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 bikergirl53

Joined: 4/16/2006
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men want an "open minded" woman...
Posted: 10/26/2007 12:59:51 PM
This subject may have been on the forum before (sorry if it was and I missed it).

I've been reading on alot of men's profiles lately that at they are interested in "open minded" women. Just WHAT does that mean???

Help me out, please....................
 migivadamsbusted

Joined: 4/30/2007
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:01:19 PM
it means they want sex, sex and sex...
 shreyaa

Joined: 5/26/2007
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men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 10/26/2007 1:02:01 PM
^^^Yup especially of the BDSM variety.
 .Marc

Joined: 2/11/2007
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:06:09 PM
I want someone who is open minded in a lot of ways... but it's not something that is in my profile because it wouldn't be clear...
 *tinydancer*

Joined: 6/25/2006
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:07:16 PM
(a) they want you to watch them having sex with another woman;
(b) they want to watch you having sex with another woman; or
(c) they want to have sex with farm animals
 biketrvlr

Joined: 11/18/2006
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:10:11 PM
gee, thanks for painting us all with the same brush. did it ever occur to you that some of just may not be interested meeting narrow-minded, opinionated, racist homophobes?

btw, wanna get naked and let me tie you up?
 bikergirl53

Joined: 4/16/2006
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:10:50 PM
well, I just looked bsdm up on the internet......

here's what it says: Biological Sciences in Dental Medicine (BSDM)

They want you to have sex with their dentist????/
 shreyaa

Joined: 5/26/2007
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:13:49 PM
^^^Its BDSM not BSDM but thanks for the laughter. Lol.
 migivadamsbusted

Joined: 4/30/2007
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:14:40 PM
biket who are you asking?
 Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:14:49 PM
it means they want sex, sex and sex...

Do me....right now...from the get go....who cares if we are strangers...I want immediate gratification and I want it now!!
^^Also a bit of what message 5 said.

My other "favorite" over used phrase is "We are both adults" when you do not go by the above agenda of another who is seeking immediate gratification. What the other individual does not understand is that refusal to be pressured into the agenda of another is being an adult when your boundaries are not being respected or listened to.
 nomadd77

Joined: 5/21/2007
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men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 10/26/2007 1:15:31 PM

In reference to the dentist question
umm u cant be that niave can you ?

anyways.. it doesnt only mean sex or whatever, I like openminded people because Im like that as well. I cant stand racist, homophobes, people who try to live out a steriotype. Thats like the lamest thing you could ever do in my opinion. If Im dating a girl and she isnt somewhat openminded and lets say for example she cracks some kinda stupid joke about mexicans or something, shes getting chewed out and sent home. Thats why i need an openminded person its not just a preference i cant stand people like that and we would likely end up in a fight instead of a date.
 OutMind

Joined: 2/13/2007
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:15:36 PM
That's what all women think, sex, sex, sex. We are not a piece of meat so having an open mind means.....

(suspense)

....

....

....

Okay you win.

Sex.


 migivadamsbusted

Joined: 4/30/2007
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:16:36 PM
we like our meat rare....
 lekitty

Joined: 6/29/2007
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:23:35 PM
Maybe sometimes what they mean is that they want to meet women who aren't on the "Wanna-be-a-Soccer-Mom" Fast Track??? You know the kinds of ladies that I mean, right? They're the ones who want a "relationship" right away, who want exclusivity and they want the guy to empty out a drawer in his dresser so that she can leave some "things" at his place for all the nights that she'll be sleeping over.....AND she wants it oh....around date number 3?? Then around date #4 she's asking him "where he sees this heading"??? Maybe an "open-minded" woman is someone who's NOT wanting those things...but wants to take her time, and most of all....has HER OWN LIFE.

Then again, it probably means that they want you to test drive the pleasure swing in the basement right after dinner on your first date. OH! And, since you're "open-minded," he probably wants you to pay for dinner as well.....OR it means that he wants a woman who won't mind sharing her lingerie with him...cuz' the silky panties feel sooooo good against his skin....and the lacey bra, well it's a little scratchy on his chest, but it's soooo erotic. "After all, you're open-minded, right honey?"
 bikergirl53

Joined: 4/16/2006
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:25:48 PM
no, I am not THAT niave!!! I know what it means....was just asking people's opinions on what "open minded" means.
 §wannee

Joined: 6/5/2007
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:25:52 PM

btw, wanna get naked and let me tie you up?


It would appear you’ll have to make an appointment with the Dentist for some of that action…….
 pentree69

Joined: 7/11/2007
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:26:44 PM
Ok so we are busted,...yes,..(sometimes) openminded means sex,....mostly means non--judgemental sex,...in other words if he likes dress up in a french maid outfit,..... be tied up,.....spank hard and get hammered with a strap on,...he doesnt want you to call him a freak.

and no i am not talking from experience

Other times it means,...willing to except his faults and downfalls,...i guees it really just falls back to not being judgemental.
 gumgum2

Joined: 10/22/2007
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:28:56 PM
One that is not restricted to their way of thinking and it usually relates to anything that connects to sex
 FredHH

Joined: 1/24/2007
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:30:06 PM
When you see that on a guy's profile... CLICK ON BY.

It means the guy is a player, looking for FWB or someone who won't mind HIM going out with other women while you stay home and do laundry.


"Open minded" = they want you to accept all of thier faults/quirks, while they accept none of yours.
 pentree69

Joined: 7/11/2007
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:37:35 PM

"Open minded" = they want you to accept all of thier faults/quirks, while they accept none of yours.


Fred I think thats the first time i have to agree with you,...Well Said!!!!!
 My2cntsin

Joined: 7/30/2007
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:38:25 PM
Open minded...be able to think like a man does..if it feels good...do it.
 ignis fatuus

Joined: 6/10/2007
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:38:34 PM
Mango hit it on the head. I think that is the unstated interpretation MUCH of the time, not all but most.
 bikergirl53

Joined: 4/16/2006
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:38:58 PM
why Fred..i DO believe you have hit the nail on the head.


I knew this topic would ruffle some feathers. Had a good laugh, hope you all have too.


Happy Fishing!!!




PS....are hookers open minded?
 lady_bugg65

Joined: 9/16/2005
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:44:20 PM
^^^ yes i would think they have to have an open mind....as well as many other body parts....ha!?

open-minded is the polar opposite of closed minded....no?....
 nebula22

Joined: 8/14/2007
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Posted: 10/26/2007 1:47:57 PM
FredHH,,, You are one to talk ... I'll bet you are about as closed minded as a bible...
I like open minded people because to me it means they are free thinkers that don't go around judging people and being a hippocrit..
Bigots are not open minded people.. Do YOU want one of those?????
Thomas Jefferson was a open minded person ..
Why would anyone want someone with a closed mind??
Scientist are open mined people and so are inventors..
To have a closed mind means you are unwilling to learn anything because you think you know it all....
Some people may be talking about sex.. Who knows until you ask them?????
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