| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 10/20/2007 2:42:38 AM | | I was wondering why a man gives you his phone number you end up going out on a date...he tells you he wants a relationship with you...and he is still logging into POF almost every day? He lies about why he is on POF. Why are they always looking to see if the grass is greener on the other side? Just a note every aspect of the relationship is great when we are together and we talk on the phone a lot too. He also tells me he loves me. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 10/20/2007 2:46:47 AM | One date does not make a monogamous relationship..
He will promise you the sun, the stars and the moon to get all the goodies then go on to someone else.....just don't give up the goodies so soon. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 10/20/2007 3:11:47 AM | Men do stop looking for another woman. But some men don't, in particular, the men who are most physically attractive to the most women. Have you ever considered that you might be choosing these men?
Just a thought. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 10/20/2007 3:59:25 AM | Well how would you know he was logging on to POF unless you were also, logging on LOL.
He could be logging on because he's made friends here, like most of us have and wishes to chat with them..or partake in the forums...
Then again he could be a love rat...and lord knows there's plenty of them around!!! I had the misfortune to meet a love rat here on POF too..and it's not fun. But you won't know til you ask!
Ask him why he's logging on... if you can believe his answer lol.
But seriously...if there's no trust then there is no chance for a relationship... You should trust him until you find a reason not to. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 10/20/2007 4:14:16 AM | | I think that every man is looking for the right woman (yes, even the s0-called players) but there will be something about the right woman, and they will instinctively know it when they find it. When they feel they have found it, they will stop looking. I'm the same with men, I know that when I meet the right person It will just 'feel' right, and there will be no doubts in my mind, It will become not about me, but about them, and spending the rest of my life keeping them happy. When I finally find the person who makes me feel this way I will stop looking. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 10/20/2007 4:40:00 AM | JUST DON'T THINK ABOUT IT TOO MUCH...COZ MEN ARE ALWAYS GOING TO BE LIKE THAT EVEN WE LIKE IT OR NOT SO JUST RELAX THE RIGHT ONE WILL COME ALONG
P.S.
HOW DO YOU KNOW IF HE'S THERE OR NOT MAYBE YOU'RE GOING ON THE SITES TOO  (JUST THE THOUGHT) | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 10/20/2007 5:08:09 AM | It depends on what the man wants.... 
Some want to just date, some want sex, some want a partner to "share it all" with.
I have found that a man who wants a loving relationship will work at it.
I have also found that a man who is not sure if he has found it, will look.
And, I have also found that a man who is just biding time will stay and look.
I have also found myself looking!
If he's found "it", no singles websites will be necessary to "look" .... however
this is a conversation between the two of you at a much later date...too early
for that now, unless you both agree to it.
If it is pretty, they will look...no harm there. But if he has found a true
"lover-buddy", he won't stray. jmo.
This is true for a woman too!  | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 10/20/2007 5:11:56 AM | Isn't technology amazing. Millions of others just a mouse click away. I guess we have Al Gore to thank for that since he DID invent the internet.
Bamagirl, you've possibly become his security blanket until something better comes along. If you make yourself less available to him, my bet is you'll find the answer you're looking for. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 10/20/2007 5:44:37 AM | He loves you after one date?
We all have standards, but it seems yours seem a bit unrealistic.
I tend to find out who someone is after a few years!
Perhaps we should all consider being friends and advocates for one another. It may seem strange, but talking to someone about their experiences on POF can give you insight into them and provide good information about dating to you. I've taken second seat, so to speak, on scores of dating experiences of female friends. They share what happens and does not... what they wanted and did not happen. I am close to these women and glad when then find what they are looking for. And some day, when it's my turn, I hope that they can be glad for me.
There is a custom in many cultures where an engaged man is taken someplace to see women, just before getting married. I don't see this as a sign of disrespect, but rather a moment to let go of the past.
In other words, it is accepted to keep your options open up until you are in a committed relationship. Even then there are all sorts of relationships to consider. Some folks are into the open thing, others don't want any contact with the opposite sex. These are choices we all need to make.
I feel that we should understand, respect and trust one another. If he wants to play around, you should help him with it! If not, that's fine too. The thing is that you should work as a team, even - especially if it does not lead to the bedroom or alter!
With this fellow or anyone I'd suggest you STOP, THINK and COMMUNICATE!
Cheers,
- Rick  ;^)
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 10/20/2007 6:02:19 AM | I think it`s because they are addicted to the chase .In the meantime they are to ignorant to realize that they have a good thing going.These are the people that will still sit in front of a Pc 10 years from now chatting other people up for a little bit of attention.
I also don`t buy the crap of only checking on friends.Friends can call eachother instead of sitting around half a day waiting to see if they catch each other online.
Btw,this applies to both genders,its not only men doing this.
Good luck to you! | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 10/20/2007 6:33:24 AM | | It wasn't one date it was over many months and he left his message board open on his e-mail all I had to do is read what had been happening for the time we spent together. He dropped his phone number to women like most people say HI. We never lived together so when he didn't call me he was always working!! Slept in his truck!! Or off drinking and the ringer was off!! I guess he was a GREAT LIAR and now I see how stupid I was to have trusted and believed him. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 10/20/2007 6:50:41 AM | They want to make sure they found the right one before they settle, They don't want to miss out in case something better comes a long.
When you find the right one I am sure he will give up fishing,, | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 10/20/2007 6:55:33 AM | | The answer short and simple is NO.....i have dated / married some of the sexiest women a guy could clap eye's on and i've still found myself in bed with other women. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 10/20/2007 7:01:22 AM | lol u have too...laugh...they think the grass is greener...and they might find there dream girl... does she even exsist...
hey play him at his own game...whats good for the goose...is good for the gander.....
most of all...be happy... | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 10/20/2007 7:06:00 AM | | Yes--some do completely stop looking! Even some VERY attractive ones. My bf is one such man. When he is in love, he doesn't even look at another woman. He never cheated when married. He is/was presented with lots of opportunities since he is in sales and is on the road A LOT but he is the type that devotes himself to and has eyes for only one woman when he is in love--period. I really believe it has more to do with values than anything else. A man or woman who believes it is truly wrong to cheat--doesn't. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 10/20/2007 7:14:55 AM | | Men never stop looking AT other women, but they definitely stop looking FOR other women. (Assuming they've found the "right" woman, of course!) | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 10/20/2007 9:47:22 AM | I had to meet someone more than once... I never stopped looking after the first meeting as I learned by experience that most of the time there is not a second one even if things seem to have gone well.
However, I don't ask the lady at the first meeting if she wants to be in a relationship with me...
You are allowed to go out with several people at the same time when you are looking. It is called dating. When you become boyfriend/girlfriend, then it should be exclusive.
I think the problem here is more about him saying he loves you etc. when he still barely know you,
than exclusivity. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 10/20/2007 10:17:44 AM | | just be glad you aren't married to one....a man,that is...lol....and look at it from a different perspective...women look too...but try to find one who is computer illiterate,then you'll be safer. Then you only find him in bed with another woman.ROFL....guys are no different than us...most live in fantasyland and then when they grow up,they realize that they have missed the boat...and then,they panic and make stupid mistakes,like marrying a younger woman. Nobody said that this is the place to find your one and only,worst thing is to be desperate and needy...we ladies often forget about our own esteem...listen to your inner voice and act accordingly...stop thinking about being single as some kind of disease...get to know yourself first and stick to your principles....you have to separate the wheat from the chaff...and,that's like looking for a needle in a haystack...or winning a lottery....men are promiscuous...period....it's the men who spread the diseases,so get real.And,don't listen to those women on here who act like bits of fluff,they have their own agenda... | |
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