jumpy
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| do gay relationships work and how to get one Posted: 11/2/2007 7:16:24 AM | hiya im gay and have never slept around and would never do so. ive been hurt so i know how it feels. but i was just wondering if gay relationships work, im not so sure if they do.. is it because men are more pormiscuous ( i mean more sexualy active) wot do you think?????????  | |
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| do gay relationships work and how to get one Posted: 11/2/2007 8:29:27 AM | I'm afraid darlin relationships are the same ,whether your gay ,straight or whatever.If you meet the right person it works ,if you don't it hurts.Main thing is keep the faith,don't let the bad guys get ya down.Pick yourself up dust yourself off and keep trying. | |
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| do gay relationships work and how to get one Posted: 11/2/2007 5:32:55 PM | I would say so.
I have an uncle and a cousin who were with their respective partners for over 30 years.
As far as 'getting' a gay relationship, I imagine it's like 'getting' a hetro relationship.
You meet some-one of the appropriate persuasion, are mutually attracted, and things develop from there. | |
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| do gay relationships work and how to get one Posted: 11/3/2007 3:29:09 AM | You can't change who you are.Whether you are gay,or straight,relationships can be complicated.
Saying all gay men are promiscuous,well that is just a stereotype.
Do whatever feels comfortable for you. | |
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| do gay relationships work and how to get one Posted: 11/3/2007 6:09:11 AM | As others have said, relationships are the same whether you are gay, straight or bi.
One note though, your profile on here has a pretty sexual overtone (such as you being a horny devil and not jumping into bed on the first date but maybe the second etc.). Maybe you are attracting the wrong type of person.
You need to look at the signals you give out. | |
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| do gay relationships work and how to get one Posted: 11/3/2007 6:19:13 AM | | I have a few gay female friends and they have all the same relationship problems as straight people. I had a couple of gay male friends who were in a long-term relationship and were really well suited (the dreaded AIDS got one of them I'm afraid and I lost contact with the other - lovely fellas). | |
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| do gay relationships work and how to get one Posted: 11/3/2007 6:30:43 AM | Its all the same Gay or not , you have to work on a relationship... ". TRUST " ' being the most important factor in any relationship,... after that its a give and take situation... dislikes and likes have to be worked out,,,,But, if your in lOVE, it should all fall into place esaily....especially if your both mature people !!!,.......... Its a scary world out there what with all the HIV,... etc.... and the person has had unprotected sex ,,,,,thats where the word TRUST is so important... that person should let the other know !!!.... if you have sex with someone, your going top bed with all the people that person has slept with !!!!..... Before getting into a live together situattion, I would insist on getting tested by the family doctor !!!.... that way no one will have to worry... Good luck ...........  | |
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| is it true all good looking men are gay ?.... Posted: 11/3/2007 6:41:06 AM | Hummmmm ,.. the same can be said for all good looking women... Who the hang knows !!... it seems people just do their thing..... its like the president of IRAN said ... " there are" NO" gays in my country !!! .....  what a twit !!!,,..... I have personally heard that many very beautiful women are often Gay !!!.... | |
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| is it true all good looking men are gay ?.... Posted: 11/3/2007 6:56:59 AM |
is it true all good looking men are gay ?.... No..... it god damn well is not ! I have nothing against gay people but some just wont take the "i'm straight leave me alone" statement seriously, I get 'hit' on at least 2 or 3 times a night in my city by gay guys and sometimes they wont leave me alone, forever coming out with sexual inuendo and getting in 'my space', i really do feel for good looking women it must be twice as bad for them getting hit on by bar bums the whole time and there are alot more straight guys around than gay one's ! | |
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jumpy
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| is it true all good looking men are gay ?.... Posted: 11/3/2007 12:40:30 PM | | hi well first of all im bi been with both guys and girls tend to be more for a guy but dont get me wrong like both right now iam no in any kind of a relationship with ther sex but if was to find the right male or female would be very happy with ether one and do enjoy the company of a male at times and did truly enjoy it so if any guys that are near my home town to be afaridto stop in and say hello | |
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