| What does it take to please a woman?
Posted: 10/29/2007 7:59:28 PM | | I don't know about other guys, but what does it take to please a woman? This question is directed to women, but any other constructive comments or suggestions from anybody are welcome.. I am open to meeting new people, dress to impress, and act the part of a gentleman... What am I doing wrong? | |
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| What does it take to please a woman?
Posted: 10/29/2007 8:14:01 PM | Pretty much EVERY woman is different and has different needs in the bedroom! It's all about communication with your partner to find out what her needs are and what pleases her :) JMO | |
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| What does it take to please a woman?
Posted: 10/29/2007 8:18:05 PM | | Funny, goodgirl has the impression that you were meaning in the bedroom. I, on the other hand, got the impression that you meant in general, dating, etc. Which did you mean? | |
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| What does it take to please a woman?
Posted: 10/29/2007 8:21:41 PM | | Well every thing you said you do is a good start but to please a woman is hard to say as all ladies are diffrent and want diffrent things in life they all want to be treated good but at the same time I fine most women I know also want to have a man that can stand up to them but make them know there safe and not in a mean way. but remember they like you or they don,t so trust me on this. when you find a good woman no matter what allways treat and respect her for her self and keep her close to your heart because the good one's are hard to fined just like a good man is | |
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| What does it take to please a woman?
Posted: 10/29/2007 8:41:49 PM | | I still say it's about communication... because what "pleases" one woman in or out of the bedroom is different from anothers... isn't that part of getting to know someone and finding their interests, likes, dislikes.... | |
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| What does it take to please a woman?
Posted: 10/29/2007 8:53:56 PM | | It's extremely hard to try to please any woman. If you don't know how to please a woman, your chances of trying to date a woman is impossible in my opinion. | |
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| What does it take to please a woman?
Posted: 10/29/2007 9:17:47 PM | In general... good luck lmao
In the bedroom, not with your penis. That's pretty much your little gift from her to you when you get to use it. In return you should use your hand(s) or tongue on the g-spot and clitoris. It's easier if you do this and bring her to orgasm first before your own orgasm since you're not spent/tired. Nice guys finish last... in bed. | |
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LWK
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Joined: 7/10/2006
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| What does it take to please a woman?
Posted: 10/29/2007 9:19:47 PM | Treat a woman the same way that you'd like her to treat you . If she responds well to this you've found a good match . If you go around trying to individually cater to what each one wants as in how you act, dress, treat them etc. you lose yourself in the process .
JMHO
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| What does it take to please a woman?
Posted: 10/29/2007 9:30:55 PM | Be yourself,,well unless you are a b*stard..then that is bad advice..
Be self confident, If you arent happy with yourself , forget it
On a date, compliment them..but not too much..
try to actually look at her face, not her breasts,
All your problems at work..they dont care
Problems with Ex wife..they dont care
VERY IMPORTANT...Make them laugh...
AND MOST OF ALL DONT TELL THEM YOU POSTED 'WHAT DOES IT TAKE TO PLEASE A WOMAN?? On Plentyoffish as that is clearly a lame grab for attention and making women think you are caring
Also dont have a profile with the following: Standard lines that guys think women buy (Missed classical music, travel and cooking )
"I enjoy all sorts of activities whether it be going for a long bike ride or just going out to watch a movie.. I enjoy spending time with my family and friends...
I enjoy the outdoors, going for a hike or canoeing, as long as I'm taking in the fresh air and scenery... I also like going to dinner, a movie, and dancing..." | |
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| What does it take to please a woman?
Posted: 10/29/2007 9:48:13 PM | be yourself....we can tell when you aren't........if we aren't impressed with that....there's really no pleasing us....
oh, and a pizza usually does the trick too......big n' sloppy n' cheezy..... | |
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| What does it take to please a woman?
Posted: 10/29/2007 9:54:32 PM | For me personally ~ "dressing to impress" doesn't do a thing. It's what's inside that matters and the outter shell is just that. Work on the inside of you ~ the outside is just fine as it is. Find yourself, and the substance within, the right woman will see that much as you do. Otherwise, keep working on looking good and keep attracting the same types of women. There are stunningly attractive women who prefer a man with character over a man with perfectly manicured dressing style and hair. JMO  | |
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| What does it take to please a woman?
