exception for special occasions.then go for it. But if a guy forces you to put on a dress thast wrong. You are your your own person...they should accept that. | |
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
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| Re: in love wiht my ex
Posted: 5/25/2004 2:11:40 PM | | no problem.this is a huge place with lots of good ppl willing to help..all you gotta do is shout and we'll come running. | |
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| Re: in love wiht my ex
Posted: 5/31/2004 10:59:05 AM | Ok, if my bf started wearing dresses I think I would have a problem with him not dressing like a man! Period! And I am a good caring loving girl...but there are lines with clothing...I mean lines that should not be crossed. Yes, whatever makes you comfortable...but within certain boundaries. I am the most open minded woman you'll ever meet, but I like my man or woman to look good...sexy...or whatever depending on the occasion. If we were going to a wedding reception and I decided to wear sweat pants and a gap sweater I would expact my man or woman to have an issue with that...and rightfully so! There are certain times and places for certain kinds of clothing.
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| in love wiht my ex
Posted: 11/21/2004 4:29:56 PM | | hey syracuse babe i know how u feel i still love my ex but the reason were not together is cause i let my family keepin get in out fights n our relationship now we dont even talk n we have a beautiful lil girl together | |
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| in love wiht my ex
Posted: 11/22/2004 12:08:09 AM | | if he lets something as trivial as you dress bother him how will he ahndle the important things, forget him, just be who you are even in the way you dress | |
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| in love wiht my ex
Posted: 11/22/2004 12:10:36 AM | | opps i ment how we handle the big things btw lady's typing skills are bot omprtant tp you I hope lol | |
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