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 {isis}

Joined: 10/2/2007
Msg: 1
The worst reason for someone to decide you're not for them
Posted: 10/23/2007 1:55:10 AM
Oh my god...

I was just told by someone whom I have been speaking to for a little while now that they aren't interested because I have dogs. Now if this had been said up front no big deal, I even have in my profile that I have dogs and cats....

But to be talking for a little while now.. chatting about possibly catching up etc etc and then all of a sudden they decide that I have dogs and it's not on?

What the?
 anniez28

Joined: 10/7/2007
Msg: 2
The worst reason for someone to decide you're not for them
Posted: 10/23/2007 2:02:23 AM
He had no real reason just "Its not you ,its me"!
Obviously she didn't work out,because 3 days later he rang saying he had made a big mistake!!
Get to steppin,I'm not going to be anyone's 2nd choice!
Plenty more fish in the pond
 plz.b.normal

Joined: 8/5/2007
Msg: 3
The worst reason for someone to decide you're not for them
Posted: 10/23/2007 2:07:55 AM
I feel regardless of the reason someone gives, there is no point dwelling on it or being hurt by it, they obviously don't want to be with you so just move on. It is their loss and leaves room in your life for you to attract the person that does want to be with you.

The world is a fickle place and 'the grass is always greener' especially on the internet.
 atalia

Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 4
The worst reason for someone to decide you're not for them
Posted: 10/23/2007 2:08:39 AM
I wasnt good enough because I didnt play a sport


didnt tell him i liked bedroom sports LOL
 InSydney

Joined: 3/14/2007
Msg: 5
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Posted: 10/23/2007 2:16:58 AM
{isis} .................. He needs to stop looking for non-existent excuses and have the decency (and the balls) to say what the real reason is why he's changed his mind

Look at it this way, if he's like this about dogs then what would he be like if he had screaming kids around the house. Do you really need someone so petty minded in your life? He did you a huge favour and you'll see this for yourself soon.
 {isis}

Joined: 10/2/2007
Msg: 6
The worst reason for someone to decide you're not for them
Posted: 10/23/2007 2:17:37 AM
Lol.. I'm not that stressed over it... more shocked and appalled.

Immediately deleted from my MSN, favourites and all messages gone. I'll take my dogs over d1ck any day. Sex I can get anywhere... true love is special ... and my dogs are like my children.

As they say.. love me.. love my dog.
 beachlife68

Joined: 5/16/2007
Msg: 7
The worst reason for someone to decide you're not for them
Posted: 10/23/2007 2:25:54 AM
.... and dont be giving me any lip u lot for this ....

after second date got text mssg saying "you are just too nice to be true and I reckon you have to be lying so I don't want too see you again" ..... I left it an hour and responded " I think you are an absolute biatch and a rude snob so will you have my children?" She didn't see funny side!! Some people just don't have a sense of humour!!
 anniez28

Joined: 10/7/2007
Msg: 8
The worst reason for someone to decide you're not for them
Posted: 10/23/2007 2:29:18 AM
Great come back
 serenex

Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 9
The worst reason for someone to decide you're not for them
Posted: 10/23/2007 2:50:42 AM
Way to go beachy ........Have to agree tho not use to being treated as they should be does rare itself as a reason sometimes i have struck it.........I like to be told upfront as i do them but sometimes being upfront has its downside to
 InSydney

Joined: 3/14/2007
Msg: 10
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Posted: 10/23/2007 2:52:40 AM
Well at least this guy had the courage to show his face so that we all know who he is

Doesn't make him a saint though
 Mildura3500

Joined: 1/6/2007
Msg: 11
The worst reason for someone to decide you're not for them
Posted: 10/23/2007 3:01:40 AM
I don't know the reason this girl decided I wasn't the one but it took her 2 month to write to me to tell me. Gee for some reason I wasn'y waiting for a reply anymore!
 Cinder_ella

Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 12
The worst reason for someone to decide you're not for them
Posted: 10/23/2007 4:11:47 AM
Beachy! Ya gotta stop feeding your dates to the sharks and then making up stories about why they disappeared.
 obhwhitedragon

Joined: 1/29/2007
Msg: 13
The worst reason for someone to decide you're not for them
Posted: 10/23/2007 4:15:44 AM
I heard that about him...........

gives them surfing lessons...............& they never come back
 {isis}

Joined: 10/2/2007
Msg: 14
The worst reason for someone to decide you're not for them
Posted: 10/23/2007 5:37:31 AM
Too funny...

I think my other pet peeve is people who can't decide what they want... one minute they want you, next minute they're your friend, minute after they aren't talking to you... no reason.

Had one person in the same conversation tell me that he wanted more, wanted friends, didn't know what he wanted... made it easy for him, took everything but friendship off the table.

Bah! Who needs the hassle.

Lol
 hilly1971

Joined: 10/10/2007
Msg: 15
The worst reason for someone to decide you're not for them
Posted: 10/23/2007 5:44:50 AM
Cos your boobs are too small.........how rude!!!
 Goddess of dreams

Joined: 5/12/2007
Msg: 16
The worst reason for someone to decide you're not for them
Posted: 10/23/2007 5:51:27 AM
Maybe he was a dog himself and doesn't like sharing
 cuda64

Joined: 7/8/2007
Msg: 17
The worst reason for someone to decide you're not for them
Posted: 10/23/2007 6:35:26 AM
Too short............does POF have a hobbit section ?
 Boovaldave

Joined: 10/6/2007
Msg: 18
The worst reason for someone to decide you're not for them
Posted: 10/23/2007 6:51:32 AM
Because I never made a move on her, even though she sent me signals aaargh what signals.
 JulietJuliet

Joined: 6/7/2007
Msg: 19
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Posted: 10/23/2007 6:53:34 AM
"Your everything a man could ever want, beautiful on the inside and beautiful on the outside".....So this is why I have to stop seeing you.
 TakeAWALKwith ME

Joined: 4/24/2006
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The worst reason for someone to decide you're not for them
Posted: 10/23/2007 9:05:19 AM
I was told I am too unconventional for too many guys,
and as I only teaze them on the net how could they tell!
there loss..

some of them on here leave their ph nos first email,,,,,,
and nothing else....

consequently the phone message they get is ....

on the next stroke the time is?????from telstra!
 Goddess of dreams

Joined: 5/12/2007
Msg: 21
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Posted: 10/23/2007 5:45:10 PM
^^^^

you must be a rich lady to do that I can't afford telling time
 geen z

Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 22
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The worst reason for someone to decide you're not for them
Posted: 10/23/2007 6:44:52 PM
told him i had to go to work - was on msn this morning and now gone. had added to my favourites list and now he has gone and so have his messages. poof or is that pof - from here and so are all our messages. how weird is that..........

got to make you laugh and got to make you wonder......... ok , next please!
 jannick06

Joined: 1/25/2007
Msg: 23
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Posted: 10/23/2007 6:52:33 PM
I have too much energy for them
 Cinder_ella

Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 24
The worst reason for someone to decide you're not for them
Posted: 10/23/2007 7:54:51 PM
I COMPLAINED about one guy being an hour late for a date so I was "inflexible" and not very understanding - apparently. His excuse - he was helping his mate fix his trailer. Sigh, I'm such a punctuality nazi.
 Carlykitten

Joined: 9/23/2007
Msg: 25
The worst reason for someone to decide you're not for them
Posted: 10/23/2007 8:17:42 PM
ok, this is going to sound bad but a guy said to me once," i dont think this is going to work out, coz i just cant keep up with this ." lets just say it was the honeymoon period of the relationship....
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