| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/29/2007 6:22:18 PM | I read so many profiles where guys claim to love to cuddle. Guys also tell me often that they love to watch movies and cuddle etc. Is this true?? or is it something guys say because they think that's what we would love to hear.
It makes me RUN and I won't spend time with a guy who tells me that maybe we could cuddle or that he enjoys cuddling.
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/29/2007 6:26:07 PM | | I like to fondle more then cuddle lmao. But laying down watching a movie and falling asleep holding each other is a great joy. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/29/2007 6:27:36 PM | Some guys do. Some guys don't. Some guys say it because it's what you want to hear. I do. But women know this, because I will happily spend all evening cuddling her, night after night, without any complaints. 
Edit: I don't ask for it. I just do it, grab her and cuddle. Mmmmm..... | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/29/2007 6:27:50 PM | Its not very manly to say, hey lets cuddle but i mean sometimes we just want to be close to you and be lazy together. Maybe some guys say it because its something you want to hear but I think there are also guys out there who are genuine.
If you dont know the guy then its creepy, but if its your BF then why would you get the urge to run or why would that be a turn off, hes expressing love 4 u.
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/29/2007 6:29:08 PM | | I think they just say that. I've never had one that can actually cuddle without it leading to sex. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/29/2007 6:31:14 PM | | I love to cuddle. But in all honestly I'd hope it would lead to at least making out. Not necessarily sex, but at least making out. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/29/2007 6:39:43 PM | The cuddling issue is never really a problem, but it seems that a couple of my previous girl friends (which I've heard is common from my other guy freinds), really like the average room temperatures in the 50 celsius range. To me this is an issue since being a warm blooded person, I do tend to have a boiling point....
Translation: Leave some of the wool blankets for the counting sheep  | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/29/2007 6:44:36 PM | Cuddling has to go somewhere. Like to sex, or a sandwich, or sex then a sandwich.
Seriously though, I can't speak for all men, but I find cuddling just for its own sake to be unfulfilling. If it's just cuddling while sitting around watching TV or a movie, that's one thing, but just sitting there...in one place....just...cuddling.
I gotta say; most guys are not going to be into that. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/29/2007 6:48:50 PM | i love to cuddle on the couch watching a good movie, but it has to be the right kind of movie. you can't really cuddle watching Rambo or Platoon, of course i probably wouldn't be watching those with a girlfriend anyway.
i do love to cuddle though, just not that much after sex, kind of hot and sweaty.
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/29/2007 7:21:50 PM | | Not2shy, I wont be 2shy & come straight out & say what most of us men are thinking. ===> dont you think that youd be fortunate if ANY man attempts to cuddle you? No? Well then keep right on running honey! | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/29/2007 8:13:49 PM | I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of guys do say that because that what they think women want to hear. That is part of the female stereotype. One clarification though. Cuddling doesn't have to mean smothering. It can be a relatively short expression of love and it doesn't have to turn one of you into a piece of overheated furniture.
If your objection to cuddling isn't the length, I'm not sure I understand what you find so distasteful, but to each his or her own...
To Diana619: Is there a problem with a feeling of closeness being a starting point for sex? Seems pretty nice to me. If you are worried that it is only being done to initiate sex, then that is a pretty cynical view of men. Men aren't that simple. We can have several simultaneous reasons for doing things. (I am large. I contain multitudes.) Heck, sometimes, sex isn't even at the top of the list. ;) (hopefully my humorous tone is coming across here) | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/29/2007 8:31:32 PM | I think men and women both like to cuddle, but sometimes their definitions of 'cuddling' differ.
To a woman, cuddling means sitting on the couch and holding each other during a sappy chick flick on pay per view.
To a man, cuddling means sitting on the couch real close to each other in case he needs you to fetch something for him. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/29/2007 8:33:07 PM | | got to be a cuddeler in order to be a spooner...ha...got ya on that one peeps!!!Thats a must in my book...besides that op...I cant speak for all men...nobody can...but I wouldnt be with anybody who wasn't a cuddeler!!! | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/29/2007 8:34:22 PM | | While watching a movie, cuddling is definitely nice, particularly horror movies. Holding her tight when she gets all scared is a really great feeling. But that's just about the only time I really go for a good cuddle. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/29/2007 8:40:40 PM | I enjoy it.
I've grown out of the "every contact has to lead to sex" stage. I still pop a chubby almost every time, but can deal with it without forcing my way on her.
She just has to enjoy being dry humped. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/29/2007 9:09:21 PM | It all depends on the situation. I'd rather sit next to a woman while watching a movie, as in being with her, than sitting across the room and watching. It's another side of together time especially depending on the movie. Ahh, I enjoyed some episodes of Babylon 5 even if I had to watch them later.
As another stated, i'd find it peaceful just being there if we both fell asleep then waking and listening to her breathing . . . . then reaching for the remote to turn off the movie and TV and closing my eyes.
Jamie | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/29/2007 9:52:30 PM | | It all depends. If a women decides to cuddle up to me, thats fine. But the only reason I would do that is if my hands or feet are cold. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/29/2007 10:25:24 PM | I love all forms of affection especially kissing and cuddling. Its nice to just lay around with that special someone, feeling her in your arms as you run your fingers through her hair. More often than not it does end up leading to more (not initiated by me) but I blame that on my exceptional cuddling skills!  | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/30/2007 1:20:25 AM | | I enjoy cuddling, but to say love to cuddle ........ no way!! Sometimes I have better things to do. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/30/2007 1:52:17 AM | | I personally love to cuddle, I like to show affection and show the lady that I am with how much I care. I find that is important and it shows that you do care. I think it's in our nature to cuddle and just have a companion there whome we can be close to, and I really enjoy cuddling. I'm sure most guys do if they are honest about it lol. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/30/2007 2:17:01 AM | | Nope - you're right. You've discovered another of our lying, cheating tricks. We only say or do whatever it will take to get in your pants. If any man tells you different, it's just another lie to try and get inside your pants. we really all are just as bad as you've heard and think. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 10/30/2007 2:50:44 AM | Well my boyfriend loves to cuddle - we both do. We just can't sit next to each other without being cuddled up. We also move towards each other to cuddle as soon as we wake up - it's lovely and warm. It also makes us feel really close to each other.
Some of my friends wouldn't cope with this at all and I know plenty of men that don't like it either but I couldn't be with someone who didn't like affection as much as me. | |
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