Posted: 10/29/2007 10:23:30 PM | | First things first, since none of us has actually accompanied you when you were with women it is tough to stay on top of giving you pointers on what you may be doing wrong. Ok, acting the part of a gentleman is probably your problem. You can't be ACTING anything. Women have a special sense for the ingenuine behaviors that we men exhibit. You have to be yourself. Dress how YOU are comfortable. What will most please a woman are going to be your genuine qualities shining bright. They can find guys that are phoney all day, everyday. Be yourself! If you don't know who it is that you are, the real you, ask your friends what things about you they like, then stress those qualities when talking to women. If you don't have any friends to ask then you may want to consider getting a dog. They are genuine, they have no preconceived notions about who they are, you can learn a lot about self confidence from dogs. | |
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| What does it take to please a woman?
Posted: 10/29/2007 11:51:24 PM |
I am open to meeting new people, dress to impress, and act the part of a gentleman... What am I doing wrong?
Based on that statement, I'm thinking you're spending a lot of energy seeking their approval. That pretty effectively makes you look like a wuss...and what woman is attracted to that? | |
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svj
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Joined: 9/15/2007
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| What does it take to please a woman?
Posted: 10/30/2007 12:48:42 AM | goodgirlhasbeencaught has it right, I think.
Communication is the key to everything. Inside the bedroom and out.
But you have to learn to speak her language. It's much different than ours.
If you can communicate with her, she will fulfill your desires.
If you can communicate with her, you can make her swoon.
If you can communicate with her, you can make her entire body tingle with a single touch.
If you can communicate with her, you can light her whole world on fire.... | |
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| What does it take to please a woman?
Posted: 10/30/2007 1:39:17 AM | In my experience, i find that in this day and age women are becoming just as fussy and shallow as men, in regards to being extremely particular about a mans looks, the size of his wallet and what sort of job he has. It never used to be so, romance of course plays a big part in the process the difference is whether the woman is more inclined to wanting emotional happiness and peace or is materialistic and wants the best of everything and also the status associated with being with an alpha male.
Culturally i find that women in Asia, America, Russia/Eastern Europe, the UK and Australia will all have different expectations in regards to the Bedroom, Sexuality and simple pleasures. | |
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| What does it take to please a woman?
Posted: 10/30/2007 3:21:01 AM | a sense of humour is important and being able to laugh at yourself is a bonus...
im not trying to criticize you coz you seem genuinely confused about trying to please women, but i get the feeling that you are being a little 'rigid' and too focused on what 'she' wants rather than just relaxing, being yourself and enjoying who you are in her presence...good luck | |
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| What does it take to please a woman?
Posted: 10/30/2007 4:23:00 AM | hummm, maybe you are over the top on the gentleman part.Are you relaxed and comfortable in your actions? or do you open the door with a big show of effort? And on a date, do you keep a ridgid distance or are you too touchy? There is a big diff between opening the door at close range, maybe even touching her shoulder, and running ahead and holding it to allow her into the building.
Then again some women are embarrassed by too much "show". Or feel its an act! Is this the way you always are, or just on a date? | |
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| What does it take to please a woman?
Posted: 10/30/2007 4:31:42 AM | A couple of ways to please, well, this woman:
*Do not focus your entire side of the relationship into pleasing me. Do what you want to do some times and I will do the same.
*Never make me feel like I need to ask you permission to go out and do what I want.
*If I cook something that you like, tell me and more importantly, if I cook something that you don't like then tell me. Don't lie to me about the cooking... it is annoying...
*If I get dressed up to go out somewhere, or even if I'm in my regular clothes, go ahead and tell me how I look before I ask.
*Oh, and the biggest thing, (this has happened in my two most recent relationships both lasted around 3 yearsish)... Do not quit your job to spend more time with me. I'm not your mama, I'm not going to support you.
Oh, and don't be overly concerned with how you dress, personally, I'm more concerned with whats underneath. | |
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| What does it take to please a woman?
Posted: 10/30/2007 7:11:12 AM | Easy: content, clarity, couth.
Some personal favorites: independence, integrity, intensity.
(laughing) oh yes: heat, humor, hubris and that rightly-timed humility.
Everybody's got some Bud. If you're open to new experience and, as you say, know how to act the gentleman (manners are useful) - the rest is what you own or develop. Communicative skills (there are all kinds), pick a few; and maybe work on honorable, confidence builders that are just for you - combination of independence and ability to communicate can be a big draw. | |
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