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 Lookingforasweetone

Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 1
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 5:12:32 AM
I think men are the reason girls go lez or bi. I have lotz of gay friends and the girls say it was because of the guys they dated......
 tagone

Joined: 2/23/2005
Msg: 2
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Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 5:14:05 AM
I think it's because of the media and its portrayal of "lez" and "bi" as the ultra cool way to be...

but that's just my opinion, I could be wrong.
 7times

Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 3
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 5:15:52 AM
so is it the same reason for why guys go, because of women?
 Lookingforasweetone

Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 4
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 5:17:50 AM
Now i dunno a bout that i havent had very many gay guys as friends....i think for females it might be the media but i think with guys its something they cant help it is jsut the way they are i dont know though i just thought I'd ask
 tagone

Joined: 2/23/2005
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Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 5:22:18 AM
not to get too personal, Looking... but are you considering going bi?

The media's portrayal of chicks on chicks is part of the overall bashing of WASP males by the entertainment industry.
 Shake Me

Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 6
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 5:26:13 AM
yep!
 Charming Archfiend

Joined: 3/30/2005
Msg: 7
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 6:03:08 AM
Definetely,coz other guys dont know how to treat a girl...
 Shake Me

Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 8
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 6:26:12 AM
glad i'm only a fish.


ot: whatever devlish said. i agree.
 bunnybaby_81

Joined: 4/25/2005
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Posted: 5/17/2005 6:33:52 AM
see its stupidness like this that makes being gay that much more stupid.

being gay is not a CHOICE, they are born that way.

Now if this person is bi-curious and wants to blame some guy/girl as a means for it to be more acceptable, then YOU NEED A LIFE.
 Shake Me

Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 10
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 6:43:47 AM
no! it the men. LOL
 D.A.W.G.

Joined: 5/9/2005
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Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 6:46:22 AM
God made Adam and Eve......not Adam and Steve...........or Amy and Eve
 bunnybaby_81

Joined: 4/25/2005
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Posted: 5/17/2005 6:47:39 AM
right and women know how to treat women?


women are such traitors towards each other i find it sickening.
so i dont see how it would be fitting to have two women in one bedroom, threesomes included.

all they would be doing is seeing who can get more attention from the guy, or who is better.

way to much competition!

I SAY, MEAT IS GREAT
 moist

Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 13
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 6:56:06 AM
Some might "go" lez because of men, some might say they are because it sounds cool. But I think more say they are BI to sound cool!
I think true lesbians and Bisexuals have been dealing with those feelings for a long time, so to say men caused it sounds like a cop-out
 ladydi8

Joined: 1/31/2005
Msg: 14
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 6:59:43 AM
hmmm.....maybe its just a case of bein gender non specific.....ya know where ya fall fer a persons personality and attitude and find that whatever gender they happen to be dont really matter...........................


kinda like thinkin outside tha box in a purely physical way of course....
 tgfm66

Joined: 2/14/2005
Msg: 15
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 7:34:23 AM
Having known some Gay couples as friends this is complete BS.

And in case your wondering, no, it isnt all sweetness and light. Men/Men or Women/Women couples fight just as much as any other couple. Regretably ive seen it.

People being the wonderfully messed up creatures that we are who take each other for granted or put unrealistic expectations on their partners can screw up a same sex relationship just as easy as any other.
 matamis

Joined: 3/19/2005
Msg: 16
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 7:36:07 AM
im straight myself but have friends that r gay
some very sweet and caring friends
the subject of man hater never came up
we all been hurt its part of life but not enough to change yr sexuaity
even lesbian couples can be promiscuis with other woman and make lies and mistakes
same as homosexual men
people r people good and bad regardelss race ,creed,colour,or sexuality
 justaguy13

Joined: 11/13/2004
Msg: 17
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 7:36:42 AM
Save the God comments on this for the Religion forum. They only apply to those who follow your religion. Homosexuality is not a religious question.
 grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003
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Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 7:37:10 AM
strap on the lifestyle today! (media ad)
 Apocx

Joined: 10/3/2004
Msg: 19
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 7:44:55 AM
Most girls go bi and kiss each other in public because they are attention whores.
 Thrullas

Joined: 3/9/2005
Msg: 20
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Posted: 5/17/2005 7:47:55 AM
i think so to apocx

I believe the reason is a lot of women believe they know what a woman wants.
 Supergirl_beautiful

Joined: 5/4/2005
Msg: 21
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 8:00:22 AM
the women I know that have turned gay is because men didn't treat them right... a man can hurt you physically(usually more than a girl) at least as a girl with a girl it's usually a fair fight if one is abusive- and some sexual abuse can starve you of healthy erotic feeling toward all men if one has violated you- so women feel more affectionate toward a woman after that... I am surprised no one brought this up already?

I personally, am not gay and don't really understand the whole, "its in my chromosomes business" as long as you don't push it on anyone else it is your business... but i am still gonna wish you weren't gay, we (oppposite sex) just fit so well!!!
 MsRedDress

Joined: 4/30/2005
Msg: 22
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 8:05:15 AM
<----- not a genuis but I think I know what looking os thinking now :)

sigh
 biziedizie

Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 23
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 8:05:21 AM
I dated a lezbo and she told me that men turned her that way. Me thinks the truth was that she didn't know her own sexual preferences.
After we split up she decided to be a clam licker again so who knows what was going through her head.
 backoftheque

Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 24
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 8:11:05 AM
I agree with msred..*rolls eyes*

edit: going lesbian isn't the answer to fixing her mess.
 Dell

Joined: 1/21/2004
Msg: 25
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 8:12:52 AM
According to my ex, yes. But then, anyone who didn't want to be with him was a lez, me included. He couldn't have been more wrong.

I don't think anyone can turn anything because of someone else, I see it as a natural variation that occurs in many species.
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